Posted by nanobot
I feel like I'm the only person in the world who doesn't like her music at all
Posted by MyStarsShine
Which aspects in the natal chart do you think represent optimism, i.e. when you spend time with someone and you feel uplifted and inspired?
I see positive Jupiter aspects to the sun, maybe the conjunction, sextile and trine?
Posted by SkeletonPosted by alexscariesPosted by Skeleton
Leo placements and air mars.
It's 50/50 for me I've met Leos I couldn't stand, others we got on really well.
Now im thibking back, Leo placement really doesn't do well for me at all. Even a stellium Leo got me irk of their self absorbed one..
Air mars r untreetrunkable for me n really stubborn of argumentive that roll my eyes out. Though with my ex bf (who has mars aqua), at least we learned from each other and have some agrument in proper way.
Also adding to the list, scorpio mars n mercury. Nopeynope.click to expand
Posted by Basorexia
Air and water placements.
I try to like you but it's very difficult.
Posted by blvckphvsePosted by saggurl88Posted by blvckphvsePosted by Antiphates
Anything major water. It's okay and without problems if there is a basis of trust or just good faith but without it they tend to jump to conclusions way too much and are downright horrible with communication.
The end result is often fighting over nothing but something they thougght might be there but never bothered to check or just ask. In that sense water energy has always been the most exhausting and negativity spreading energy.
Damn... you're not wrong.. Luckily I have Gem Sun, Merc & Jupiter, so definitely not horrible with communication, but guilty of the rest. And now looking at it from the outside, it's a really butterty way to be :/
The thing with major water placements, is it's easy to get this way with a sign that doesn't show their hand because water placements sometimes need at least an inch of some type of emotional response. We want to sense things. It's easy to get lost in translation with Aquas because of the natural rebellion they have that water placements feel. This is pretty confusing, at least for me it is. And I'd rather not ask, if it isn't supplied or upfront. It's supposed to be shown when a person cares. This is why water placements aren't for everyone.
I love my water placements. I'm super in touch with my emotions and those who deserve how caring I am get the right amount of them with no complaints at all. I'd rather a person be accepting of me then the other way around.
But I'm not negative with mine because of my positive sun.
Do you have a water moon? Is yours negative?
Relate heavily to what I have in bold there.. I rely on what they say and their actions, so if they are holding back, I make a butter ton of assumptions in my head instead of asking.. I don't even know why.. Pride, ego maybe..
But I do love my water placements too. I feel they add the depth my Gemini Sun needs.
Scorpio Moon in a Water house - 12th
Water House Sun - 8th
Scorpio Rising & Pluto + Scorp & Pluto dominant
Cancer Mars & Venus
I'm watery as butter!! And I tend to be of a negative mindset. Part of that is due to being raised by a negative mother and adopting her ways. Breaking free of my negativity is a large focus for me right now.. trying to rewire my brain to be more positive.click to expand
Posted by virgoOPPP
like there's always some kind of tension?
i think i finally know why i hate libra placements so much. it's coz of my FIRST HOUSE! they never get my jokes and i never get theirs. and they don't understand that i live in a bubble where it's all about me and everything that's an extension of me. and they like to fight me using elements that i do NOT recognize such as rumor-mongering and social destruction when i'm a treetrunking introvert. hell i'll only really be responsive to your opinion if it furthers my own theories. they can't seem to mind their own business and all i care about is mine. they malign other people's character but all i care about is mine. they think my motives for doing things are the same as theirs which is stupid coz mine is mainly pure self-absorption and they're always motivated socially (yes even the ones who claim to be introverted).
and i don't see anything wrong with this coz it's my nature. how do i fight what nature laid out? why should i bother them about their own nature? and self-absorbed-people never bother other people but nor do they get out of their way to make you comfortable. but it's always these socials and their need to mingle that rubs me wrong.
i will make a thread about libra/aries axis in the future to discuss differences yet similarities as well. how both sides are after validation but in very different ways.
Posted by QueenofthepheasantfairiesPosted by WateryGem
For me, I think they will see that look in my eyes and I actually get really nervous when I start to feel like I am falling for someone. That butter is scary!! Lol
Another way for me is if I have sex with you making deep eye contact, like I want to merge into your heart and soul.
That sounds like your scorpio venus talking lolclick to expand
Posted by hydorah
BTW the OP's story sounds very similar
Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Brickhouse27
The split personalities. I’m a pisces so I’m more so moody than the split personalities.Posted by MoonbutterPosted by Brickhouse27
Yeah I didn’t understand, I’m just not use to it. It’s very different.Posted by Moonbutter
Put simply, I think if you have to question it then either it’s one of two things; He’s either not falling for you oooor you don’t understand him and or/Gems and that’s an Epcot coaster ride awaiting you 🤣
What are you not used to?
🤔 I get Gemini have that dual personality rep, but I don’t really see it like that because really most people have diff sides to them anyway. What is your Mars and moon? Do you know what his Venus and moon is?click to expand
Posted by Schawq
1) Moon in Scorpio
2) Sun in Cancer
3) Mars in Scorpio (for males)
4) Moon in Aries
5) Mars in Taurus (for females)
1) Sun in Aquarius
2) Sun/Venus in Gemini (for females)
3) Sun in Pisces (for females)
4) Sun/Venus in Aries
5) Venus in Libra
Posted by Diverious
When you say let her go do you mean forever? I don't have a chance? I want to marry her. I was thinking about making Las Vegas a very romantic trip. With dinner with Diana Ross, some concerts, a show, tour to the Grand canyon, give her a promise ring. Is there nothing I can do? When she broke up with me I didn't talk to her for 2 weeks straight. Do I need to wait longer? Or is she just lost forever? If things got better soon I was planning on buying her a house and getting her a car in the next few. Right now she lives with her mom.
Posted by emeraldgem
@WateryGem We make decisions based on the information at that time. I wanted to believe him. Had never seen him cry like that. But he had deeper issues than just the cheating. I always think (maybe arrogantly) that somehow I'll be the one to make a difference. I learned from it and moved on. I hope you can too.
Posted by nanobot
Sometimes. I know a few water dominant gems that stay in dead rships waaaay past their expiration date