Gemini angry when confronted about a lie - does this mean he was or wasn't lying?

Hi,
Ok I know this a bit of a strange question as it varies so much from person to person but I just wanted to know GENERALLY if a gemini male (who always tries his best to remain calm, polite, apologetic and always comes up with millions of reasons to back up something he said/did that could be perceived by me as a lie.. at that point, I was 50/50 on whether to believe him or my gut instinct so it wasn't a massively angry interaction but still quite negative...

However, recently I found out more (or at least I think I did) - he initiated contact politely (due to seeing each other randomly in the street a few hours ago) and I thought it was the perfect chance to tell him what I know about how he's lied - I explained very calmly (no massive insults, no swearing etc.) that I knew he lied about X, Y and Z because of ___ etc.
and he justifies that he is in fact not lying with a counter point BUT this time, he completely blows up at me, saying was I stalking him, getting quite angry, telling me he will block me if I respond (as in argue back presumably) - never has he been so angry when I have confronted but this is the first proper confrontation as I felt the evidence I had for this one was more solid..

So why do you think he got angry? Because I was way off the mark and in fact he was telling the truth so he's angry that I thought he's a liar? OR he was annoyed I finally figured out his elaborate lie and so his "nice man" game is up?

By the way, this is regarding a recent ex (not someone I am currently with) but even after breaking up, no matter how I insulted him, he'd always be saying sorry, explaining his excuses and being polite and slightly jokey but this time, it was very much different...

Any insight would be appreciated! and yes, I know that it is probably impossible to ever no for certain as no two geminis are the same.

You must be a special kind of stupid in that you are constantly throwing shit up in his face .... and then pretending like it isn't the main factor in why he doesn't come to you honestly.

hi aj , check your messages. I wanted to talk further about the combo

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
Its hard to tell. Due to the fact that you've confronted him many times in the past it could be that he finally got tired of your accusations and ended the relationship. Then again, it could also be that you were in fact correct because the truth also tends to anger those who are caught in a lie. So as much as I wish I could provide helpful advice, I cant. Only he knows what really did or didn't happen. I say just take it for what it is and don't analyze it anymore. Just let it go and move on, hopefully to something better.

Thanks for the reply. It's funny how often when I've been doubtful (as in 50/50) about something he has told me, he'd remain calm and polite and keep adding extra lies to reinforce his point as "truth" BUT once, I had solid proof that he was probably lying so when I asked him about it, I did it with certainty (as I had the evidence) and that was the time he properly got angry and even said he'd stop talking to me if I replied with counter points (again he added extra lies to convince me he was being truthful but it was definitely much more aggressive than ever before).

@ pretty score : I've replied to your private message.

Any other helpful answers, especially from gemini men or those who have dealt with gemini men are most welcome.

Anyone have any additional insight? Would be much much appreciated.

Thank you.

Posted by aj123
Hi,
Ok I know this a bit of a strange question as it varies so much from person to person but I just wanted to know GENERALLY if a gemini male (who always tries his best to remain calm, polite, apologetic and always comes up with millions of reasons to back up something he said/did that could be perceived by me as a lie.. at that point, I was 50/50 on whether to believe him or my gut instinct so it wasn't a massively angry interaction but still quite negative...

However, recently I found out more (or at least I think I did) - he initiated contact politely (due to seeing each other randomly in the street a few hours ago) and I thought it was the perfect chance to tell him what I know about how he's lied - I explained very calmly (no massive insults, no swearing etc.) that I knew he lied about X, Y and Z because of ___ etc.
and he justifies that he is in fact not lying with a counter point BUT this time, he completely blows up at me, saying was I stalking him, getting quite angry, telling me he will block me if I respond (as in argue back presumably) - never has he been so angry when I have confronted but this is the first proper confrontation as I felt the evidence I had for this one was more solid..

So why do you think he got angry? Because I was way off the mark and in fact he was telling the truth so he's angry that I thought he's a liar? OR he was annoyed I finally figured out his elaborate lie and so his "nice man" game is up?

By the way, this is regarding a recent ex (not someone I am currently with) but even after breaking up, no matter how I insulted him, he'd always be saying sorry, explaining his excuses and being polite and slightly jokey but this time, it was very much different...

Any insight would be appreciated! and yes, I know that it is probably impossible to ever no for certain as no two geminis are the same.

He was lying. When they try to reverse it back to you, they're lying. He asked if you were stalking him, he basically just told you that he's been caught. If it wasn't true, he wouldn't have said that.

The whole point of him doing that is to make you feel like shit and to take the tension off of him and to project it on you. It's a game. Don't fall for it.

Posted by aj123
Anyone have any additional insight? Would be much much appreciated.

Thank you.

I would assume he was lying if he got that angry. Been there, done that, found out my accusations were true, divorced, , lived to find another love.

its very simple, if this is causing you pain, why not do something happier?