Gemini Men..Do they change?

Hello, I'm new here, I love this website so informative. I have a question for anyone who has been married to, or dated a gemini man. I have been married for 3 years, I'm only claiming one year since the first 2 years he cheated on me, with online profiles, and speaking to an ex girl about our problems. My question is do they change? I am contemplating alot right now. He has been helping financially, and has helped with house things since we got back together. But he is still childish in so many ways, he also he doesnt seem to care if I'm sick or hurt, he doesn't even ask me if I'm okay. Is this normal. Please help!!

personally i wouldn't trust a person after they cheated and i know i wouldn't be able to let it go so i'd have to leave them. it would make me paranoid for the remainder of the relationship.

ive been dating a gemini for about a year and a half and it's been fine. i guess the thing that annoys me about him at times is that he makes light of things that i think are a big deal. i do have to ask for sympathy when i need it because im a total baby haha. if i want soup or nyquil i have to ask for it, he doesn't magically know like the water signs. my gemini does care if my feelings are hurt but again, sometimes its not obvious and i have to tell him which is annoying but it's also not like he goes out of his way to make me angry and if he knows i don't like something he won't continue to do it. are you just annoyed with him not being very sympathetic or is there more that has to do with the prior cheating? was he more attentive before he cheated?

Nope...Love LOVE love Gem's, I get along with both M/F Gem's but man the ones that have issues have ISSUES very deep ones...I wouldn't count on it, My dad was a Gemini with some serious addictions and he passed away with those same addictions. My X is dealing with a serious addiction, recently caught up with him online and he's fighting some demons, gosh I love this sign but when it's bad it's really bad.

Also my X know he's very selfish, he has done some incredibly selfish things to the woman he's now with but he doesn't seem to have the motivation to change...If your X is still childish he most likely will revert back to old behavior at some point, be observant and hope for the best....Good luck

It always seems like a battle between good and evil with him..ur right. He wants the wife and kids, but then he doesn't.

Posted by sagilove
Hello, I'm new here, I love this website so informative. I have a question for anyone who has been married to, or dated a gemini man. I have been married for 3 years, I'm only claiming one year since the first 2 years he cheated on me, with online profiles, and speaking to an ex girl about our problems. My question is do they change? I am contemplating alot right now. He has been helping financially, and has helped with house things since we got back together. But he is still childish in so many ways, he also he doesnt seem to care if I'm sick or hurt, he doesn't even ask me if I'm okay. Is this normal. Please help!!

Hi! I am currently dating a Gemini, we've been together for about 6 months and he is first one I've ever dated. My experience with him is similar, he doesn't ask if I'm alright, he just expects me to take care of myself, be independent, and if I need him, to let him know. I think that's where the answer lies. Not so much in if he comes out and asks if you're alright, because he may be expecting you to tell him if you aren't and he may not realise if you are not well, either physically or emotionally. I think it's more about how he reacts to you when you tell him you are not well. If he tries to make you feel better and shows concern, then he cares. If he doesn't, then he probably doesn't care about you at the level he should for a romantic relationship to be healthy.

When it comes to him acting childish, yes that's a common Gemini male trait, as my partner is the same on a certain level. I don't think they ever truly grow out of this and might very well be one of those things you will have to accept if you want to be with him. I think it depends more if his immaturity is hurting your relationship or if it's just annoying you. Geminis and Aries are the "children" of the zodiac in a sense.

He can help you out all he wants finacially, but if he can't support you emotionally and make you happy...maybe better off with someone who will?

Only you know your relationship best and what the best route to take is, but I certainly hope things work out for you! Hope I've helped 🙂

exactly my thoughts..you might have done something to make him doubt or your communication must be all bad..if he discusses your problems with others that must meen he cares..its probably stuff he would need to talk with you about but something is not allowing him to do so.

You should also think and reflect alot about how YOU are..Gems are good att mimicing..so to say if we deal with a cold person all the time we become cold,often we give back exactly what we get.

Posted by Ccdarling


This pretty much explains Geminis love ideals, at least to me. Both are Geminis and she wrote the song. She is a first decan Gem and he is a third decan gem. Oh Yeah and they were married up until he passed away.

Haha. Funny dubbing.
It's true though, 'I ain't the one' is what always pops up in my mind, but childishly, I have expressed that in all the wrong ways.