Flirting and flattery

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by sunnynight on Monday, February 2, 2009 and has 10 replies.

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@sunnynight
20 Years

Do Gemini guys love falletry?I know they LOVE flirting and being flirted back..^^I have a new friend in chat who's a gemini and we always have great fun together conversing and singing songs..We chat for like 4-5 hours wehen we have time.I don't know why but I just tend to flatter him whenever the mood is in..lol(Actually I should be the one loving flattery as I am a leo^^which I do)

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@Perfect Gem Angel
18 Years500+ Posts

The young Gem male I know VERY well, he is 20 this May, he eats it up, and he is not mature enough to commit as much as he would like too, he is a natural player. HE will eat up flattery and flirting, and do what he pleases w/these young woman, and thinks its all fair play.........womanizer too, Bad BOY!

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@sunnynight
20 Years

He is younger than me and I am curious about his behaviour,we have become really good friends in a short time and it's a fun friendship relationship really.I am interested because he's a Taurus Gemini cusp.He has started showing his emotional side to me lately.Yesterday he told me about his childhood and why his opinios about marriage has got spoiled because of his experience with his family..I wonder wheather geminis are emotional??Well he's not really emotional all the time but I would say he's really understanding compared to his lively and childish behaviour! Any opinios Gems??

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@oddball73
18 Years500+ PostsVirgo

Hey sunny, About 3 - 4 months ago I made friends with a gem / taurus cusp guy, and like you, we will chat for hours on end and it's usually loads of fun 🙂

He seems to like having a bit of a harmless flirt, and whenever he gets a compliment he totally laps it up haha 🙂 Sometimes I don't wonder if it's not all about the chase with these guys, he seems to go to great lengths trying to get me to be closer to him / where he wants me I guess, but i'm not sure - I just have this niggling feeling that once these guys feel like they could have you if they wanted you, they'll be gone in a flash. But that could be me being paranoid :p hahaha!

I have made jokes at him being a smooth talker, then he gets really serious on me haha and points out exactly why that was a ridiculous thing for me to say...Lol. In all he seems pretty decent though 🙂

How old if you don't mind me asking? I think maturity plays a big part when it comes to gems (my bro is one, but he settled down reasonably young and has never been a player).

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@sunnynight
20 Years

I agree! He also seems decent and be both never cross the border.And I completely agree with
''I just have this niggling feeling that once these guys feel like they could have you if they wanted you, they'll be gone in a flash.''He's 21 and wants to be said 'you look elder than your age'but in reality he's a baby face with heary of a lively kid...^^

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@GeminiFlirt
17 Years

yes gemini?s love flirting and flatterly I know I do!!!
but Im a girl though...
I would suggest that you flirt, but still let him chase you..
I luv chasing around 😉!

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@sunnynight
20 Years

He says he finds me really witty and brainy.When you say chase what exactly do you mean?Well I am not 100% available every time he logs in so He's waiting for me most of the times but when I reply he logs off suddenly and says sorry next time we are online..and asks me if I am angry? When I say"No way,why should I be?" he gets disappointed..lol He's really funny.I don't know what he exactly wants...Being a gemini yourself,can you geminis tell me what's all this about??I have started liking this actually...lol

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@sunnynight
20 Years

When I message my gm friend,he does not answer and after a day or 2 he suddenly turns all nice to me and we have like 5 hours chat...What does it mean? It has started to annoy me actually...lol and yeah..When people say 'like the chase' What do they mean exactly? Does it mean I should ignore him next time he sends a message?? Does he want me to get angry or something? I think he wants me to say,yeah I am angry coz you ignored me..lol I really don't know what to do anymore...plz gems any thoughts??

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@sunnynight
20 Years

Rally gemgirl? Does it mean he does not want to talk to me anymore? I still am stuck in the situation..Should I ignore him next time? and stop talking to him completely?

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@sunnynight
20 Years

Thanks a lot Gemgal and lana!!!!!!!!! You don't even know how much better I am feeling now I have made a decision based on experience and mostly your advices!! Ha..Thanks for helping me,really appriciate it!!