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Geminis actively preferring long distance relationships?
I have not noticed this...... At all.
Posted by tizianiLol!Posted by misslissaLol I wonder what the definition of "a lot" is here
I have not noticed this...... At all.click to expand
Possibly.....
"A lot"=one
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Posted by CruellaWhiteThanks for your helpful reply - yeah I do think it might be because it'll make it easier for them to have a "dual" life i.e. more partners, two separate lives..
My mind went to.....wants more than one honey.
And retaining freedom with less perceived commitment or delayed commitment.
Though it happens these days social media that is just a fact.
I don't know I had noticed with gem guys though.
as with one, he even said that if/when he gets married, he'd want to work at least 6 months per year in a different city (which I know sometimes happens by chance but to go out of your way to aim for this right from the start of the marriage is a bit strange...)
To everyone questioning: I've heard of at least 4 gemini males who display this behaviour (yes, it isn't a massive sample size lol and it might not be just geminis who do this, maybe aquarians and sags too but I don't know many of them)
More replies very welcome.
I read somewhere that emotionally unavailable people tend to actively seek out long distance relationships so maybe the ones I've met just have been emotionally unavailable.
Is this the same gem sun/mars, cancer moon/merc/venus guy who is 9/10 years older than you—
Mmm I've done it. But I will add it doesn't usually work and the main reason is we simply require too much attention and with someone being far it is unlikely they can provide it without getting tired. Takes equal commitment, and before the Gem bashers show up let me just add -it is almost always the other person who can't provide. If a Gem is serious enough about you they will wait but in the meantime you have to keep our mind engaged.
Posted by aj123You seem to know for fact, the intimacies of all the Gems you know who date in ldr's ..... it's one thing to have been told, but, you said, "actively prefer", which sends the image in the viewing audiences mind that you are present and in the know of what they actively pursue. How odd that you would know a person's preferences.
I've noticed a lot of gemini males (esp. those who have had a history of many relationships), seem to actively prefer to date those living at least 2 hours away. Obviously, I know sometimes it just happens by chance but if someone's relationship history is 90% long-distance ones (not even ones which started nearby and then one moved but was long distance from the beginning) - is it to retain their freedom? to lengthen the "honeymoon period" as they often tend to get bored easily? to get the chance to frequently explore a new city?
You seem to want to find a fault here, rather than have practical thought. This day and age, the norm is online acquaintances vs. real life ... so naturally, people will have more cyber relationships than they will in the flesh. Especially, with our economy, where it's cheaper to date in an ldr.
though, I'm not condoning them ... merely stating the obvious
Oh, and btw, if you know 4 Gems who do this, and only know 4 Gems ... then that statistic is 100%
In my personal opinion ..... if I had a suitor, and s/he ONLY dated on online, then my radar would go up.
And not because I would automatically suspect their intent is nefarious ... much like you here, and the responders who confirmed your mindset, rather because I would realize that this person has no real-life experience in dealing with a girlfriend.
Just like I would never desire a virgin of anything ... I want someone who knows what they fuck they're doing ... with everything that comes with being my partner, not just sex.
If a guy you like has never dated a woman in the flesh, and has always depended on being able to hide behind a computer/text screen when the going gets tough/real ...... then he has no real experience in handling you when your chips fall.
Posted by littlemegabyteslol most likely!Posted by gemguyaz34I don't think we require too much attention 😛 is your moon speaking lol
Mmm I've done it. But I will add it doesn't usually work and the main reason is we simply require too much attention and with someone being far it is unlikely they can provide it without getting tired. Takes equal commitment, and before the Gem bashers show up let me just add -it is almost always the other person who can't provide. If a Gem is serious enough about you they will wait but in the meantime you have to keep our mind engaged.click to expand
I was talking to a gem man and he lived 500 miles away, so ya possibly!
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