Geminis dealing with their lows

Hi fellow gems, how do you deal with your sudden mood changes? I'm on a bit of a low and actually been for the last couple days due to guy problems which at first i thought nothing of...

How do you get out of being sad and demotivated?

i go through this often. some would call it fighting our demons.

usually i find something i enjoy and go do it.

i workout a lot and it burns off so much frustration. it also makes me too tired to give a crap about the other stuff so i can sleep and not dwell on it all night long.

even with the above, i still find myself analyzing a person to death who hurt me or just trying to get through the moods. sometimes i'm fun and cracking jokes, then other times, i'm moody and want to be left alone.

physical work helps me wind down but mental clarity is hard. I have to work on this for a long time with someone I loved and eventually purge them from my system. It's a very tiresome endeavor and can tear at the heart.

Allowing myself to tear up and go through the emotions is the start to healing. For me, it's personal. It's hard for me to share this with my husband. Not because he doesn't care or wouldn't be fine with me doing this. It's me. I don't like going through that in front of people period.

When someone you love dies, there is a process you need to experience first hand. If you don't allow yourself to go through each step of grieving etc., you will never heal. It took me years to get over my mother's death.

I also listen to music that makes me feel uplifted. some music also makes me feel emotional, and then the cycle starts over.

i find that writing copious thoughts on paper or typing my thoughts with various angles on the scenario helps.

Gemini's need communication and understanding. If we don't have both, we can't heal.

Posted by gemini64
i go through this often. some would call it fighting our demons.

usually i find something i enjoy and go do it.

i workout a lot and it burns off so much frustration. it also makes me too tired to give a crap about the other stuff so i can sleep and not dwell on it all night long.

even with the above, i still find myself analyzing a person to death who hurt me or just trying to get through the moods. sometimes i'm fun and cracking jokes, then other times, i'm moody and want to be left alone.

physical work helps me wind down but mental clarity is hard. I have to work on this for a long time with someone I loved and eventually purge them from my system. It's a very tiresome endeavor and can tear at the heart.

Allowing myself to tear up and go through the emotions is the start to healing. For me, it's personal. It's hard for me to share this with my husband. Not because he doesn't care or wouldn't be fine with me doing this. It's me. I don't like going through that in front of people period.

When someone you love dies, there is a process you need to experience first hand. If you don't allow yourself to go through each step of grieving etc., you will never heal. It took me years to get over my mother's death.

I also listen to music that makes me feel uplifted. some music also makes me feel emotional, and then the cycle starts over.

i find that writing copious thoughts on paper or typing my thoughts with various angles on the scenario helps.

Gemini's need communication and understanding. If we don't have both, we can't heal.

Thank you so much for sharing your personal experience, sending love your way and appreciate the suggestions

Ooh girl I feel ya.

With these fiery/earthy placements.

It ain't easy.

I had a tough/emotional week.

The pendulum does swing side to side.

that's how life goes.

I do believe things must come undone in order to begin something new.

Welcome to the Geminian life style ! Lol

Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
Ooh girl I feel ya.

With these fiery/earthy placements.

It ain't easy.

I had a tough/emotional week.

The pendulum does swing side to side.

that's how life goes.

I do believe things must come undone in order to begin something new.

Welcome to the Geminian life style ! Lol

I feel like i'm so irrational sometimes and it's hard not to make decisions while in that state. My brain / heart / whatever is telling me to do whatever is necessary for me to feel good in that moment and once i got a promise of something i no longer want it. Not all the time of course but i get cray cray like that.

If only my cat was more affectionate with me this morning maybe i'd be ok hahaha

Posted by Gemsgem
Hi fellow gems, how do you deal with your sudden mood changes? I'm on a bit of a low and actually been for the last couple days due to guy problems which at first i thought nothing of...

How do you get out of being sad and demotivated?

Locking myself up in a dark room and spending life on dxp.

Posted by gemini64
i go through this often. some would call it fighting our demons.

usually i find something i enjoy and go do it.

i workout a lot and it burns off so much frustration. it also makes me too tired to give a crap about the other stuff so i can sleep and not dwell on it all night long.

even with the above, i still find myself analyzing a person to death who hurt me or just trying to get through the moods. sometimes i'm fun and cracking jokes, then other times, i'm moody and want to be left alone.

physical work helps me wind down but mental clarity is hard. I have to work on this for a long time with someone I loved and eventually purge them from my system. It's a very tiresome endeavor and can tear at the heart.

Allowing myself to tear up and go through the emotions is the start to healing. For me, it's personal. It's hard for me to share this with my husband. Not because he doesn't care or wouldn't be fine with me doing this. It's me. I don't like going through that in front of people period.

When someone you love dies, there is a process you need to experience first hand. If you don't allow yourself to go through each step of grieving etc., you will never heal. It took me years to get over my mother's death.

I also listen to music that makes me feel uplifted. some music also makes me feel emotional, and then the cycle starts over.

i find that writing copious thoughts on paper or typing my thoughts with various angles on the scenario helps.

Gemini's need communication and understanding. If we don't have both, we can't heal.

So true and deep. Like I want to give you a hug and I am not much of a hugger...lol

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Posted by Gemsgem
Hi fellow gems, how do you deal with your sudden mood changes? I'm on a bit of a low and actually been for the last couple days due to guy problems which at first i thought nothing of...

How do you get out of being sad and demotivated?

Locking myself up in a dark room and spending life on dxp.

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Sending you love honey! we do need our solitude sometimes.. It's been a while but sometime ago i went away for the weekend to the coast and sat at someone's granny flat i rented on airbnb, went for walks, to the beach, got takeout and just spent time on my own... So good once in a while 🙂

Posted by Eddie_Vanjovi
Shit transits. Hold up and wait till you feel better and reapproach.

Don't even act on situations emotionally.

So please tell me more about this frigging transit...

I am feeling like I want to...