Gemini's I need your help!

Hey everyone I'll try to keep this short and to the point.

I'm a scorpio / cancer moon, my ex is gemini / capricorn moon. He confuses me so much. Basically, he says he loves me but he lost interest and he's disappointed in himself because he didn't fight for me, but he just stops caring and he doesn't know why. He thinks he knows what he want's but he just can't stick to it because he never knows how he's truly feeling? I'm very emotional, needy at times and ready to commit. I'm not sure if that scared him or what, but is there any way to get his interest back in me? He seems so frustrated because he doesn't know why he just stops caring, but he still has love for me. We hooked up last night and I got emotional. I told him I love him and I know I can't make him love me, but it just sucks. He asked me if I could ever forgive him and I said of course, I already do because I love you. I know I need to stop being so overbearing with my emotions, but it's so hard because I feel so much for him.

Any advice would be great! Thank you 🙂

Any help?

You're right. It's just so damn hard. We were together for 3 years and were living together, I thought he meant it when he said he wanted a future with me. Damn gemini's are so confusing, it just makes me want them more 😢 I guess I'll need to try and move on. I hope we can still be friends.

Posted by jessslanee
You're right. It's just so damn hard. We were together for 3 years and were living together, I thought he meant it when he said he wanted a future with me. Damn gemini's are so confusing, it just makes me want them more 😢 I guess I'll need to try and move on. I hope we can still be friends.

After three years he still didn't know what he wanted?

I think he needs to know himself better and find out for himself whether he wants to be committed or single. Just guys just aren't ready to settle down and commit. They might try to convince themselves they are, but deep down they're not. Like intellectually they know they should, but their gut instincts tell them they're not.

Good luck sweetie.

Oh, for the record, I'm not a gemini and I don't have any gemini placements. I answered based on him just being a man in general.

Thank you

Geminis are fickle and unpredictable I am noticing...but you've been together a long time. If he's not in love anymore well....seems its time to move on! Or just act like you don't give a shit and see if he pursues you...its always good to make em chase..

I know this is going to sound crazy, but delete his number and all social media. Let him go. If you two run into each other than its meant to be. The world will naturally bring you back together if it's meant to be.

The best advice I could give you in this case is to leave him now.

He has practically initiated the break up...if you are able to give him the boot you'll spare yourself a lot of heartbreak.

I found out that is easier to break up with someone when you are angry with them. Make a list with everything you hate about the situation he brought you in. Get yourself ANGRY! Be outraged about him every day. He doesn't even have to be present.

Your survival instinct will kick in. You'll get out of this relationship feeling ALIVE and ready to kick. If you want to remain friends, do it at a later time when you are healed. He will actually respect you more if you show some guts....besides, Gems love drama queens.

If you wait till he dumps you, it will feel far worse for you and he will not respect you enough (especially if you cling after) to be your friend.

Posted by questionoflustquestionoftrust
I know this is going to sound crazy, but delete his number and all social media. Let him go. If you two run into each other than its meant to be. The world will naturally bring you back together if it's meant to be.

Haha! My ex Gem did that.

And guess what....the world will not naturally bring us together....it brought us once and he threw the chance away! If the "world" tries....I know it will not succeed. Because I'm the queen of my own world, the master of my soul 😄 And I say NO!