Gems and Sex

Hello Gems!
Gem sun, Scorpio Rising, Virgo Moon, Gem Venus here!

How open minded can you be when it comes to sex? Is it a big deal for you?
Do you get intimate soon, or you prefer to wait?
How do you wait?

Ive been back to the dating atmosphere, and im struggling big time with this topic.

You're an obvious player.

You should be struggling big time with guilt.

@p-angel

go be a bxtch somewhere else...like the pisces forum...

your comment doesn't even make sense...dummy

Posted by Tete
Hello Gems!
Gem sun, Scorpio Rising, Virgo Moon, Gem Venus here!

How open minded can you be when it comes to sex? Is it a big deal for you?
Do you get intimate soon, or you prefer to wait?
How do you wait?

Ive been back to the dating atmosphere, and im struggling big time with this topic.

It depends if it feels right. All of us are different. The more we know you, obviously the more comfortable we are. We really don't regard sex as that big of a deal. It's kinda like a side thing for some of us. But i'll give you a big hint...connect to the mind. And don't do it through manipulation, we have a very observant mind and can tell the difference of whether or not you are genuine.

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by Tete
Hello Gems!
Gem sun, Scorpio Rising, Virgo Moon, Gem Venus here!

How open minded can you be when it comes to sex? Is it a big deal for you?
Do you get intimate soon, or you prefer to wait?
How do you wait?

Ive been back to the dating atmosphere, and im struggling big time with this topic.

It depends if it feels right. All of us are different. The more we know you, obviously the more comfortable we are. We really don't regard sex as that big of a deal. It's kinda like a side thing for some of us. But i'll give you a big hint...connect to the mind. And don't do it through manipulation, we have a very observant mind and can tell the difference of whether or not you are genuine.

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Thank you gemguy, for me sex is kinda big deal. Connecting to mind, sure, hard not to for me. 🙂

Posted by gemguyaz34

Posted by Tete
Hello Gems!
Gem sun, Scorpio Rising, Virgo Moon, Gem Venus here!

How open minded can you be when it comes to sex? Is it a big deal for you?
Do you get intimate soon, or you prefer to wait?
How do you wait?

Ive been back to the dating atmosphere, and im struggling big time with this topic.

It depends if it feels right. All of us are different. The more we know you, obviously the more comfortable we are. We really don't regard sex as that big of a deal. It's kinda like a side thing for some of us. But i'll give you a big hint...connect to the mind. And don't do it through manipulation, we have a very observant mind and can tell the difference of whether or not you are genuine.

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I agree with you about connecting with the mind first. THAT is huge with me. If you can't stimulate my mind first, anything physical will be a waste of time.

Where I disagree with you is your comment, "We really don't regard sex as that big of a deal." Maybe you don't as a man but as a woman, I do. I value my integrity and my needs. And I never gave them to just anyone. The result, I never got burned like a lot of ladies do now days who see sex as a quick fix to get some instant pleasure.

I've been happily married for 17 years, and have 3 Gem friends who have similar marriages.

Posted by blackphase

Posted by Tete
Hello Gems!
Gem sun, Scorpio Rising, Virgo Moon, Gem Venus here!

How open minded can you be when it comes to sex? Is it a big deal for you?
Do you get intimate soon, or you prefer to wait?
How do you wait?

Ive been back to the dating atmosphere, and im struggling big time with this topic.

I am very open minded about sex. Not sure what you meant by is it a big deal.. What aspect are you referring to there?

I tend to get intimate very soon once I begin dating someone, I have a very difficult time waiting.. However I am not one to sleep around. I only become sexual with someone that I am in a relationship with or am intending to be in a relationship with, but the sex always happens fairly quickly.

Gem Sun, Scorp Moon & Asc, Cancer Venus & Mars.

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Yea what you said is what I meant by I don't consider it that big of a deal, meaning I'm not desperate that I'm on a mission to seek it out. I only want it with the right person but still I feel like I need to have a mental connection to you.

I suppose air signs must be really good in bed with all those sensual thoughts. When sex is linked up mentally + physically = wholesome experience.

Well,

If i dont like the guy, i will no go to bed with him.... not in a million years.
But if i do, i will want to get intimate very soon.

It is a big deal from me, cause if the sex is bad i lose interest right away, i dont care how much we can connect mentally, if the guy lacks the passion and witty ways in bed i will wander off in the long run, this had happened to me before.

Posted by P-Angel

You're an obvious player.

You should be struggling big time with guilt.

Did you ever consider becoming a therapist? You always have such deep, wise advise.

I'm Gem sun & venus with Scorpio rising and Pisces moon. I've had casual sex and it honestly wasn't that good. I mean it was fun (with a couple of them) but I think I mostly just did it because I was bored haha. Sex is definitely better when I have feelings for the person and we connect. Also I'm kinda kinky, so if sex becomes a routine then I'll lose interest. If I like someone I'll get intimate quickly but if/when I ever become single again I'm done with casual sex, those motherfuckers can earn it lmao

Hey! I am a gemini sun too! Though I have an aries moon so I am a bit straight forward with what I want with men. Sex is a big deal to me too, I think it's because my mars and rahu is located both in the 7th house that deals with partnerships and so forth.To be honest, I am not a really patient person to wait, hence the aries moon I have in the first house. So usually I am not in a relationship because I rush it often. Also if I am waiting for someone I must really like them cause I rarely wait for anyone in relationships. I am estimating that possibly a year is the longest I could wait.