Are scorpios good or bad listeners in relationships?

I always think I'm a good listener, but I'm constantly being told I never listen! (even tho I can repeat everything that person just said…for the most part)

Posted by thinktoomuch
Bad. I have spend 4 years trying to understand something and saying "okay NOW I get it", and on some levels I got it, I mean I got the logistics of it, but I didn´t feel it. 4 years man!!!! So maybe not bad at listening, but bad at really understanding, ´cause we´re stuck in our ways.
... Maybe that´s just a female thing... Or a human thing....

Bad at understanding…definitely.

Posted by YellowSubmarine
Meh.. you listen, yeah. You remember shit.. but from my experiences, y'all don't actually change behaviour based on what's being asked/said.

Not hating, I do the same a lot of the time actually.

Is that what listening is?!?!
Then yea, I'm a terrible listener.
I'm trying to get better, but it has to mutual.

Whe people say "you don't listen" hat they might mean is that you don't act on it. Sometimes I listen perfectly well but still think what the otehr person is saying is wrong - and I do whatever I like and I feel is right.

I think Scorpios are great listeners...I know quite a few and always go to them first if I have an issue.

Scorpios do listen but sometimes its selective hearing.

I think I can be great listener, maybbe not the best in my own personal relationships, but good listener to friends and such that need to vent and not have things repeated.
But then in some situations, I'm only a good listener when it's something that I wanna here....

whoops ... *hear*

I feel like I interrupt sometimes.. And listening is much more than remembering and hearing what a person is saying. Are you accepting and understanding and do you apply what you are being told.

Scorpios are very good listeners,they understand too and they are also good at reading between the lines and @ hearing what u are not saying.-stellium in scorpio

But they hate small talk,so when u are talking to them u better have something reasonable and serious to say.

You may be listening... but are you REALLY listening is the question!!

Scorpios are great listeners as well as great advice givers in any relationship(s)!! 😄