gems jealous?

I never thought gems get jealous, but I learn something new about you guys every time I hang out w my gem girl friend.

So yesterday I asked jf she could take a picture of her other girl friend and I. Just a friendly thing. She took the pic in like 2 seconds, neither of us were ready and I didn't see a flash. She says "ok done". As a scorpio I notice that she seemed annoyed or.., jealous. Her friend also noticed and said "she didn't take the picture" and proceeded to give her own phone to some stranger to take a picture. It was pretty strange and I was honestly annoyed and thought it was childish.

The thing I find weird is that she makes friends through her other friends (her friend introduces her to someone else) but what's the problem with me taking a picture with her friend?? I've been known to call gems shady, but come on this is just strange. Is it jealousy?? Or what?

You're GF is simply immature. I've been married for 16 years and don't have a jealous bone in my body.

Posted by Lust
Yes, gemini is a human too, who has feelings just like the rest of us. They do get jealous but not going to be overboard like other water signs do.
They get over that very fast, just like sagittarius.

I have one that has been jealous of me for years.

When my gem ex and I first got married, he was extremely jealous. Willing to knock someone's lights out based on an false assumptions. It was irritating to me, but I think his girlfriend before me lived for that kind of stuff and set him up to react that way (to her it meant he cared). So maybe it was a learned behavior....

Posted by truecap
When my gem ex and I first got married, he was extremely jealous. Willing to knock someone's lights out based on an false assumptions. It was irritating to me, but I think his girlfriend before me lived for that kind of stuff and set him up to react that way (to her it meant he cared). So maybe it was a learned behavior....

Or he has a cancer moon, so I suppose that water moon perhaps...

As a person I don't get jealous. But today I've been accused of trying to make someone jealous. Which again is just insane lol!

thanks for all your feedback, im really late on looking back at this!

i find gems to be an enigma, and i have given up on understanding. i think its best that way, although i could never fully trust her (scorp talk 🙂 ) but when things like this happen it kind of shocks me.

i definitely took her actions as possessive, or jealous. of what or why, im not sure. i did find it very childish and selfish though.. i mean she basically pretended to take a picture and it was obvious she was irritated. as a scorp, these things dont just fly by me, although for her other friend she just let it go quick.

funny thing, too, is that i ended up looking up her chart. she has a whole lotta gem in there (venus, sun and mercury). i swear sometimes i wonder about astrology and how i end up friends or in a relationship with certain people. boggles my mind lol

Posted by TokerX
I wouldn't call Gemini possessive either. But we are protective, something a Scorpio should have no trouble understanding. Even though the one I want thinks I'm territorial when I'm only being supportive and protective. I find that at heart Scorpio and Gemini aren't that different at all. They just have different ways of going about things. But then again, I'm a Scorpio moon, so it could just be me.
Geminis will probably never fully grow up and have the spirit of a child, but this is just childish. No idea why she would do such a thing. Geminis can be selfish though. 😉 She might've felt bad for not being in the picture with you, that's the only thing I can imagine. Given the fact that she let it go so quick just means it didn't mean a lot to her. Something you, as a Scorpio, could learn from her: letting go. 😉

Haha, I think my life lesson is learning how to let go.
I am very fixed, and letting go comes VERY difficult for me, so i admire it in others.
I must say, though, that with saturn in scorpio i have been tested ALOT and have learned to let go.. and its becoming easier for me.. and it feels goood! But I will never master this trait 😉

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Posted by aNEWday
thanks for all your feedback, im really late on looking back at this!

i find gems to be an enigma, and i have given up on understanding. i think its best that way, although i could never fully trust her (scorp talk 🙂 ) but when things like this happen it kind of shocks me.

i definitely took her actions as possessive, or jealous. of what or why, im not sure. i did find it very childish and selfish though.. i mean she basically pretended to take a picture and it was obvious she was irritated. as a scorp, these things dont just fly by me, although for her other friend she just let it go quick.

funny thing, too, is that i ended up looking up her chart. she has a whole lotta gem in there (venus, sun and mercury). i swear sometimes i wonder about astrology and how i end up friends or in a relationship with certain people. boggles my mind lol

Honestly, nothing has hurt me worse than this. I had the same problems with my Scorpio ex. He never assumed the positive and always assumed the negative.

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for me it takes one little thing to lose full trust. yes, i am a naturally skeptical person and i know its not a good thing overall
its like if one little thing happens i make a mental note about that person and tell myself to never fully trust them, because if they can mess up on something so small, i do not feel like that person deserves to know deeper things or too much about me. we are just very protective of ourselves

I expressed this thought much more eloquently in some previous post, but I feel that I'm TERRITORIAL, not jealous. I don't run around looking for reasons to question my husband's loyalty. However, if I see a woman behaving in a way that shows that she obviously means to be a threat, then I make damn sure she knows who's man he is! I do trust HIM, though, so I'm not jealous of his affections...just territorial around other women who have intentions.

My guy who is a Gemini Sun/Taurus Moon/Cancer Venus, is a bit dramatic in his jealousy. If I miss any of his calls, I get interrogated when I do finally speak to him. It's sometimes a bit annoying to always have to explain myself/have an alibi but overall I wouldn't change it =)