yamilette7410
@yamilette7410
10 Years
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Got screwed over by a Gem...confused.
My best friend tells him not only did she have no idea he was interested, but that the "smash piece" thing was disgusting. He replies, "I'm not saying that I do.....I'm just trying to say she shouldn't feel special. I actually thought yamilette7410 was a nice innocent little girl before I actually met her up...lol. I don't like bad girls 🙂"
Then he tells me hey, because he knows I'm watching/seeing the screenshots.
"i'm sorry that I found Sammi very attractive the first day I met her over you. Sammi has a very nice ass too. and I watched it every time she turned around to go back to her notebook 🙂 she's also thick and very beautiful...tell her I said that" My best friend tells him to stop trying to use her to make me angry and to leave her alone. Naturally, he does not.
"but you do have a nice body lol. I promise swear everything....cmon you know that....i like thick girls.....she thinks I'm trying to fuck you like I did her but I really wanted to take you on a date cause your face is beautiful" My best friend, while still rejecting him, said she heard he was "small". Which...isn't a lie. He replies, "yeahh I guess I do lolol but only when yamilette7410 doesn't want it, right? ahahahahaha but when she does its huge hahahahahahaha"
She tells him calling her thick makes her feel bad about her weight gain. "wait really? why lol...you just have a nice body.....just don't get fat lolololol....I would keep it....like I said, I watched that ass everyday 🙂 i thought it was awesome that you were a gamer too....even though yamilette7410 said she was too.....yamilette7410 is weird she brought me home to her godparents like the first time I chilled with her...." Which is true, but he didn't have to take me back to my house, he didn't have to stay as long as he did, and he didn't have to tell me how cool my godfather was...
Then he tells me hey, because he knows I'm watching/seeing the screenshots.
"i'm sorry that I found Sammi very attractive the first day I met her over you. Sammi has a very nice ass too. and I watched it every time she turned around to go back to her notebook 🙂 she's also thick and very beautiful...tell her I said that" My best friend tells him to stop trying to use her to make me angry and to leave her alone. Naturally, he does not.
"but you do have a nice body lol. I promise swear everything....cmon you know that....i like thick girls.....she thinks I'm trying to fuck you like I did her but I really wanted to take you on a date cause your face is beautiful" My best friend, while still rejecting him, said she heard he was "small". Which...isn't a lie. He replies, "yeahh I guess I do lolol but only when yamilette7410 doesn't want it, right? ahahahahaha but when she does its huge hahahahahahaha"
She tells him calling her thick makes her feel bad about her weight gain. "wait really? why lol...you just have a nice body.....just don't get fat lolololol....I would keep it....like I said, I watched that ass everyday 🙂 i thought it was awesome that you were a gamer too....even though yamilette7410 said she was too.....yamilette7410 is weird she brought me home to her godparents like the first time I chilled with her...." Which is true, but he didn't have to take me back to my house, he didn't have to stay as long as he did, and he didn't have to tell me how cool my godfather was...
He gives her a list of places, and says if she wants him to take her out, to let him know, and says he's sorry his jealous friend is in the way,
As I dragged him for filth over text, he tells me it was FWB, I defined it, and I shouldn't push it.
NO. NO, YOU PIECE OF SHIT. HE TOLD ME, HE TOLD ME, THAT WE WERE GOING TO KEEP IT AT FWB TO AVOID ANY PROBLEMS. I think this boy was mad that I didn't want to throw all my other options and just fawn myself over him. I asked him, even, if he wanted to date, and he said no. I DID NOT DEFINE IT. I told him at one point, "You're a fucking idiot. No wonder you stay single." And he replied. "I'm better off being single than being a whore 😉"
I threw my phone at the wall. Pet peeve. To be called a whore after he gets what he wants. He texted me Friday morning, saying, "yamilette7410, I'm really sorry for what I said. I said a lot of things to make you mad on purpose. Sorry, you don't have to acknowledge this text either, I just have to apologize."
I haven't responded, because he apologized for what he said, but not for what he did. I think he's sorry he got caught trying to poorly execute a power grab.
Should I gather this Gem, somehow, and let him have it again, accept his apology, or stay silent?
As I dragged him for filth over text, he tells me it was FWB, I defined it, and I shouldn't push it.
NO. NO, YOU PIECE OF SHIT. HE TOLD ME, HE TOLD ME, THAT WE WERE GOING TO KEEP IT AT FWB TO AVOID ANY PROBLEMS. I think this boy was mad that I didn't want to throw all my other options and just fawn myself over him. I asked him, even, if he wanted to date, and he said no. I DID NOT DEFINE IT. I told him at one point, "You're a fucking idiot. No wonder you stay single." And he replied. "I'm better off being single than being a whore 😉"
I threw my phone at the wall. Pet peeve. To be called a whore after he gets what he wants. He texted me Friday morning, saying, "yamilette7410, I'm really sorry for what I said. I said a lot of things to make you mad on purpose. Sorry, you don't have to acknowledge this text either, I just have to apologize."
I haven't responded, because he apologized for what he said, but not for what he did. I think he's sorry he got caught trying to poorly execute a power grab.
Should I gather this Gem, somehow, and let him have it again, accept his apology, or stay silent?
just stay silent, dont respond. It will eat him up gems dont like to be ignored, plus why give someone like this any attention?
I've been active on social media so he gets I'm ignoring him.
Was he mad I wouldn't tell him who else I was dating and hooking up with? Was he looking to smash my best friend because back when he asked me if the "session" was good, I said no? Was it because I wasn't down for the threeway he asked me for on Tuesday? Was he mad that i wasn't throwing away all my other options for him, that I was telling him that he was easily replaceable (when he suggested a threeway, he joked and said the best girl ((FMF)) would win, and I told him I don't compete, I'd just kick him to the curb and move the next one in line up)? Or is he actually the biggest douche ever and genuinely wanted to smash my best fried?
I want to know why. I'm over him, he's dead to me. But I want to understand why he felt compelled to try a power struggle with me? Isn't a power grab with a Scorpio generally not a good idea? Sigh. I just want to understand why. I have a lot of unanswered questions. I know it may not matter, but it's bothering me that I wasn't anticipating this. Where did this all even come from, on his end?
Was he mad I wouldn't tell him who else I was dating and hooking up with? Was he looking to smash my best friend because back when he asked me if the "session" was good, I said no? Was it because I wasn't down for the threeway he asked me for on Tuesday? Was he mad that i wasn't throwing away all my other options for him, that I was telling him that he was easily replaceable (when he suggested a threeway, he joked and said the best girl ((FMF)) would win, and I told him I don't compete, I'd just kick him to the curb and move the next one in line up)? Or is he actually the biggest douche ever and genuinely wanted to smash my best fried?
I want to know why. I'm over him, he's dead to me. But I want to understand why he felt compelled to try a power struggle with me? Isn't a power grab with a Scorpio generally not a good idea? Sigh. I just want to understand why. I have a lot of unanswered questions. I know it may not matter, but it's bothering me that I wasn't anticipating this. Where did this all even come from, on his end?
I cannot begin to tell you guys how floored I was about his stupidity.
I lied about not telling my friends on purpose, because I *originally* thought he might fish her to see who I'm dating or hooking up with, or how I feel about him. He believed I was being honest with him.
Even so, common sense says you should avoid the best friend.
As I was yelling at him, I made it clear it was FWB, who he smashes doesn't matter, but
THAT'S. MY. BEST. FUCKING. FRIEND.
NO. NO NO NO NO.
I lied about not telling my friends on purpose, because I *originally* thought he might fish her to see who I'm dating or hooking up with, or how I feel about him. He believed I was being honest with him.
Even so, common sense says you should avoid the best friend.
As I was yelling at him, I made it clear it was FWB, who he smashes doesn't matter, but
THAT'S. MY. BEST. FUCKING. FRIEND.
NO. NO NO NO NO.
Um...w o w
Yea hes a douche. Fuck him. Just ignore him. Dont let him see you upset. That means he got to you and he will know that.
There's no way you were anything more than sex to him. This is not a test or game. Hes just a bop. You would be BEYOND STUPID if you hook up with him again. Hopefully you dont.
If it were me id be watching my friend too. That'd be foul if she did get with him
Yea hes a douche. Fuck him. Just ignore him. Dont let him see you upset. That means he got to you and he will know that.
There's no way you were anything more than sex to him. This is not a test or game. Hes just a bop. You would be BEYOND STUPID if you hook up with him again. Hopefully you dont.
If it were me id be watching my friend too. That'd be foul if she did get with him
Tell me about it MayDay31. The first thing I texted my other Scorp best friend was "I have been fucked over to a degree I'm not familiar with."
This is my second time being screwed with by a Gem and it's really frustrating. I really thought acting all detached and like I literally didn't care about him except for sex would be the way to keep both parties satisfied. If only I had know all this before I had a crush on him...smh.
I would block him on all my social media but I need to keep tabs on if he decides to go after any more of my friends. I would hope this experience scared him but he may try something else out of sheer stupidity. I have no plans of hooking up with him. He's a complete piece of shit. We were gonna smash this weekend and had plans for a rendezvous until he decided to throw me under the bus. I highly doubt he wanted to take my best friend on a date.
Oh, my best friend got back together with her ex that day, so, critical mistake. There's a bounty on his head by her boyfriend. She's a Virgo and has always been loyal to me from day 1. And the worst way to approach her is sexually, and that's exactly what he did. Not smart, at all. She considers him dead and worthless as well.
This is my second time being screwed with by a Gem and it's really frustrating. I really thought acting all detached and like I literally didn't care about him except for sex would be the way to keep both parties satisfied. If only I had know all this before I had a crush on him...smh.
I would block him on all my social media but I need to keep tabs on if he decides to go after any more of my friends. I would hope this experience scared him but he may try something else out of sheer stupidity. I have no plans of hooking up with him. He's a complete piece of shit. We were gonna smash this weekend and had plans for a rendezvous until he decided to throw me under the bus. I highly doubt he wanted to take my best friend on a date.
Oh, my best friend got back together with her ex that day, so, critical mistake. There's a bounty on his head by her boyfriend. She's a Virgo and has always been loyal to me from day 1. And the worst way to approach her is sexually, and that's exactly what he did. Not smart, at all. She considers him dead and worthless as well.
busyeyes88, idk, but I hear Gem and Scorp, 9/10 times, is just a bad idea. Or I'm just attracted to douchebags. That's easily possible as well.
moongem, he's already 21. He's got a long ways to go....
moongem, he's already 21. He's got a long ways to go....
moongem, I'm grateful this happened before the FWB REALLY got going, most likely my feelings would have deepened. Luckily, he's left me alone on social media, and has left my friend alone as far as I know.
Sex was actually trash though, mostly because opposites in bed (want different things when it should be the same/wanted the same thing when it should be different).
Would have been short lived.
Would have been short lived.
Yes, I am also on the Sag board, because I give people the benefit of the doubt that they don't always match their zodiac sign to the T. Zodiac signs are guidelines, not absolutes. Everyone gets one fair chance, regardless of good or bad match, because it would really suck if someone passed on me because they thought I was bad match for them as a Scorpio.
I believe in the golden rule, and life is funny, you just never know.
I believe in the golden rule, and life is funny, you just never know.
Posted by yamilette7410Bad sex? Ugh.
Sex was actually trash though, mostly because opposites in bed (want different things when it should be the same/wanted the same thing when it should be different).
Would have been short lived.
Delete from life. Next.
LMAO, tell me about it. Who really texts their hookup TWO DAYS after and asks for a performance evaluation? Like...boy, you knew. Don't play with me.
He's long gone. Son of a bitch. Still salty about what he did tbh. Not in an emotional hurt way, but what a motherfucker. Sigh.
He's long gone. Son of a bitch. Still salty about what he did tbh. Not in an emotional hurt way, but what a motherfucker. Sigh.
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Two key points: First, when we met to hookup the first time, I mentioned my best friend (we all had a class together) broke up with her boyfriend. Secondly, on Tuesday, he asked me via text during a conversation if I told any of my friends about him. I said no, because FWB is meant to be kept quiet. We're not dating, so it's not important. Later, it will make sense that he screwed up by trusting me.
The same day, he adds my best friend on Facebook. She didn't want to accept but I told her to, because he might fish her for information. Unfortunately, it was exactly the opposite. He told her he heard from "a friend" (and specifically mentioned I'm a freak to her) that she was single and he wanted to take her out on a date to get to know her. Before asking her out, he asked her if she could keep a secret, and she said she was bad at keeping secrets, but he told her (my best friend, like, why wouldn't she come back and tell me) anyways. My best friend tells no, thank you, but to enjoy sleeping with me. And he told her it was a one time thing, after making plans with me for this weekend on Tuesday, after he texted me asking for a "favor", if you will. So I'm quite amused, but my anger is growing. He tells her to NOT tell me it was a one time thing. I start texting the Gem and drag him for filth. Scorpios. when mad, well.....you know. He got mad at my best friend for "blurting it out and ruining shit." With me, it was a one-time thing and he didn't care to ask me out on a date, but with her, it's different. Mind you, he added her on Facebook two days ago, and they never spoke or texted outside of class. This all went down on Facebook messaging.
He tells my best friend I'm mad because I'm jealous, and tells her to just act like this all never happened. He tells her he wasn't trying to smash her, but he wanted to take her on a real date "outdoors," and to keep me calm because I'm REALLY mad right now. My best friend, for the win, says, "Understandably." He said he never said he liked me and it's obvious I liked him, and if he wants a smash piece he can hit up a number of girls...."idk why she felt special."