Do Gemini's flirt in a committed relationship?

So, I've been with a Gemini for a long while (a year, that's how long!). However it is a long distance relationship which I'm totally fine with. The thing is, my Gemini will disappear from time to time due to whatever reasons or stuff that's happening in his life, usually it's due to a funk that he's in. Though he tells me that he's committed to me and want to be with be, the trend I'm noticing is that all the while he's doing the disappearing act, he'll start chatting up other girls on social websites, not so much to me. Giving them compliments on their looks, their character, what he likes about them

Now to me commitment means making the other person feel like you are their one and only, it makes a person feel special, you know? It just puts me on edge and makes me dreadfully insecure because at the same that he's not communicating with me (and believe me, I've tried communicating with him only to get one word responses), he's flirting with other girls or at least making time for other girls.

Is this how Gemini naturally is? I can understanding finding lots of people attractive, but once he's in his own world, suddenly other people start to appear. I feel bad. Both for him and myself, that he should have a fairly jealous partner and have a wandering eye. Getting a straight answer out of him is out of the question, completely. You know how Gems get when you need an answer and it comes out like gobbledy gook. Is this Gemini's naturally are?

godamit. 😢

Posted by xycake
What is flirting?

Ex.: "I've always liked your posts. I wanna go to London one day. Remind me to bug you while I'm there." -She lives in london. Annnnd, pic of cute girl with innocent self-deprecating comment: "Oh stop it, you're cute."

yes they have that reputation for that + (not saying that all gemini are this way , many astrologers describe gemini to be this way or even as a liar or manipulator ) but everyone is different

yes, its more of a compulsion...doesn't mean any disrespect to our partners. Gems like to make people in general feel good about themselves, that they are just as important as the next person. Gets us into trouble a lot, but it doesn't usually mean anything beyond that. Tell him if it bothers you, and he'll probably tone it down but not stop it. Gems dislike restrictions and will become resentful without directly letting you know.

There's nothing that you can't tell a gem...very understanding people who allow others to be who they are.

Oh Ya! My ex gem would say I'm just friendly!! Ok bullshit ya big flirt!!!

Yes, Geminis do flirt a lot

Even though it doesn't mean anything

I'm a Gem moon/venus. To be honest with you "Now to me commitment means making the other person feel like you are their one and only, it makes a person feel special"

Posted by RiverLee
I'm a Gem moon/venus. To be honest with you "Now to me commitment means making the other person feel like you are their one and only, it makes a person feel special"

Yeah, I agree with you. He just sounds like he's being a friendly person, not really flirting

I'm NOT a big flirt but I don't at all when I'm in a committed relationship. 🙂