How long does it take you to say I love you?

Just curious, and please provide your Venus, Moon, and Mars.

When its meant, and not spoken for the sake of reciprocity, 3 - 6 months. I've said it because the boy said it first, and always regretted it. If I don't know by the 6 month mark, its not really going to change. Time to just call it quits. I'm talking 6 months in an active relationship though (not counting long distance, courtship, friendship etc).

I said I love you when I was drunk...
I meant it as a friend, but I could see myself loving him to be honest.

Gemini, Taurus, Aries

As long as it takes. Every situation is different and I've never really kept track of how soon or how long it's taken me to say it.

Venus gem
Moon cancer
Mars cancer

Posted by AirMan
to be perfectly honest with you, i tell nobody that i love them. when in actuality i really only love myself. but if someone tell me they love me first and ask me do you love me, then i'll tell them yeah.

Damn that's cold as shit why wouldn't you just be honest? AirMan I bet I could make you fall in love 😉 LOL jk

I think for me it just depends on the person. They have to have a certain intellect and way about them that I really like. I have to feel the same in return. Usually for me it has to be a friend I have known for a while before it goes to the next level otherwise I tend to have trust issues and it would be hard for me to just let someone close to my heart like that. I am up front however about what I want and what I expect in return so I give them the chance to decide what they want before anything serious may develop.

Venus In Cancer
Moon in Leo
Mars in Gemini

I tend to notice those of us with Venus in Cancer have a mind set of "it's either there or it isn't" and if it is you will certainly know it one way or the other. 😉