how to get a gem to say something reaL!

im talking to this gemini, for about a month now..im a pisces aquarius rising scorpio moon...and hes a gemini pisces rising sag moon...we get along great and the sex is great!


i know he has feelings for me...but i tried once to talk about it and he just avoided the question at all costs and kept diverting the convo...

i totally expected this to be a casual thing, but im starting to really like him and after he left me hanging i decided to ignore him..

2 days later of texting and getting nothing back...he comes into my work with a few of his friends acting like a king or something and wanted to hang out..

anyways...after everything we are totally fine and had a great past few nights..im moving to florida in august and im not looking for a relationship but he was the one who after the first time we had sex said that he wanted to be exclusive with eachother....whatever that means to a gemini

basicallyy i just want him to open up to me....even just a little bit like a sentence of something real that actually means something to him about me because even though i know this is w.e for right now i dont wanna be wasting my time..and the dreamer in me believes that we could be something more.......if only he would let it.

what to do geminis?

i agree with Lana. my father is the same way with any woman, including me. whether it's a romantic relationship or just women friends. it's sickening to see it go on.

"In their minds they are God's gift to the world!"

it's so funny that you say that. my father will tell you he is the second coming of Christ. literally! lol. he believes it too lol.

"The only thing that could be done is to cut all the ties with your father and never look back and never fall for "Your my little girl and I love you so much" followed by another stab in the back once you give in."

yep!! you are sooooo right!!!

how to have them say something real...
hmm tough one...im dating a gem 🙂... and I know ALOT gem guys...and they are all pretty straight to the point, they say whatever is on their mind...but then again I'm a gem girl...myf riend said one day that only gem women udnerstand gem men lol....

communication is the key though 🙂 although im a gem girl Im pretty sure gem men like it too...just communicate with him alot..let him know ur thoughts and he'll open up

Posted by lanathegreat
They are slick and tricky and huge manipulators. Their goal is to conquor, not to stay! They will be talking out of their arse about how you are the only one and how they want to be exclusive after the first date just to see your reaction.

I don't any difference with the male versus female with the above description .... it appears to me that the women will also lead a person on.

Yes, it is .. however, GemGals answered, and in this answering, they cannot do so from a male perspective if it is believed that the male and female Gemini are so far in difference of each other.

So, I was pointing out that this trait is apparant in both genders ... so, though this may be asking a question of a man Gem, the reason why GemGirls can relate so relatively, is because this is a shared characteristic.

So, essentially, it's irrelevant to say this is about the Gem man exclusively, and relevant to say it's about a Gemini in general.

Posted by CombatingMyGeminiSister
Gem men are bastards.

They are amazingly fun friends but terrible mates. Don't even call him anymore. They generally only like the chase, not the prize.

And you're a Pisces, you're sensitive, you probably will get crushed with hope(lessness).

Harsh and not true! My girl of three years says that I'm probably the only Gemini that understands the depth of her emotions. I could write a book on how to make a relationship between a Piscean and a Gemini work.