How very very rude!!

You know i have never known any Geminis in a romantic sense, still don't as such, BUT recently began chatting one in a way that might have been leading to a possible romantic development. Howeverrrrrr, he told me just on Friday that a female friend of his (who is 10 years younger exactly, shes 22), had told him that shes falling in luurrvvve with him. So i say well isnt that great, go for it, yeeha etc etc. I was just asking him there how was his weekend and he says "cool, he spent most of it hanging about with that chick, and took her to pick up a new puppy but he hasnt reached a decision about what do romantically". Hold up, is he suggesting that i might be the other option, surely it cant be?!! What can i say that doesnt make me sound like a jealous, stroppy fool, but also leaves him in no doubt that i am NOT up for that. My libra eloquence is letting me down badly right now, dang!!

LOL! He's saying the same thing about you, to the other chick.

Be wary.

Yeahhh, but i dont love him!! And to be honest im thinking the only thing I can do is tell him that any interest I had has gone BOOM!! And fuck it, im a woman, not a girl in her early 20's who is addicted to posting selfies on Facebook!! Im a queen 🙂

I have a feeling you are equipped to handle this. Believing you are the queen that you are is half the battle- and you've already done that part! The other half is showing him that you're one.

Yeah, he bored me to death already. He`s not able to keep up with my quick mind..disappointing!

Posted by Sola
You know i have never known any Geminis in a romantic sense, still don't as such, BUT recently began chatting one in a way that might have been leading to a possible romantic development. Howeverrrrrr, he told me just on Friday that a female friend of his (who is 10 years younger exactly, shes 22), had told him that shes falling in luurrvvve with him. So i say well isnt that great, go for it, yeeha etc etc. I was just asking him there how was his weekend and he says "cool, he spent most of it hanging about with that chick, and took her to pick up a new puppy but he hasnt reached a decision about what do romantically". Hold up, is he suggesting that i might be the other option, surely it cant be?!! What can i say that doesnt make me sound like a jealous, stroppy fool, but also leaves him in no doubt that i am NOT up for that. My libra eloquence is letting me down badly right now, dang!!

LOL hold up. Just because he is telling you about this doesn't mean he is saying the same thing to her....He may think you are interested so he is letting you know that there is someone else he is involved with. Gems get a bad rep for big egos and saying wayy too much. Honestly, he is just letting you know incase you have secret amounts of love for him..that he is not available fully. We take a while to settle down...it is sucky but for some reason or another I was the same way and I am a female. ...I would just keep your own options open for now if you so desire and dont give him too much attention.

Yeah, I appreciate what he said, he just didn`t say it the right way! I just told him that for me, if something was gonna happen, it would have done so already, carpe diem and all that. We had things planned more than a couple of times that werent seen through for his various reasons so now to try and force a situation because im no longer interested would just be so awkward. He tried to justify his situation, which is completely unecessary, if you`re going to do something..DO IT!! Or the ship will sail...!!

I'm confused - You're making it sound like you're completely over him. If that's the case, then what does any of this matter? If you find him boring, and uninteresting, then why even be talking to him at all? Unless you're intent is to be friends?

I would just blatantly say "Hey, you're a nice guy, but it's just not there for me romantically." The door for friendship is always open - and you're not coming across as a bitch either.

But honestly I'm getting a jealousy vibe from you.

Posted by Sola
Yeah, I appreciate what he said, he just didn`t say it the right way! I just told him that for me, if something was gonna happen, it would have done so already, carpe diem and all that. We had things planned more than a couple of times that werent seen through for his various reasons so now to try and force a situation because im no longer interested would just be so awkward. He tried to justify his situation, which is completely unecessary, if you`re going to do something..DO IT!! Or the ship will sail...!!

Yeah I feel you. Like these other ladies said, if you still want him around as a friend he will totally enjoy that. So bring it up and say hey, we do get along, let's stay friends. Now with that might come the occasional vent about other girls he's messing with...but that's what friends are for right? 😉 If you're seriously not interested in him romantically, then be friends. Easy as that. Plus, it will save him the burden of trying to stay open with you about other girls when he clearly doesn't have to.

and making plans will be easier for you too...no pressure on his part....

This is why friendships with guys don't tend to work out. They are usually waiting in the wings and pretending to be your friend. And yes, I agree with the other poster, that he might well be saying the same thing to another woman. He might be playing the field but you're a player on his team. Or he hopes you will be. Cut bait and swim. You don't need a pretend friend or to wonder about their true intentions.

I dont need friends, so im not bothered to maintain anything, even on friendly terms. It definitely wasn`t a jealousy issue because there is nothing for me to be jealous about. Beyonce says "since im not your everything..hows about i`ll be nothing (at all to you)!!" Thats right, thats how i roll these days 🙂

Yes I think amongst any person...it is hard to have friends of the opposite sex. They usually keep you around for some reason or another and don't let anyone tell you different! Women do best with true, sincere and good hearted woman friends. Learn to cook together...everyone loves food that is not stated for stereo typical "gender role" purposes either! 😄 Happy Easter Weekend

P.s. women help each other grow....fact