Gemini through Heart Break ?!!

Well Geminis can each of you tell us how he handels a Heart break or an end of Love relation ship ?
It's seems for us it's easy to break up or move on but you know that our overthinking and our sens of care make it more difficult . Each time I get out of a relationship I get a lot of wounds because I'm the one who takes the decision of breaking up . So it's like paying the price for our freedom . People just think we are so unemotional and quite robots which it's not true . I just like to act strong and I leave it for time to heal my wounds , it's difficult but it's working each time . Tell us your stories xoxo

I guess it depends. If I really care for the person but it just didn't work out I'd be really sad and probably need some time to myself away from everyone. But if it's one of those situations where the feelings are gone and I'm wondering why I'm still there... then I'd just be glad it was done and over with.

I handle them poorly. I get depressed and lay around. Usually at 3 months I start to bounce back. But even then it still feels like a long process. I know a lot of gemini women who can just find another guy and not think twice about it right after a serious relationship. I'm not like that at all. I can't even look at another guy.

Maybe it's my cancer venus/mercury? Scorpio moon?

Posted by myloveyourlove32
I handle them poorly. I get depressed and lay around. Usually at 3 months I start to bounce back. But even then it still feels like a long process. I know a lot of gemini women who can just find another guy and not think twice about it right after a serious relationship. I'm not like that at all. I can't even look at another guy.

Maybe it's my cancer venus/mercury? Scorpio moon?

Same case for me , I guess it it's due to my Pisces Descendent ( Oh god why -_- ) I feel like really depressed and empty inside , and sometimes I swear that I'll never get into a relationship again or ever fall in love but after while of not caring , I bounce back and I feel like '' Did I mention it's mating season :p ''

Posted by GeminiPixi

Posted by myloveyourlove32
I handle them poorly. I get depressed and lay around. Usually at 3 months I start to bounce back. But even then it still feels like a long process. I know a lot of gemini women who can just find another guy and not think twice about it right after a serious relationship. I'm not like that at all. I can't even look at another guy.

Maybe it's my cancer venus/mercury? Scorpio moon?

Same case for me , I guess it it's due to my Pisces Descendent ( Oh god why -_- ) I feel like really depressed and empty inside , and sometimes I swear that I'll never get into a relationship again or ever fall in love but after while of not caring , I bounce back and I feel like '' Did I mention it's mating season :p ''

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lol yea I go through about the same thing.. but now I even joke at myself 'yea..I swear I won't be in a relationship again - even again .. but wait - then I know I have said this many a times already lol.. okay for now I am thinking this - but I know it won't last for ever lol.. someone will come into my life again - and I think I will be cheerful and playful again.. but till then - I will have been sulking! brooding! crying! lol..'

I know it shall pass, too - just not much a fan of that passing period lol..only I could skip that and mmmmmmm how would my life be easier..? :p

But There is one thing I couldn't understand , while we are an air sign based on our brain so much why emotional things are so bitter to us . Is that due to our oppression against our feelings ?

I think that may be it. Even if i am going through a hard time with a loved one I feel a deep anxiety and depression. It's hard because we do feel just as much as a pisces would and love just as deeply, too. It's a good thing we can overlook them and keep ourselves sane through it all. But at the same time...we may hide it, but I know i fall hard and when I realize it's not gonna work out, Temporary lapse of civilization.. 😢