I'M BAAACK! And dating a VIRGO Man.. HELP!!!!

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Hey guys!!! Who missed me!?!?! Okay.. so I'm back.. and guess what? I'm dating a Virgo guy and EVERYTHING is just A-amazing! Surprising eh?

His chart.. Sun: Virgo, Moon: Libra, Mercury: Libra, Venus: Leo, Mars: Aries, and Jupiter: Gemini!

Mine.. Sun: Gemini πŸ˜› , Moon: Aquarius, Mercury: Gemini, Venus: Gemini, Mars: Cancer, Jupiter: Gemini!

ANNNDD.. We share the same Numerology number, and its a Master number too! It was like god put us together for a reason! He treats me soooooo good, and we hanged out 4 days in a row.. he was actually with me about an hour ago, but left because he had a lot of work to do (he works from home and is a DJ). He's amazing, and we have SO MUCH in common its unbelievable! Next month we already planned a road trip just to get away from it all! He shows me so much affection, and its just so natural! Today he told me that we are moving fast but it feels natural and we should continue what we have! He's so protective and such a strong supporter and he's so cool to hang out with. What do you guys think, will it last? How's his chart with mine? GOOD huh?!?! I've always wanted a Virgo man and I finally got one! A good one too! He's far from distant, the only time he ignores me is when he's working! He calls and text me every single day.. So Far.. haha, I'm so happy πŸ™‚
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Posted by Lust
Welcome back!! I knew exactly who you are_β€” . I'm Lust, am new here. It took me like a year before finally joining in. I had read all your post previously. You are a funny girl,,,
I am a libra, kind & nice only to people who deserve it, however I can get impatient with the dumb one.
Nice to meet you GeminiVixxen,,,,




My sons a Libra! I love them! Thank you love πŸ™‚ yes I am the infamous Gemini Vixen, the REAL GV! Not a troll πŸ˜› welcome! Nice to meet you Lust!
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Posted by gemeliorist
hahaha....young'un, slow your row. Hi GV. He is watching you. Always.

Still, he's got lots of air and fire in his chart which is really nice.




Hey Gemeliorist! Yup! Omg.. he CONSTANSTLY gives me that Virgo stare, and hes clean as HECK! We were hanging out at his place and his brother smoked a ciggerette in his room and some ash's went on the floor.. boy.. did he snap? He got the vacuume to clean up the ash's then before you knew it he ended up cleaning his WHOLE ROOM AGAIN! (It was already clean)! lololol.. he's a sweetheart though, yesterday I went to the eye doctor to get my eyes checked, and he drove me there like a sweetheart
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Posted by GeminiVixxen
Why aren't any of my fellow Gemini's answering my questions.. and wooow.. so many new people are here, so they have no clue who I am 😒 ah well πŸ˜›



I know you GV and always appreciate the presence of a great Gem. πŸ˜‰ The Virgo's are all a bunch of debbie downer control freaks. So I also posted the following response to your OP on that melancholy board. It will make sense when you read it.

GV, i get where you're coming from because I'm a gem. We like to share our joy and happiness because we radiate. It's in our DNA to express ourselves when we are most happy.

With that said, this is the Virgo board. Most don't get where you are coming from. Read most of the posts on this board. It's about negativity, analyzing everyone to the point of insanity, acting distant and cutting off communication because it's more about being right than being happy; why? because that's what many virgo's do. It's in their DNA.

From knowing both male and female virgos over the years, it's seems that happiness for them is a life long struggle that can only be reached when a certain level of "logic" is attained. It's more an endeavor rather than an emotional experience that recharges us throughout our life, which comes natural for us gems. Sure we have our bad days too. But we soon realize it's a waste of time to dwell on the negative as it literally wears us down. It's refreshing when I read several virgo's who can bring some light into the conversation. There are about 2 VM on this board who do that.

While we gems and virgo's share mercury for communication purposes, we communicate in different manners. That's not a knock on virgo's. It is simply what it is. We are often expressive with words. They tend to embrace subtle communication and or actions.

One thing I've learned over time is this. If you're happy, that's all that matters. While it would be great if others could simply acknowledge your happiness and wish you all the best, some people (not just virgo's) aren't capable of doing that. Some of it is how we are wired differently. Some is how we were raised. And some people honestly are emotional infants who can never get past their own barriers and weaknesses.

Congrats on our relationship. I hope you and your VM continue to develop a strong and lasting relationship built on trust, respect and mutual affection.
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Posted by GeminiVixxen
Why aren't any of my fellow Gemini's answering my questions.. and wooow.. so many new people are here, so they have no clue who I am 😒 ah well πŸ˜›
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I know you GV and always appreciate the presence of a great Gem. πŸ˜‰ The Virgo's are all a bunch of debbie downer control freaks. So I also posted the following response to your OP on that melancholy board. It will make sense when you read it.

GV, i get where you're coming from because I'm a gem. We like to share our joy and happiness because we radiate. It's in our DNA to express ourselves when we are most happy.

With that said, this is the Virgo board. Most don't get where you are coming from. Read most of the posts on this board. It's about negativity, analyzing everyone to the point of insanity, acting distant and cutting off communication because it's more about being right than being happy; why? because that's what many virgo's do. It's in their DNA.

From knowing both male and female virgos over the years, it's seems that happiness for them is a life long struggle that can only be reached when a certain level of "logic" is attained. It's more an endeavor rather than an emotional experience that recharges us throughout our life, which comes natural for us gems. Sure we have our bad days too. But we soon realize it's a waste of time to dwell on the negative as it literally wears us down. It's refreshing when I read several virgo's who can bring some light into the conversation. There are about 2 VM on this board who do that.

While we gems and virgo's share mercury for communication purposes, we communicate in different manners. That's not a knock on virgo's. It is simply what it is. We are often expressive with words. They tend to embrace subtle communication and or actions.

One thing I've learned over time is this. If you're happy, that's all that matters. While it would be great if others could simply acknowledge your happiness and wish you all the best, some people (not just virgo's) aren't capable of doing that. Some of it is how we are wired differently. Some is how we were raised. And some people honestly are emotional infants who can never get past their own barriers and weaknesses.

Congrats on our relationship. I hope you and your VM continue to develop a strong and
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Posted by Lust
Yeaa I remember that your son is a libra. He will always respect you and he always thinks that mom is the best no matter what. One of my cousin is a libra, and the way he treats my aunt,,is amazing. He is super smart too & a hard worker.

Virgo people are sweet, only thing that need to be patient about them: their criticism. They are perfectionist and will start nagging if things don't go their way. But, have fun with your new bf, you guys are still young yet_β€”





Omg yes! My son is very loyal and respectful to me! He loves his mommy πŸ™‚ I know right! He already criticizes me.. but as a Virgo rising I do the same thing too (only if I care).. so I feel like he cares for him to be doing it to me. Virgo's don't give not even a second thought if they genuinely do not care. His moon and mercury are both in LIBRA! It goes Perfectly with my moon and mercury! And we both share the same numerology number 22! That's s MASTER Number! We potentially could be a match made in heaven!
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Posted by Boriska
Hi,

my mom is Gemini and my father is Virgo, they are together and happy for 35 years.

Yes, you need patientce with him...

Good luck to you both

P.S. My friend is Gemini with Virgo rising and I know the stare you talking about :-)
I love how he looks at me...enjoy it




My mothers a Gemini too and her boyfriend is a Virgo too! I love the Virgo stare, I only give that stare if I am interested! He does it so much to me it makes me melt! My mother is VERY happy btw.. yes they have the ups and downs but always works it out! He always puts her and his family first and it took awhile for it to get there, but they are where they want to be. Hopefully me and him make it there πŸ™‚
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I hope you make it there too GV.....at least you have a source of reference. πŸ™‚ Very lovely they are. πŸ™‚ Keep us posted.

I came off as an uninterested ass to mine and then he became one. Now we just take turns, except it's tiresome. But he can be very stubborn (taurus moon). Thinks I play games, but I don't. 😒 He's just slow and then does something spontaneous which surprise and confuse me. Then I react.

(said he was shy, who knew??...he kept the leo venus/mars a secret)....ASS!

Anyway, don't, they keep score...as do we. Hahaha....except they focus on the little stuff......I do hope you both enjoy each other πŸ˜‰
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I hope you make it there too GV.....at least you have a source of reference. πŸ™‚ Very lovely they are. πŸ™‚ Keep us posted.

I came off as an uninterested ass to mine and then he became one. Now we just take turns, except it's tiresome. But he can be very stubborn (taurus moon). Thinks I play games, but I don't. 😒 He's just slow and then does something spontaneous which surprise and confuse me. Then I react.

(said he was shy, who knew??...he kept the leo venus/mars a secret)....ASS!

Anyway, don't, they keep score...as do we. Hahaha....except they focus on the little stuff......I do hope you both enjoy each other πŸ˜‰




I know right! Thanks Gem πŸ™‚
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Posted by Lust
Yeaa I remember that your son is a libra. He will always respect you and he always thinks that mom is the best no matter what. One of my cousin is a libra, and the way he treats my aunt,,is amazing. He is super smart too & a hard worker.

Virgo people are sweet, only thing that need to be patient about them: their criticism. They are perfectionist and will start nagging if things don't go their way. But, have fun with your new bf, you guys are still young yet_β€”



Yup, I second the criticism aspect. Virgo's will do this after they feel safe that you're into them enough. they will tell you it's because they care. whatever. it's nagging and in time, will bring about resentment. my advice, if the criticism phase begins with your virgo, speak to him in a calm and unemotional manner and tell him how you appreciate that he cares about you, but you'd feel happier without so much critiquing.

If you allow the criticisms to continue without saying a word to him, then you are re enforcing this behavior and he will see it as a positive sign that he's going the right thing for your benefit.
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Posted by Lust
Yeaa I remember that your son is a libra. He will always respect you and he always thinks that mom is the best no matter what. One of my cousin is a libra, and the way he treats my aunt,,is amazing. He is super smart too & a hard worker.

Virgo people are sweet, only thing that need to be patient about them: their criticism. They are perfectionist and will start nagging if things don't go their way. But, have fun with your new bf, you guys are still young yet_β€”



Yup, I second the criticism aspect. Virgo's will do this after they feel safe that you're into them enough. they will tell you it's because they care. whatever. it's nagging and in time, will bring about resentment. my advice, if the criticism phase begins with your virgo, speak to him in a calm and unemotional manner and tell him how you appreciate that he cares about you, but you'd feel happier without so much critiquing.

If you allow the criticisms to continue without saying a word to him, then you are re enforcing this behavior and he will see it as a positive sign that he's going the right thing for your benefit.
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I love it! But damn he's so busy! Hopefully we see each other tomorrow.. after I'm done looking at a house πŸ˜›
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You know what? I really like the energy you're on this time around on dxp. I really like seeing happy people.

My Gemini Aunt has been with my Virgo Uncle for the last..20 years? They have a Cancer boy and are happy as peas in a pod. They got married when the child was 3 years old I think..up until then they always said if it works, it works with or without marriage.

They're actually both from the same village but never ran into each other. They met in a factory in Turkey, miles away from our country. I am a firm believer in destiny so when it works, it works.

Wishing you all the best and good luck. This kind of positive energy inspires a Virgo. We tend to operate a lot on negative energy, something everyone sees but us. The charts align nicely too. I just hope you won't do the Gemini thing where you'll get bored with how predictable and set in our way our lot is. Either way, it's refreshing to see people being happy so props to you for that.
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You know what? I really like the energy you're on this time around on dxp. I really like seeing happy people.

My Gemini Aunt has been with my Virgo Uncle for the last..20 years? They have a Cancer boy and are happy as peas in a pod. They got married when the child was 3 years old I think..up until then they always said if it works, it works with or without marriage.

They're actually both from the same village but never ran into each other. They met in a factory in Turkey, miles away from our country. I am a firm believer in destiny so when it works, it works.

Wishing you all the best and good luck. This kind of positive energy inspires a Virgo. We tend to operate a lot on negative energy, something everyone sees but us. The charts align nicely too. I just hope you won't do the Gemini thing where you'll get bored with how predictable and set in our way our lot is. Either way, it's refreshing to see people being happy so props to you for that.




Thanks Damnata.. I've always liked your comments, regardless. Our charts match up so well it's unbelievable! And I spent the night at his place the other day and we just lied together and talked for hourrsss. He's always giving me the Virgo stare.. and I mean A LOT.. It's touching. πŸ™‚
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Posted by WateryGem
Awe, the Virgo male I used to be sooo close with (who had feelings for me) has Libra moon as well. They are super sweet, I have noticed a great smile usually follows along and you can talk to them for hours. I don't know what anyone is talking about Virgos distancing. None I know have done that unless you screw them over BIG time.




Omg.. this is so true! I know a lot of distant Virgo's, but it all depends on the chart.. I guess you met the good ones!