Insights on you Geminis pleaseeee

Iv been chatting to this Gemini via snap chat he's sooo cute but moody type thing he don't smile. We message all through out the day and night he says cute things and said he would take me to a game of football but I shut it down... I know you guys are flirty and talk to loads of people he said he new I'm a night mare and he's got his hands full with me... Wev spoken over the phone a few times... How do I know if he is interested in me or if I'm just another girl.,, Pisces sun Aries moon libra rising

You never will know. Gemini men are finicky as shit! They can’t find their ass with both hands because they have 4!

And 2 always in a way of 2 others...

Until they are 45. Don’t wait.

You want to know if he's interested in you, but you shut it down when he asked you to go to the football game with him? Do you not understand you are sending him mixed signals?

When you send mixed signals to a man, you will get the same back. He doesn't know how to read you because you undermine his reaching out to you.

I realize you're only 18 and at that age, I had no clue about male tendencies when it comes to dating etc. So this time around, you get a pass.

But now that you are aware of the reality of your behavior, learn from it and don't make the same mistake again.

And as nano said, this guy may have just needed an ago booster by getting your attention. However since he invited you to a game with him, that indicates he is more interested than just getting an ego boost imho.

RE: the moody type, I've experience this a lot with male Virgo's. It's just how they deal with things in their head. I think a lot of guys live in their head to be honest with you. Some are just more closed off than others.

So now you have some idea what's going on, if you are still interested, I'd contact him ONE time. See if he responds. Give him more than just 24-48 hours to respond. Men sometimes aren't great at communication and don't like to "pinned" down if they really don't want to invest their time or energy into something or someone.

If he replies and says, yes, let's go out etc., great. Reply with a simple, "great, looking forward to it. Let me know where you'd like to go etc." and leave it in his lap to take the reigns.

If he doesn't reply at all, move on. That means he has. You two have no real deep ties from any type of history, so sometimes you just have to except the fact that he's not the one. the reality is he's doing you a favor.

Suggestion: Pick up the book or download online on your iPad or Kindle etc, Dr. John Gray's book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus." It will seriously help you understand men, and help you use this information to make your relationships with men be more successful.

Thanks for your comments I didn't mean to send mixed messages I just don't like football I know how long it is and wouldn't wanna sit there bored but I felt bad the way I shut it down when I thought about it after... It's difficult because I know how I can get when I develope feeling an I don't wanna overwhelm him. And I know I could possibly be just a girl he talks to but I feel like it could be abit more but Geminis are Geminis I'm still keeping my options open been getting to know a Scorpio too I know what men are like they don't put all there eggs in one basket so I certainly won't

Posted by nano
Chatting and saying cute things over Snapchat means nothing. If you don't give it a chance to grow into anything beyond that, he will become bored and move on.

If you want to go out with him, go out with him. Or else accept that you're just an online girl he talks to when bored and gives him attention when his ego needs stroking. He made a move already - you rejected him. It sounds like you want more though, so are you the one playing games?

What do you want?

I'm not too sure he interests me with his moodiness the conversation is always flowing when I talk to people we always run out of things to talk about but since I started talking to him we haven't once ran out of conversation it's Brilliant he really fascinates me with his moodiness

Posted by Baby340
Thanks for your comments I didn't mean to send mixed messages I just don't like football I know how long it is and wouldn't wanna sit there bored but I felt bad the way I shut it down when I thought about it after... It's difficult because I know how I can get when I develope feeling an I don't wanna overwhelm him. And I know I could possibly be just a girl he talks to but I feel like it could be abit more but Geminis are Geminis I'm still keeping my options open been getting to know a Scorpio too I know what men are like they don't put all there eggs in one basket so I certainly won't

So what activity would you like to do with him?

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Baby340
Thanks for your comments I didn't mean to send mixed messages I just don't like football I know how long it is and wouldn't wanna sit there bored but I felt bad the way I shut it down when I thought about it after... It's difficult because I know how I can get when I develope feeling an I don't wanna overwhelm him. And I know I could possibly be just a girl he talks to but I feel like it could be abit more but Geminis are Geminis I'm still keeping my options open been getting to know a Scorpio too I know what men are like they don't put all there eggs in one basket so I certainly won't

So what activity would you like to do with him?

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We met up today it was lovely he picked me up payed for everything took me cinema wouldn't even let me pay for a bag of chrisps dropped me back off k gave him a little peck it was nice

He put his arms around me In the cinema and we heald hands after