Scorpio sun. Scorpio moon.Cap asc

Yea I think he just wants to see if I'm sad or not. I'm ignoring him
He made it really clear during the breakup we shouldn't be together now he is wanting to talk and showing up at my work to drop stuff off. Idk what he wants. Should I text him back?
Ew hell no. Don't take him back
Posted by Sodapop
Wait, but kicking you out isn’t really okay, you need to see that usually it takes TWO people to breakup.

The kicking out part to me is a form of control and abuse. I would go no contact whatsoever until things cool down.


It was very abusive. I couldn't talk about my feelings without being kicked out
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I've broken up with guys and I regretted it. I think both men and woman can have regrets especially when breaking up. It's hard especially when you're used to talking to them everyday and seeing them. I really think it hurts both people sooner or later and I've learned in life that everything comes back around. People come back, situations unfold over again, history repeats itself. Just have to stay really positive through it all.


If I miss him do you think he misses me?

Is this a fresh breakup? Why did you break up?


Yes two weeks and we fought all the tome


Have you reached out at all?


No


Do you want to?

Yes


How long were you dating for? I need details woman


Two years he said i was too jealous and he kicked me out every time we fought


If you want him back then you will deff need to apologize for your actions and really try to change the jealousy. Did you try to apologize? Fighting everyday is not good and some time apart is.


I know I need to apologize


Yea if you haven't I would if I wanted the person back. But you have to mean it. If he's kicking you out and making scenes then you are probably out of control girl lol control yourself. Does he have a history of cheating or something?
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Yes
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I've broken up with guys and I regretted it. I think both men and woman can have regrets especially when breaking up. It's hard especially when you're used to talking to them everyday and seeing them. I really think it hurts both people sooner or later and I've learned in life that everything comes back around. People come back, situations unfold over again, history repeats itself. Just have to stay really positive through it all.


If I miss him do you think he misses me?

Is this a fresh breakup? Why did you break up?


Yes two weeks and we fought all the tome


Have you reached out at all?


No


Do you want to?

Yes


How long were you dating for? I need details woman


Two years he said i was too jealous and he kicked me out every time we fought


If you want him back then you will deff need to apologize for your actions and really try to change the jealousy. Did you try to apologize? Fighting everyday is not good and some time apart is.


I know I need to apologize


Yea if you haven't I would if I wanted the person back. But you have to mean it. If he's kicking you out and making scenes then you are probably out of control girl lol control yourself. Does he have a history of cheating or something?
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I was out of control and I suspected he was cheating
Posted by Rindaroo
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Yes in my boyfriend's case & now we are back together. I did not contact at all for about 2 1/2 months, until he reached out to say he missed me.


So it worked? Did he break down and ask to be back together?


Well I'm not sure it's the same situation. He disappeared & refused to talk to me. That lasted a week & I didn't contact him again. Even when he started liking posts & making comments on my FB. 2 1/2 months later he sent me a message telling me he missed me. I did not message him or call him until he did that. About a week later we started talking again & met and worked everything out. He said that he tried really hard to not want me but it didn't work. He missed me soooo much. I told him I refused to reach out after how he acted, and he said that was smart. I guess it allowed us both the space to figure out we didn't want anyone else.


So he wanted someone else before the break up?


No. It turned out he was afraid I'd leave him after a short-term relationship and he wanted a long term one. I was planning on moving in a couple of years. It's just we both tried dating others in the separation & it just made us want each other. I'm not moving anymore...
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I see. Glad it worked out for you
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
I've broken up with guys and I regretted it. I think both men and woman can have regrets especially when breaking up. It's hard especially when you're used to talking to them everyday and seeing them. I really think it hurts both people sooner or later and I've learned in life that everything comes back around. People come back, situations unfold over again, history repeats itself. Just have to stay really positive through it all.


If I miss him do you think he misses me?

Is this a fresh breakup? Why did you break up?


Yes two weeks and we fought all the tome


Have you reached out at all?


No


Do you want to?

Yes


How long were you dating for? I need details woman


Two years he said i was too jealous and he kicked me out every time we fought


If you want him back then you will deff need to apologize for your actions and really try to change the jealousy. Did you try to apologize? Fighting everyday is not good and some time apart is.
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I know I need to apologize
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Posted by Rindaroo
Yes in my boyfriend's case & now we are back together. I did not contact at all for about 2 1/2 months, until he reached out to say he missed me.


So it worked? Did he break down and ask to be back together?


Well I'm not sure it's the same situation. He disappeared & refused to talk to me. That lasted a week & I didn't contact him again. Even when he started liking posts & making comments on my FB. 2 1/2 months later he sent me a message telling me he missed me. I did not message him or call him until he did that. About a week later we started talking again & met and worked everything out. He said that he tried really hard to not want me but it didn't work. He missed me soooo much. I told him I refused to reach out after how he acted, and he said that was smart. I guess it allowed us both the space to figure out we didn't want anyone else.
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So he wanted someone else before the break up?
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Posted by Stensco21
Posted by MoonshineLeo
I've broken up with guys and I regretted it. I think both men and woman can have regrets especially when breaking up. It's hard especially when you're used to talking to them everyday and seeing them. I really think it hurts both people sooner or later and I've learned in life that everything comes back around. People come back, situations unfold over again, history repeats itself. Just have to stay really positive through it all.


If I miss him do you think he misses me?

Is this a fresh breakup? Why did you break up?


Yes two weeks and we fought all the tome


Have you reached out at all?


No


Do you want to?

Yes


How long were you dating for? I need details woman
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Two years he said i was too jealous and he kicked me out every time we fought
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by MoonshineLeo
I've broken up with guys and I regretted it. I think both men and woman can have regrets especially when breaking up. It's hard especially when you're used to talking to them everyday and seeing them. I really think it hurts both people sooner or later and I've learned in life that everything comes back around. People come back, situations unfold over again, history repeats itself. Just have to stay really positive through it all.


If I miss him do you think he misses me?

Is this a fresh breakup? Why did you break up?


Yes two weeks and we fought all the tome


Have you reached out at all?


No


Do you want to?
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Yes
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Posted by Stensco21
Posted by MoonshineLeo
Posted by Stensco21
Posted by MoonshineLeo
I've broken up with guys and I regretted it. I think both men and woman can have regrets especially when breaking up. It's hard especially when you're used to talking to them everyday and seeing them. I really think it hurts both people sooner or later and I've learned in life that everything comes back around. People come back, situations unfold over again, history repeats itself. Just have to stay really positive through it all.


If I miss him do you think he misses me?

Is this a fresh breakup? Why did you break up?


Yes two weeks and we fought all the tome


Have you reached out at all?
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No
Posted by WarAngel1
Of course! What makes you think we leave unscathed?

It might take some time, but everyone gets theirs eventually.


What do you mean everyone gets theirs eventually?
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Posted by MoonshineLeo
I've broken up with guys and I regretted it. I think both men and woman can have regrets especially when breaking up. It's hard especially when you're used to talking to them everyday and seeing them. I really think it hurts both people sooner or later and I've learned in life that everything comes back around. People come back, situations unfold over again, history repeats itself. Just have to stay really positive through it all.


If I miss him do you think he misses me?

Is this a fresh breakup? Why did you break up?
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Yes two weeks and we fought all the tome
Posted by Rindaroo
Yes in my boyfriend's case & now we are back together. I did not contact at all for about 2 1/2 months, until he reached out to say he missed me.


So it worked? Did he break down and ask to be back together?
Posted by MoonshineLeo
I've broken up with guys and I regretted it. I think both men and woman can have regrets especially when breaking up. It's hard especially when you're used to talking to them everyday and seeing them. I really think it hurts both people sooner or later and I've learned in life that everything comes back around. People come back, situations unfold over again, history repeats itself. Just have to stay really positive through it all.


If I miss him do you think he misses me?
Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
I hope everything goes well with you fellow scorp.


Thank you