Just found out he has a moon in gemini :(

Hi,
So someone I had been "seeing" is actually a Taurus Sun, Gemini Moon... I thought he was a Taurus Sun, CANCER moon but using time of birth, just realised he is actually a gemini moon. 😢

I guess I felt more secure when I thought he is a cancer moon, despite him having many ex-es (like, he was astrologically "destined" to be committed in the end due to cancer moon) but him having gemini moon changes this - I don't mean to stereotype but now I feel like I'd just be another notch on his bedpost as it were..

He's always very honest about everything (about his past, etc.) and says he likes the idea of marriage, kids, etc. but now, I don't know if he said all that because he, as a gemini moon, likes the novelty of a new relationship (I think that Geminis become infatuated quite easily!, rather than with any depth of emotion)

Could his Taurus sun sort of neutralise this? (Make him more stable)?

I really really like Gemini guys (always have) for their talkativeness, how interesting they are, etc but cannot stand how fickle they are (probs not all of them but the ones I have seen), how they jump from 1 thing to another without even looking back, etc.

Also, I am a TAURUS SUN, AQUARIUS MOON ... so technically his TAURUS SUN, GEMINI MOON should be a perfect match though, right? (But even then, aquarius - though very independent, are fixed in their affection, etc. and not mutable like gemini)..

Any gemini moon men who have committed??

Thank you

Gemini moon can be faithful. I have it and know others with it who (as far as I know) are faithful.

There can be a restlessness and high need for mental stimulation with Gem moon, but if the Gem moon person is together they'll seek partners who are interesting to them and appreciate that quality about them. And even if they're bored, ever, that doesn't mean they will be unfaithful.

Some people fear Aqua moons because they can seem so aloof and independent and not likely to commit, but as you know OP, that would be unfair to apply to all people with Aqua moon. 🙂

Posted by blackphase
I dated a Leo with a Gemini Moon for five years. He was very faithful and stable throughout our entire relationship. And we are still best friends.. Hope that helps 🙂

Thank you for the reassuring reply - although, I've found that some people have mis-calculated their moon sign - would you mind telling me his date of birth, time of birth, location of birth so I can just double check (to satisfy my strange insecurity lol)? Or if you'd rather not give me those details, you can use http://www.drikpanchang.com/utilities/horoscope/hindu-moonsign-calculator.html & put in his details and let me know what moon sign comes up?

Also, how can you ever be sure that someone has been truly faithful though? Not saying yours wasn't but the best cheaters are always hiding their tracks very well and especially with convenient online methods, cheating has become easier than ever..

Thanks 🙂

Posted by littlemegabyte
Are you really that turned off by the idea of a gem moon?? Of course they can be faithful. If you are honestly that worried about it, then you probably shouldn't see him anymore because those judgments aren't fair to him tbh. From what you've said, he's been fine so far, so it looks like your projecting your own insecurities on him. You should at least give him a chance until you know for sure the quality of his character. You're an earth sign with an aqua moon, COME ON, be more logical about this 😛

Thanks for the reply - it's just that people can cheat very easily nowadays and it's especially easy to cover this up at the start.. I just find it difficult to sometimes really believe that someone who has been with that many people in the past could suddenly change his ways and become totally faithful.. I know it happens but it seems to be rare. He also seems to be the type to love the thrill of the chase.. I think the people who are often quite shy and insecure at the start of dating become loyal partners (often) whilst the very outgoing, persistent types just get bored of their "catch" and move onto the next (as they can again approach another confidently whilst a shy/insecure man would find it difficult to do the same)..

Posted by CopperDove
Gemini moon can be faithful. I have it and know others with it who (as far as I know) are faithful.

There can be a restlessness and high need for mental stimulation with Gem moon, but if the Gem moon person is together they'll seek partners who are interesting to them and appreciate that quality about them. And even if they're bored, ever, that doesn't mean they will be unfaithful.

Some people fear Aqua moons because they can seem so aloof and independent and not likely to commit, but as you know OP, that would be unfair to apply to all people with Aqua moon. 🙂

Thank you for the helpful reply - yes, I've seen females with a gemini moon be faithful but generally, only few men - it is always said that a gemini is the easiest sign to get/date but the hardest sign to keep & so far, I've seen that to be true.

Ha yes people do say that about Aqua moons but I do think they are right! lol I have definitely been described as all 3 of those things (by people who do not know I have an aquarius moon nor much about astrology) - although this post seems like something an Aquarius wouldn't worry about ha - just having a moment I think.

If other placements are strong... dont feel insecure about this. Taurus is a faithful sign.

Lol @ the sad face.

Already starting to see problems - it feels like since I found out he has a moon in gemini, his gemini traits have really shown up more - mind games and so on.

Posted by blackphase
*** under the rug allowing issues to build up. And I am constantly trying to guess how he is feeling or what the heck is going on. The Leo with the Gem Moon was open to discussing anything under the sun with me in great length. He never got upset or frustrated over a simple conversation and he never disregarded my feelings or things that I felt were important for us to discuss. He was always open and always there for me. I feel like I am walking on egg shells with my Leeb.. I never once felt like that with the Leo.

I addressed this very thing on the Libra board earlier. It's like us Gems need to be careful with what we do but the Libra's don't and yet they are supposedly fair about everything. Gets to the point where if they don't outright dump you, it's like you need to walk on eggshells. It's fucking dumb and how interesting they are ok with who you are in the beginning, but then as time goes on they are indifferent but aren't the best at communicating though we give them our hearts and every reason they can trust us. Still puzzles me.

Taurus Sun, Gem Moon myself. Depends on the individual but "playing the field" and romps aren't appealing to me. I wouldn't trash him just because of a Gem moon. If it was a Gem sun on the other hand.... run!

I'd be more interested to know what his Venus placement is seeing as Taurus Sun could have a V Gemini or Aries.. i had a Taurus Sun Gemini Venus ex-bf cheater. Aries impulsivity just makes me uneasy in general. The simple presence of Gemini Moon does not infallibly indicate cheater or player.

I'm not saying V Gem or Aries is a bad thing necessarily.. just that more must be considered. The whole chart.

Posted by KsamCancer
God dam this is superficial as fuck

I feel like the Gemini Moon stigma is far more superficial than we actually are.

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Posted by blackphase
*** under the rug allowing issues to build up. And I am constantly trying to guess how he is feeling or what the heck is going on. The Leo with the Gem Moon was open to discussing anything under the sun with me in great length. He never got upset or frustrated over a simple conversation and he never disregarded my feelings or things that I felt were important for us to discuss. He was always open and always there for me. I feel like I am walking on egg shells with my Leeb.. I never once felt like that with the Leo.

I addressed this very thing on the Libra board earlier. It's like us Gems need to be careful with what we do but the Libra's don't and yet they are supposedly fair about everything. Gets to the point where if they don't outright dump you, it's like you need to walk on eggshells. It's fucking dumb and how interesting they are ok with who you are in the beginning, but then as time goes on they are indifferent but aren't the best at communicating though we give them our hearts and every reason they can trust us. Still puzzles me.

Don't even get me started on the supposedly fairness of the Libra's. I have never had to even think about what was fair in a relationship until this one. Things were much easier in previous relationships. I never dwelled on the unfair treatment I got or how unbalanced the relationship was. It just baffles me the the most unbalanced relationship I've ever been in has been with one who apparently strives for balance. Such a joke!

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Oh I know right. It's really just pathetic and sad. (hugs)

Posted by Hemispheres
Taurus Sun, Gem Moon myself. Depends on the individual but "playing the field" and romps aren't appealing to me. I wouldn't trash him just because of a Gem moon. If it was a Gem sun on the other hand.... run!

And I'm sure us Gems won't have an issue with a Taurus running the other way! We tend not to get a long very well.

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Posted by Hemispheres
Taurus Sun, Gem Moon myself. Depends on the individual but "playing the field" and romps aren't appealing to me. I wouldn't trash him just because of a Gem moon. If it was a Gem sun on the other hand.... run!

And I'm sure us Gems won't have an issue with a Taurus running the other way! We tend not to get a long very well.

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Agreed.

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Posted by KsamCancer
God dam this is superficial as fuck

I feel like the Gemini Moon stigma is far more superficial than we actually are.

This is the first time ive seen it done to a Gem moon. Venus? Gets it all the time.

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VG does get it a lot. I don't necessarily think my ex was incapable of being faithful.. I do believe we were just very young and he needed to explore more. I've heard VG is very comfortable in a committed relationship if they feel free to explore their many interests, etc.

Also, just a friendly fyi.. there is a forum for each moon placement.