Moon in gemini

I have one and what's the deal with everyone hating finding out a person they like has a gemini moon? Why do you guys assume we'll cheat? why don't people see that they are the problem?

Posted by iloveyouthatway
I have one and what's the deal with everyone hating finding out a person they like has a gemini moon? Why do you guys assume we'll cheat? why don't people see that they are the problem?

I concur!!!!!!

thank you! People automatically assume I'm going to cheat on them if they found out my moon was in gemini. With me the moon in gemini gives me the effect of a balloon about to explode. So many atoms are moving around stretching what is protecting them from the outside world, that to people i seem unhappy in relationships. That's just because my partners never have met me at the emotional height i've always wanted to be on.

I've dated a gemini guy before, his own moon was in Scorpio. He was what killed me relationship wise. His sun conjuncting my moon( astrologicaly this combination is a a tug and pull kind of thing). He cheated on me and I had to find out on my own, he never admitted it to me which hurt. I took it upon myself to leave him, which was hard, but there was nothing keeping me there. He begged for me back but I never looked back.
A pisces guy helped me rise up from the ashes, his moon was in capricorn, which was sort of nice now that I think about it. But I left him in the end, thinking I would get cheated on again, he still loves me he still says. :/

I have a Gemini Moon as well. No one has ever suspected me of being a cheater though.

well the thing is in general, i don't like inflicting any type of pain onto people so i can't bring myself to cheat either. my gemini moon does make me slightly two-faced but that's only cuz i feel like i gotta accomodate everybody in every situation. and becuz of this, i have a hard time being myself. i've only started admitting this recently. i can never fully be myself except for when i'm alone. it sucks.

I thought it was Venus in Gemini had that bad rep. I only know this cause the venus/gem guy i was with for a while cheated on his girlfriend with me - 'cept i didn't know that i was the "other woman", fled when I found out. Turns out he cheated on is wife with this girlfriend and left his wife for her - so they deserve each other and the Karma that's coming their way. Obviously i then poured over his chart and the internet and just kept reading about this placement and their association with being cheaters. But it is the persons character, self control and morals that make them this way, not where their venus is placed.

Posted by celticlioness
I thought it was Venus in Gemini had that bad rep. I only know this cause the venus/gem guy i was with for a while cheated on his girlfriend with me - 'cept i didn't know that i was the "other woman", fled when I found out. Turns out he cheated on is wife with this girlfriend and left his wife for her - so they deserve each other and the Karma that's coming their way. Obviously i then poured over his chart and the internet and just kept reading about this placement and their association with being cheaters. But it is the persons character, self control and morals that make them this way, not where their venus is placed.

Yes, its the Venus in Gemini that has the bad rep, not the Moon.

The one I know is very high-strung, suspicious of others motives, and is a pain in the ass. Flirts like crazy, but cheat? No.

I know an awesome Gem Mooner (he is a Virgo Sun)

Could not imagine him cheating.

Posted by Dreamer02
I have a Gemini Moon as well. No one has ever suspected me of being a cheater though.

^^ This came out all wrong. LOL. I meant no one has ever accused me of being a cheater - because Im not. smh

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Posted by Dreamer02

Posted by Dreamer02
I have a Gemini Moon as well. No one has ever suspected me of being a cheater though.

^^ This came out all wrong. LOL. I meant no one has ever accused me of being a cheater - because Im not. smh

I thought that was kinda shakey..lol 🙂

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LOL, this gave me a giggle, but i knew what you meant😉

Gem moon here too and i'd never heard we had a bad rep before, although gems in general seem to get one;(

im homeeeeeee 🙂

Posted by TastesOfChaos
I hate these generalisations, placements dont make a person cheat.

A person cheats cuz they're a fuckbag.

I'm not religious at all but amen to that tasteofchaos!

Posted by TastesOfChaos
I — my Gem Moon tooooo 🙂

Although, it does make me babble WAY too much sometimes... I think thats why I have a lot of Gem friends, cuz they just babble along with me 😄

I'm gradually becoming more at peace with mine. 🙂

The babbling thing though, fuck me I am off the chart.

And I talk fast........REALLY fast. I also have a tendency to go off on massive tangents!

Still, no-one has ever accused me of being a rubbish conversationalist. I ALWAYS have something to say (it just doesn't always make much sense lol). 😛

Gem moon here and never cheated , except in vivid dreams and fantasies !!

my man has a venus in gemini and seriously he would never cheat or i'd chop off his balls but his ex with a gemini moon did. what a shame...

I have gemini moon, I have found I am in two minds alot of the time and this wears me out. I dont cheat coz I am not in relationship with anyone. Have been accused of cheating due to a one night stand but I was never in a relationship officially known to me at the time so to me I havent cheated. Also if I love someone I stay with them and them only but if I dont love someone I am free to be with who ever I want so because I am not in a relationship with anyone at this moment in time, though I do like some guys, I can do whoever I want, whenever I want, however I want like I used to before myex. Now, its hard having to think all the time and to not be able to express quickly enough whats in my head all the time, it like having thoughts continually in head all the time put together with alot of intuits rushing in its hard to stay grounded in that way so usuaaly i am in clouds never on earth. My ma used to say to me get off your high horses when i left the forst time and I guess i have never come back down off my high horses since i first left and I dont think i want to nor should I? she never there for me she never understood where it is I came from? so why bother coming off down from my high horses?HUH? Favoured sis over me, bossy, and always never good enough for her. Very fickle person yet a good heart I miss her and wish she would love me but I know she dont and I wish her good for that. I need to live my life the way I see fit for myself and noone has the right to tell me how I should be living it coz its up to me not anyone else

Must agree with jesse91 about accomodating others and can never be myself til alone yeh totally sucks

I also have a Gemini moon and I would never cheat on anyone...When I love someone I give myself completely to them and cheating would only mean that Im being unfaithful to my own feelings.

Posted by Ligeia
My Cancer fiance is a Gemini Mooner and so

is my Scorpio bff. Neither of them have a

cheating bone in their body. You guys are

one of my fav Moon placements 🙂

awww that is sweet Ligeia..My Virgo also has a Gemini moon and i love it!!

My wife and I both have Gem moons and no cheating , what does Moon have to do with cheating anyways ? wouldn't that be more of a Mars or Venus indication ?

Maybe Moon in Gemini is mistrusted because it seems such a contradictory position: that is, the "settling and comforting" vibe of the Moon does not sit well with the restless, thrill-seeking nature of Gemini, so perhaps the position is assumed to make one unreliable and/or shallow and impatient (and lacking in loyalty and compassion).

Posted by iloveyouthatway
I have one and what's the deal with everyone hating finding out a person they like has a gemini moon? Why do you guys assume we'll cheat? why don't people see that they are the problem?

i know someone with gemini moon, and never cheated. but how do you do with water moons? do you connect right away or you do better with air moons?

haha well atleast you don't have a sun sagittarius, i always find my self being conflicted with my emotions. and, always act on impulse. we've got this cheater stereotype because we are too friendly especially with both genders.

Hmm...Both jackie chan and john edwards had cheated outside their marriage.Both of them are gemini moons.

^^^ LMAO!!!

I know a Taurus male with a Gemini moon. He has a wife, mistress and a girlfriend.

Most of you have totally missed the point about what really bothers most people about gemini mooners anyway (except Dazed I think)

I think what bothers people the most about Gemini mooners is their almost retarded way of dealing with emotions. They will go to great lenghts to pretend everything is fine and dandy, but piling up past resentments at the same time leaving the other person totally unaware of them having done something wrong.. what happens then is that the gemini mooner becomes a walking time bomb, taking only the slightiest mention of something they feel strongly about for them to explode in the most childish, retarded and non-stop verbal tirade, not leaving any room for the other person to explain anything. The lesson for Gemini mooners is therefore to learn to shut up and listen when the other person is talking.

^^^^^^^ You Shut Up!^^^^^^^^^^ (Gem Moon)

I know a few folks with Moon in Gem and I like them.

I've met a few Gems in the past few years that I really like, too. Never really knew any before, but I guess Gems and I get on well.

Posted by LunarMaiden
I know a Taurus male with a Gemini moon. He has a wife, mistress and a girlfriend.

AND hes a tauri, i dont doubt that

for a water moon, a gem moon in endless frustrations.

Posted by DMV
for a water moon, a gem moon in endless frustrations.

I dont agree. I have sun, moon, merc all in Pisces. My friend has sun, moon, merc all in Gemini. Its not frustrating. What it is is quite possibly the best emotional high I've ever felt. And for those of you who equate all male, female interactions with sex. Its not sexual.

I'm a virgo with a gemini moon. I can be really flakey, and I'll admit that I definitely don't deal with my emotions in a logical or even remotely reasonable fashion. The part about holding past resentments is uncomfortably true for me. (how did he know!) But yeah, I like the gemini moon. It's the thing that keeps me social and fun to be completely honest. Oh, and not a cheater. Definitely not that.

Posted by PiscesFebFish

Posted by DMV
for a water moon, a gem moon in endless frustrations.

I dont agree. I have sun, moon, merc all in Pisces. My friend has sun, moon, merc all in Gemini. Its not frustrating. What it is is quite possibly the best emotional high I've ever felt. And for those of you who equate all male, female interactions with sex. Its not sexual.

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maybe because your moon is also mutable like a gemini moon, u relate better. me...not so much

If any gemini moon tells you they are not cheaters - oh yeah they are probably lying 😉.
From what i know is gemini moon tends to be promiscuous people and it is hard for them to not cheat in the long run.
And their self proclaimed "open relationship" that the other party may or may not be aware of, i think in their mind they do not consider it as cheating as they are always in constant self-denial.From what i know is most of them gives a very good first impression, being friendly and warm but after you get to know them, you will be surprised at how fucked up they can be.Ok that is all 😉.

Guess that it does proves the theory right, why do people assume gemini moons are cheaters?Because they are(prosmiscuous, like variety sort of thing i guess, they live for plenty of sexual, sensual, erotic blah blah experience). - Taurus moon here and never cheated 😉.Oh and cheating has nothing to do with attractiveness.My brother and i have plenty of suitors since young but we never cheat.Oh and my brother never has a girlfriend - leo moon.

Also that is why you can never expect a gemini moon to have sex only with one partner in the life.That is prosmiscuoscity by the way.Also, an indication that they are more likely to cheat than be faithful.

Btw @Rockthenerds, i am not fat and probably can be considered underweight -.-".I don`t have a gemini moon bf EVER either(thank god).Agreed with @BoomShakalakaBoom.And @LiquidAir29, you need to shut the FUCKED up when you have nothing rational to say 😉.Oh perhaps you already have a dick now stuffed inside your mouth, slut 😉.

Firstly, people lie.
Secondly, they could have been people whom leave their relationship for another person - thus no cheating.
YOU ARE THE ONE WHO SHOULD GROW UP.
If you think that "the grass was always greener" on the other side, then DON`T be in a relationship DUH.
Real men do not cheat, so you are a wimp maybe?
And why should i tell you why i know what i know?
Because i know 😉 LOL.

Gem moons change their minds like they change their t-shirts.

That is the problem with you - or simply gemini mooners.
Cheating is not a mishap AKA ACCIDENT.
It is not like you ran out of the road and accidentally get knocked down by a car - that is an ACCIDENT - something that you CANNOT prevent.
But cheating is a choice, you CHOOSE to cheat.
Thus, your character is flawed somewhere and don`t say you are a changed man now, because a person`s nature cannot be changed.
You cheat because you are HORNY, desperate, greedy, selfish, do not care about the other`s feeling, think you can and can get away with it.
It is just simple as that.

To be more specific should be + Ultra horny + ultra slutty + lack of self control.
My advice - don`t be in a relationship/stay single unless you know your gf/bf is a slut as well.
There are plenty of sluts out there nowadays, yawns.
I actually will ignore this thread as it is not related to me.
But i felt compelled to reply when i see you gemini moons keep putting the blame on others as excuses for your cheating, i could not sit back and felt i have to speak up.
Yea, you guys are sluts and you only have yourself to blame, amen.
It is written in your DNA, so try to LIVE with it, stop causing harm to others and have UNREALISTIC EXPECTATIONS in your future relationships.

There is no reason for me to be bitter 🙂.It is you gemini moons who should leave me alone.You guys can be quite persistent even though there is no way my stubborness will allow any of them near me 🙂.

Of course not referring to you guys.Thank god we will only ever meet on the web.HAHAHA.

So now who is the bitter one?Firstly, i never had a gemini moon boyfriend.Because they have indicate an interest, they are immediately removed from my life, go figure, well so sorry that i have to hurt their ego, love cannot be forced afterall 😢.

Posted by TasteOfChaosss
Wow... Someone's bitter 😛

Exactly!

I don't know how I would communicate with a moon in Gemini as I have a Sag moon. I'm thinging it could be either filled with conflict and confusion or intense understanding and great sexual chemistry.

Do you not understand english perhaps, illiterate?