Scorpio confused about exotic vacation aftermath?

Well..this was our chance to reconnect..we have had some bumps and bruises after an emotional blow up...(Scorp) anyway I planned a trip to a very exotic ISLAND...while there he told me that this was the most romantic vacation he had ever taken and how happy he was....he evens tells the maid that I want to marry him...and he is going to marry me?

He had asked me a few months back about living together...it was way to premature...not interested. Well, since we had been disconnected I told him throughout the weekend that I want to step the game up..I wanted him to out a ring on it? He responded in his usual non chalant manner. Anyway the last night we were there I planned a romantic dinner on the beach with a bonfire and champagne..He said that he was so happy and how impressed he was...well as we were riding back to hotel..He said that for most 99% of men that would have sealed the deal, but for him being a 1% it is difficult. He said you have beauty, brains, sexy, established, but he just does not know why he cant commit, but its not me!

Wow...I was a little upset...some things go better unsaid and timing is important..it was our last night...My stomach was a but unsettled..and he said that was why we were not intimate..the real reason I was just turned off.. All he had to do was just keep his mouth closed! Anyway we go to the airplane the next morning and he asks if I can get a ride back home or he wld give me cab fair,,cause he had a 4:30 MTG in his office..He is working on a big case, but I got upset and told him do not worry about it. On the plane ride he slept I touched him and he got pissy with he needed space. BTW I called a friend to pick me up..and he saw the text and he asked me why I could not just get a cab home. I said I needed help with my bags and such..the guy who picked is just a friend...He thinks he has other motives..but he know that I have been faithful.

Anyway later that evening I send him text stating that I had a good time and I think I am glad we got to know on another better..minus the bumps and bruises. We could be friends but with no commitments and that meant theatre, movies, dinner, events. I said that we were both sensitive and we need to be more respectful with our bantering moving forward. I closed we will always have our last beach night...even though he was as 1% . LOL

His response was we need a break from one another....now on the way home he said he wanted to still date when we got home.

trobin ,

Did you get your money back or was that what the big blowout was about?

I agree with EG don't be in a rush for it

Did you pay for that trip?

Why are you so ready to step the game up. He said he can only give 1% . He is basically telling you that he is not going to commit to you, and he cannot give you what you are looking for. I don't understand what part of what he has been saying you don't understand.

FYI- You cannot convince a GemMan to commit or do anything when they are not ready.

yes....I got that $ back,,,,,,,,that was not the issue....nor was the ring.

OH, wow. With him saying that he has that 1% chance of not being committed then he's already doubting your relationship. From my experience, scorpios don't say things unless they mean it.

Lady Cancer..He is the gem and I am the scorp..he said that he 99 percent of guys would be ready to commit, but he does not know what is wrong with him ...he is just a 1% thats is not ready right now...He is not in the same emotional space he was in a few months ago..and I am too emotional..I showed him tears...out of frustration that he still insists that we are friends and there was no real growth in our relationship..He even started getting wierd when I playfully tease him but swatting him..he is strange. He says that I was exhausting with my energy level...I thought gems love high energy..I am confused! He said me or the relationship was exhausting to him and we should take a break--mainly in time--he needs to get on top of his work--Then when I called him out on the fact that we really dont see each other that much..anyway he says he onlymeant the next few days...he meant he wld not be available but I didnt ask him out..nor did i ask him when i wld see him....I only sent an email stating the weekenf had a few bumps and bruises, but I am getting to know him as friends...with no committments, but if time permits we cld still spend time together..if it movies, theatres, dancing, dinner or events. But we will always have our last night in paradise, even if he is that 1% . LOL

He told me that this was the best vacation he had..and the dinner on the beach was the most romantic thing he has ever done? whats up with the I need space--- and telling people he is going to marry me at the resort... I was only responded to his comments...? But I know now that he really says things just for the shock value...and he does not mean anything he says...marriage, 1% , space...it is all just a test...Im tired..What does it all mean...It is so complicated!

SCORPIO LADY....He said he was in the 1% percentile all during the trip...he is a 1% successful man, 1% eligible bachelor..He was just listed in a magazine as one of the most eligble bachelor..and now at the end of the trip he said he was referring to his Im quite the catch status. He is so rare a gem..no pun intended..that he does not need to commit cause he is 1% ..and again that was said at 12::00 midnight and we left at 5 AM in the morning.

As far as he paid we split the costs....and I made sure spent as lot of money (LOL)

BTW I am not dense..we went on trip to see if we wanted to explore this further---

SCORPIO LADY....He said he was in the 1% percentile all during the trip...he is a 1% successful man, 1% eligible bachelor..He was just listed in a magazine as one of the most eligble bachelor..and now at the end of the trip he said he was referring to his Im quite the catch status. He is so rare a gem..no pun intended..that he does not need to commit cause he is 1% ..and again that was said at 12::00 midnight and we left at 5 AM in the morning.

As far as he paid we split the costs....and I made sure spent as lot of money (LOL)

BTW I am not dense..we went on trip to see if we wanted to explore this further---

Posted by trobin939
Lady Cancer..He is the gem and I am the scorp..he said that he 99 percent of guys would be ready to commit, but he does not know what is wrong with him ...he is just a 1% thats is not ready right now...He is not in the same emotional space he was in a few months ago..and I am too emotional..I showed him tears...out of frustration that he still insists that we are friends and there was no real growth in our relationship..He even started getting wierd when I playfully tease him but swatting him..he is strange. He says that I was exhausting with my energy level...I thought gems love high energy..I am confused! He said me or the relationship was exhausting to him and we should take a break--mainly in time--he needs to get on top of his work--Then when I called him out on the fact that we really dont see each other that much..anyway he says he onlymeant the next few days...he meant he wld not be available but I didnt ask him out..nor did i ask him when i wld see him....I only sent an email stating the weekenf had a few bumps and bruises, but I am getting to know him as friends...with no committments, but if time permits we cld still spend time together..if it movies, theatres, dancing, dinner or events. But we will always have our last night in paradise, even if he is that 1% . LOL

He told me that this was the best vacation he had..and the dinner on the beach was the most romantic thing he has ever done? whats up with the I need space--- and telling people he is going to marry me at the resort... I was only responded to his comments...? But I know now that he really says things just for the shock value...and he does not mean anything he says...marriage, 1% , space...it is all just a test...Im tired..What does it all mean...It is so complicated!

Oh! I think I got your signs confused. But if you're going to be with a Gemini male, expect him to turn hot and cold on you FOREVER! Geminis generally don't know what to do when they see you cry or show your feelings and emotion. They would rather run away from you. They are independent people that need a lot of space and will only come to you when they need you. Seeing that you are a Scorpio and need a lot of love and attention, this will drain you out emotionally.

Funny..that is exactly what he said..too much emotion..and that I/relationship was exhausting---Does he have a clue..his Jedi mind tricks--It is a rollercoaster ride 24/7...he sees weakness -- in some respects..I have to let it out ..to prevent from ripping his head off--aarrrrrgghh!

scorpio chic ...that about sums it up---waaaaay toooo ficcccckkle!