Some help please...

Hey scorpios, I was wondering whats the best way to break-up with you guys. I've been with him for 10 months now and I just can't do it anymore. I cry myself to sleep at night because I'm so un happy. What is the best way to go about this, do you think? In person or phone or txt? Should I say lets stay friends or do you think thats stupid? I want to do this as respectful as possible. Any thoughts would be a great help, thanks

Posted by satori
I understand it's hard to do it in person, but for gawd's sake, don't text it! lol. At least give him a call.

Hahahaha. Can you imagine that text?

"I want 2 br3ak up w/ u. kkthx. bye"

I'd be so pissed lol.

Oh Hypnotic and everyone, Do you really think he'd emotional black mail me?

He has a scorpio moon

"ok it's not looking so good thus far ... oh vixen *burries head in palms* " butter!!!

I'm not sure if he knows...He told me one night over the phone that him and his friend always joke "If she's breaks my heart, I break her neck" I was like ha ha oh scorpio humor...but he also said that if we break-up he'd probably stalk me for a while cause he has hard times letting things go. I was like okay. If he ever tried to do anything to me I have a bunch of people who would protect me but a scorpio wouldn't hurt someone they love right? I mean all of stuff seems really extream, I mean I feel like it's a joke sometimes..?

I don't care guys but I don't want to be harassed and I don't want him to go out of control

Lol it did kinda but it's important to consider all (just in case) haha thanks

I Was married to one for 5 years. We broke up 8months ago. He has emotionally blackmailed me. Taked crap about me to people we were friends with. Crazy stuff, stuff that is beyond true. He is out for revenge basically. He is STILL trying to get back together and acting like all the stuff he started/caused never happened. Once you break up and it is what you TRUELY want. Dont go back, not even for sex! Make it clear your done. Than move and change your phone number! lol

I have a Scorp moon, venus, mercury and jupiter. If things end in a relationship yes I'm hurt but I have WAY too much pride to stalk anyone. If they don't want me what would be the point of even keeping tabs on them. It's not worth it. Besides I don't want to be reminded of anything of that person. I "kill them off" in my mind and in my heart.

If you want to break things off you need to sit down and talk to him. Explain everything because he's gonna want to know the EXACT reasons why. Tell him you're not happy and you cry yourself to sleep. Don't insult him with trying to sugar coat anything. He can handle the honest brutal truth plus it will paint a clear picture where you are coming from. He'll be hurt and maybe not right away but he will understand eventually.

I also suggest that you tell him that you want to break off ALL communication with him for a little while. This is for his sake. I always do better at getting over things if it's cold turkey. We just learn how to deal quicker when they object that we want but can't have is dangling in our face.

Its gonna bother him for a while but I'm sure he's a tough cookie when it comes down to it and he'll be fine as long as you keep a respectable distance and be honest. It could even be a good break up if you keep it calm and cool.

Good luck

It depends on what's going on with you guys and how the relationship was. If it totally blindsides him like if you lead him to believ things were great by your actions and words than yeah he might do something to really hurt you(not physically). It also depends on how much he was "in" with you... we take it as betrayal, like "you have the audacity to break up with me" after all i've allowed myself to show you and indulge because most a lot of us feel like... we specifically picked you because we are very very picky about who we will have a relationship with.

He might tell you about yourself and all your negatives and make you feel like . I think It really all depends on how he feels about you and how he viewed the relationship.