blimpie
@blimpie
16 Years
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It is important to communicate openly with your ex-boyfriend about your feelings and boundaries. Giving him space may help clarify his intentions, but consistent honesty is key. Consider discussing your needs and concerns directly to understand his feelings better and decide whether to deepen your connection or set limits for your well-being.




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- Asked me if I was dating anyone else. When I said no, he said he wasn't dating anyone either (I believe him, his medication messes with his libido)
- Told me I was the most important thing in the world to him after a small argument we had
- Told me I looked nice when we hung out last night
- Calls me everyday to tell me about his day and ask me about mine
- Said that he recently realized how important relationship are in life
- Constantly worries about upsetting me and says things like, "I hate that I hurt you in the past, I never want to hurt you."
- I'll catch him looking at me and smiling, he also seems really happy when I compliment him or give him affection (just hugs and stuff)
- He acts jealous when I mention other guys, wants to hear nothing about them
- Asked me to be the first person to read his novel when he finished it someday, he has never wanted anyone to read it
I feel like he and I are in a relationship without sex. I'm getting frustrated with this, because lately he's gotten more and more lovey dovey and affectionate, but he seems unwilling or afraid to open up about his feelings. What should I do? Should I start ignoring him? Or just talk to him less? Will that help him to realize how he feels, or will it just hurt him? I don't want to hurt him, but this is hard on me too. Should I show him *more* affection? I don't want to scare him off. Part of me think he is afraid his feelings won't be reciprocated, but the other part of me thinks that he's trying to convince himself that he doesn't have feelings at all. You might say go look for another guy, but I love this one, and I'm not giving up on this.