Sharing with Gemini

I've become a very very very close friends with the gemini girl that i like but she is back with her bf and they are just going back and forth fighting all the time and then getting back together, i figured that there wont be a chance for me so i gave up, and finally decided to open up, because before that i didnt want to tell her stuff so that it wouldnt turn her off, now i just didnt care, so i talked to her on a different level, i talked about her mostly and things we had in common, but it was a different sort of conversation we never spoke of before... now she is very very caring to me almost made me cry with her text reminding me of terribly hard week ahead, she wrote it wich such care that i dont even know what to say or think i really am confused, dont say that shes playing games with me she wouldnt ever, with me especially, i just feel like we are at the level when something should already happen but it doesnt happen, i dont know what to think, the other day i was sitting with her i looked at her while she wasnt looking and i got that same feeling i got the first time i met her, i just wanted to kiss her literally holding myself off because i didnt want to cause even more problems than we already face (finalls soon).

Hi KOA, I'm a Gem happily dating an Aries. I'm quite a bit older than you, but perhaps what I have to say will be useful nonetheless. We were friends for a long time before we started dating. When we first met, I wasn't interested in dating as my husband had just passed. However, he quickly became a steadfast friend and confidante. I had an inkling he was interested in me, but I just wasn't prepared to jump into the dating scene (plus I didn't think he was my "type"). When I did start dating, it wasn't him. It took a little while longer for me to wake up and appreciate his many fine qualities. It was when he figured I wasn't going to like him back that he began to open up more, capturing my heart.
Personally, I like when people open to me and tell me their secrets (I'm a Gemini, after all), but it may be best to do so in a piecemeal fashion. If you give me some tidbits, I'll be intrigued and hungry for more. My curiosity will make me inch towards you.
I don't know if she is toying with you. She may or may not be. My Aries Man's friends told him to leave me be/forget about me because they thought I was toying with him. I wasn't. I was going through a lot of emotions, trying to process my husband's passing, being a young widow. Though, I'm sure it looked that way.

thanks you two, a lot, its true I will end up winning, either way, im already a winner for having her as a best friend, really.. if we started dating i would kiss earth because girl like her is a rare find, at least in my case.. regardless of which I would still probably choose her over anyone

by the way i also stopped listening to her, in a way when i ask her if she wants coffee for example and she says no i still get it for her cause i know hers is cold and almost finished, i do it very casually not smothering or anything, she seems to like it even tho she gets mad at me for doing that, also whenever i say somehting or do something...extraordinary she will say "youre something else" and smiles - what the heck does that mean?

lol kissing air or earth hmmm..

honestly i also think this could be the period where she is starting to like me, i spoke to my ex gemini long time ago and she told me that the only reason she would break up with someone would be if she started liking someone else more...

but i literally dont know because thing is, yesterday, she was all dolled up, i gave her complements, she sat near me and we both studied, even tho she could sit on a large table 2 feet away from me, then she left, i asked her where she was going and she said "do i need to tell you everything" then an attitude face and i laughed at that saying "well i guess not" and its weird because she practically tells me everything except when it comes to her boyfriend, sometimes she does and sometimes she doesn't, like when i was bugging her in winter about what she was doing, it took me 15 minutes to get her to tell me that she was having dinner with her bf, she didnt want to tell me, i think she does this because she will know i will get jealous.. what do you think? assuming im right about her meeting her bf yesterday.

Posted by DazedScorp

I am not saying that it's simple, took me about two years to get to the point where I always make her laugh and am little flirtatious with her, most of that happened in the past month..

tready ye warily my Rammy friend

well, i really do not know what the situation is there, all I know they have an occasional fight where she says she isnt getting back with him while in fact (I assume he knows her too well) he just probably calls her up in a week when she cools down and they get back together.. you dont think it will last, I dont think it will last either, but the fact is its been lasting for 4 years...

anyway things are really weird, the gemini and the pisces became very good friends, calling each other boo, and three of us went to eat together... it was a table with two benches i sat on one bench in the corner hoping they both sit in-front of me, the pisces goes and sits in-front of me, gem is right behind her, puts her bag on the bench where pisces is sitting and sits with me, the gem also notices that i greet the pisces with kisses on her cheek, while gem basically cut me off from doing that with her, same goes for hugs, she will hug some buthole but not me.. which im planning on bringing up one day, this is pretty much it, plain weird stuff, at least from my point of view.. me and gem tho definitely became more comfortable with each other

and after i sent her that song ( twice ive heard from her "i know you to well hahaha" like as if she knew i was procrastinating by doing something else, honestly she does know me more than anyone so far which is sort of weird too

Wow everything, not some things, everything what you say is true,

I suspected that the gem and pisces talked about me because the first time they BOTH came to see me when i was studying, the gem kept looking at me when i wasnt looking, and whenever i looked at her she would be staring into my eyes, but i never though the pisces could become friends on her on purpose, i mean that could truly be one of the reasons why she did it but i dont think it was only because of that, the gem is a good friend to have, I have also been thinking about what could they talk about, towards me, and what the gem said about me.

and another question, if you think that she is being committed to her taurus boyfriend by not letting me even touch her, not even mentioning hugs, she does hug her best friend, and does give cheek kisses to the pisces, then there was this other aries friend of hers who i hate - she would give him hugs all the time before they fought (he is very perverted, i just hate him because i know what It is in fact, and she doesnt), and she doesnt have any feelins for him, because last week or so i said that he is acting like a little bisth(because he does try to kiss her ass now after their fight) and she agreed saying he is always like a little bisth, but I am not even allowed to touch her, when she hugged that dude, it got me so upset that i almost cried i just left without saying bye i just left and kept doing my things without paying any attention to her, whenever i tried to hug her she would make it look extremely awkward because i would be the only one giving the hug and she would just like lean away from me, it drives me insane.

And she now saw me once or twice give kisses to pisces

she doesn't hug him anymore, after their fight, and if she did id get really pissed off and tell her about it, and i found that the more open (comfortable) i become with her the more fascinated she gets with me.. also she is pretty good at reading peoples intentions if they catch her attention, for example, i analyze everyone not spending much time on thinking, most of the time im right, when she analyzes she analyzes select people and her analysis are deeper, its like quality vs. quantity (with some quality too lol), from that - if pisces did get to her because of me, which could be one of the reasons, gem must have spotted it and is very well aware of it, i just dont know how she is reacting to the whole thing.

what if i actually told the gem that "i think i like her maybe ill ask her out after finals," that way id see how she acts for the rest of the day

ps. I learned what the gems mad face is like, remember it from the time when i got her pissed off, its a... straight face with slightest smile - eyes arent smiling, i came up to her asking something and the minute she spent answering my question 4 texts from her bf arrived, they again could be fighting, or maybe im wrong and he was just teling her somehting funny

affirmative, but has it been two years? one year

I see what you mean, i just dont want to ask her that when shes together with him, and they wont break up any time soon, and i really want a gf, if things go how they do and they are still together ill probably just ask the Pisces out and see how it goes, letting the gem know beforehand like i said earlier, so probably some time this week, maybe next week, will see...

good ones are taken, i dont like dating i get too attached, this way i all the work is done for me, 4 eyar relationship lol shes definitely good

KOA - You again? I am going to make this as simple as I possibly can. You ARE in the friend zone. And you will stay there. Do you know how many countless posts you've done on the Gemini forum about this girl? Trust me as a Gemini if we liked you, you will know. You analyze everything from the smallest detail. She could look at the sky and you're like ok what does this mean, she looked at it straight up but not to the side that means we will get married and have twenty kids.

Do me a favor and stay off our board you remind me of this one stage five clinger that is up my ass constantly. Until you give her some room you will be in the friend zone, sometimes you never get out. That's where this one guy is right now and will remain permanently in my book. Stop being such a damn clinger. Gemini's HATE that.

Posted by KingOfAries
good ones are taken, i dont like dating i get too attached, this way i all the work is done for me, 4 eyar relationship lol shes definitely good

Damn....I wonder what it WOULD be like if you were dating her. God talk about suffocating. Cause look how you are now and you're just a friend. God you annoy the fuck outta me.

I don't like him. Simple as that.
He's a total stage five clinger and he comes in here whining about the same girl who is more than obviously NOT interested in him.

PFF yeah right. The way I see it, he's a clinger, big time. And he rolls through them because he's trying to see who is interested all the while analyzing the shit out of each one.

Maybe he means "Very Astute FOR An Aries" 😉