Tell me about your current ormost recent relations

Lets talk about relationships cuz I love to empathize...
How did your last relationship go? How is your current relationship going?
And do you find yourself reaching deep levels of emotion or not?

Aw that's exiting. Plus military men are strong and disciplined which is a plus. I saw on another thread that you are torn between two guys?? Is that going to affect your decision when he returns?

I myself dated a guy for almost two years who really opened my eyes to relationships. Unfortunately, we didn't go past that time frame but I learned a lot about myself and what I like and don't like. Now, I am in a relationship with a younger guy and he is sweet and goodhearted with good intentions. I like him, but am not sure if I really want to be in love or even can again. I've never seen it happen successfully.

I am getting over myex, i am over the computer guy and over it all really. Thats about it. For me I need to move and havent got the go ahead from said pc guy and its annoying coz I dont want to be with him at all and he making out that there is something there that isnt and I am telling him that there was but not now and cause we had our time before doesnt mean that there is more to it other than what it was.

Sure I love him as I love all people and although we shared a 'connection' thats all it was. Please you is confusing this with more than what it actually is.

Things happen for a reason and this happened cause I meant to go a different way to you and you are to clean your life up so you can meet and be with your significant other. Its like thats how it looks to me

I am all for this to happen and hey it is happening so be happy with it. Dont bring it up anymore it has no use to it anymore, whats done is whats done and it so happened it has made for better.

You now are free from all the other shit that has been your life up until that 'connection' and can go do whatever you want without others pulling you down to their level and making you feel like shit. NO this is not your life. Your life is to be a good clean life and then you can meet and be with 'the one' for you and anyone who tries to stop you from doing this will get it.

As for me, I must do what I gotta do. Imagine if it worked out in their favour we'd be all fucked by now, so I do thank you for doing that for some unknown reason (god?/universe/...) it has been made to be this way, so take it for what it is and go with it. We are fortunate that this has happened dont let anyone else tell you any different they werent the ones who went through it, ok. Only us we did and somehow it worked so its all good!! and now we can celebrate the good things in life again and forever.

Coz you know as well as I do that what happened before was the beginning of the end and for me I couldnt be more happier with that fact. For all the heartache and pain that has been going on, finally something happened that defies all logic, that we as a people will find out what it truly means to be happy.

Its a wonderful time to be living so I urge you to live a good clean life and then meet and be with your one and then see what happens then. I have to go my way now and god help those who help themselves heh? Coz they gonna need it.

*pops back*
I agree that whatever you feel you are capable of and whatever brings joy into your life you should follow. I like to look at my relationship choices, not as a zodiac sign, but as a young woman who has had a hard childhood with no real idol or someone to admire. It s proven that your upbringing plays the biggest role in every orientation yoi take part in.. I.e. politics, religion, sexual orientation, etc. And even on the way yoi view love. So, instead of us looking into our astrological birth chart s for guidance, we should look into ourselves and what we feel is missing in our hearts. Everyone wants to fill that void that they've felt they've always been missing....its just a matter of filling the right voids and dealing with the painful ones without holding back.

As for me, dating a younger dude has its ups and down but its all about what you love about somebody...do they bring out the best I. You, inspire you etc. Etc. And do you feel comfortable around them. I still have a lot of wisdom to obtain in this department because I have never seen a successful relationship up close...but...one day...

yeah my girl it sounds like you've got the man world wrapped around your fingers so to speak lol. I think though that once you are truly interested in someone you wont even second guess it just like you said. If we have to sit there and think about it then it's probably not worth pursuing...

P.s.....What's your favorite thing about Canadia...andhave you ever been to the US?

My Pisces ex and I had a good relationship going.. we were just starting to get more physical with each other so I went on the pill for him. Took me a while to make an appt, but I finally got it. He was excited. But then I didn't hear from him. I assumed he wanted space so I left him alone for 2 weeks. I tried to get a hold of him and he said he's been busy. I also heard his grandfather and uncle were in the hospital. So again, I let him be. After 6 weeks of not being able to reach him, I messaged him on facebook asking him to just let me know we weren't really going anywhere.

His exact words, "I'm sorry but I can't have a relationship I'm going through personal butter and I need to get my butter straight. That's prolly not what you want to hear but it needs to be that way."

My friends have tried hanging out with him and he just doesn't reply or he says he can't cause he's busy.

Just when I start to open up my heart.. someone stops on it again.

Gems and Fishes don't work, unless both are willing to accept and fulfill each others way of life.

I blame his sign and age. Younger Pisces REALLY don't know what they want but he could've told me. Sometimes I think he was paving the road to come back and disappear whenever. If a man can't let you in his world and let you help him, even if it's just by telling you he's going through stuff, there's no point. Move on.

(I give good advice, I should listen to myself more.)

met this girl, hung out a couple times but shes busy with her job. We had planned on getting together from the 15th till the 19th as shed be off from work but all I got was excuses and explanations when she stood me up. We were together for 3 weeks and spoke daily. Ever since then we havent spoken. If she wasnt with me then she was somewhere thats better than what I can offer, so we both knew we were done. Back in the days I would have pursued her even harder, but now onw error am Im out..too many people out there to deal with lies and bullsh!t from peopke.

I like this threat. 😄

My last relationship was with a taurus. It was all good eventhough it was alot of fightings. I ended with him because of the long distance. But I still love him though. It's been around four months since I broke up with him

Now I'm dating an aries guy and its been a month now. So far so good. Deep emotional? Not yet, but I really like this guy and we already plan alot of things for the future. He's very understanding and our chemistry is great too. So I hope the best for us.

Posted by AbstractRay
Lets talk about relationships cuz I love to empathize...
How did your last relationship go? How is your current relationship going?
And do you find yourself reaching deep levels of emotion or not?

My last relationship was with a libra guy. It started out fun/great, and then ended in lies/manipulation/him blaming everyone for his issues he created for himself. Don't get me wrong, I was no angel either. I allowowed it for 3 1/2 years.

Now, I'm with an aqua/pisces cusper. (I am gem with loads of cancer and high aqua influences) It's been almost 3 years of bliss! 🙂 We do not have heated arguments, we talk to each other with respect and as adults. We have loads of fun together! Any problems we've ever had, we tackle them together. When it comes to the emotional part, it's hardly ever stated. I will once in awhile, but not often. Same with him. We both have an understanding that body language and actions go A LOT further than just words. Anyone can say words. Proving it with actions is easy when it's really meant. 🙂

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Posted by AbstractRay
Lets talk about relationships cuz I love to empathize...
How did your last relationship go? How is your current relationship going?
And do you find yourself reaching deep levels of emotion or not?

My last relationship was with a libra guy. It started out fun/great, and then ended in lies/manipulation/him blaming everyone for his issues he created for himself. Don't get me wrong, I was no angel either. I allowowed it for 3 1/2 years.

Now, I'm with an aqua/pisces cusper. (I am gem with loads of cancer and high aqua influences) It's been almost 3 years of bliss! 🙂 We do not have heated arguments, we talk to each other with respect and as adults. We have loads of fun together! Any problems we've ever had, we tackle them together. When it comes to the emotional part, it's hardly ever stated. I will once in awhile, but not often. Same with him. We both have an understanding that body language and actions go A LOT further than just words. Anyone can say words. Proving it with actions is easy when it's really meant. 🙂

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That's what's up!! I'm glad to see you are in a good relationship...what kind of things do you do to show your love for him

Lots of little things, really. I'll listen if he needs it, I'll buy him little weird things to let him know that I think about him when we are doing our seperate things, I'll MAKE him cards for his bday/our anniversary/other special occasions (he really likes it when I take the time to MAKE him something.), if he's hungry I'll pour my heart and soul into my cooking (he notices), I'll give him the space that he needs, and show interest in what he's doing (especially if it's not "my thing".) In return he will do some of the same things for me, but will also give me the touchy-feely love that I need from time to time. You just have to know you're loved when an aqua does that for you... 🙂

Posted by GemiGem
met this girl, hung out a couple times but shes busy with her job. We had planned on getting together from the 15th till the 19th as shed be off from work but all I got was excuses and explanations when she stood me up. We were together for 3 weeks and spoke daily. Ever since then we havent spoken. If she wasnt with me then she was somewhere thats better than what I can offer, so we both knew we were done. Back in the days I would have pursued her even harder, but now onw error am Im out..too many people out there to deal with lies and bullsh!t from peopke.

Way I see it, we will go through a few "projects" before it works out in our favor AND the others. If your age is significantly higher than mine...still, don't worry. Your love will come!

Posted by misslissa
Lots of little things, really. I'll listen if he needs it, I'll buy him little weird things to let him know that I think about him when we are doing our seperate things, I'll MAKE him cards for his bday/our anniversary/other special occasions (he really likes it when I take the time to MAKE him something.), if he's hungry I'll pour my heart and soul into my cooking (he notices), I'll give him the space that he needs, and show interest in what he's doing (especially if it's not "my thing".) In return he will do some of the same things for me, but will also give me the touchy-feely love that I need from time to time. You just have to know you're loved when an aqua does that for you... 🙂

I like that! How long did it take for you two to progress into what you have now?

Posted by Maybelle
I like this threat. 😄

My last relationship was with a taurus. It was all good eventhough it was alot of fightings. I ended with him because of the long distance. But I still love him though. It's been around four months since I broke up with him

Now I'm dating an aries guy and its been a month now. So far so good. Deep emotional? Not yet, but I really like this guy and we already plan alot of things for the future. He's very understanding and our chemistry is great too. So I hope the best for us.

Well, whichever person you are with...a lot of fighting really sucks. It exhausts us as humans. But I'm glad you found someone more available to you and if it works out with less fighting then all the better. 🙂

Posted by KillerGemini
Gems and Fishes don't work, unless both are willing to accept and fulfill each others way of life.

I blame his sign and age. Younger Pisces REALLY don't know what they want but he could've told me. Sometimes I think he was paving the road to come back and disappear whenever. If a man can't let you in his world and let you help him, even if it's just by telling you he's going through stuff, there's no point. Move on.

(I give good advice, I should listen to myself more.)

Yes, yes, yes!

Posted by AbstractRay

Posted by misslissa
Lots of little things, really. I'll listen if he needs it, I'll buy him little weird things to let him know that I think about him when we are doing our seperate things, I'll MAKE him cards for his bday/our anniversary/other special occasions (he really likes it when I take the time to MAKE him something.), if he's hungry I'll pour my heart and soul into my cooking (he notices), I'll give him the space that he needs, and show interest in what he's doing (especially if it's not "my thing".) In return he will do some of the same things for me, but will also give me the touchy-feely love that I need from time to time. You just have to know you're loved when an aqua does that for you... 🙂

I like that! How long did it take for you two to progress into what you have now?

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We will have been together 3 years in the first week of may. 🙂

There really is no right answer to this, as for others it will be different. Everyone has a different learning curves/levels. It's a daily process for us.

It was just trying to understand each other. Most won't or don't take the time to for various reasons. Everyone wants what is easy, but there is no such thing as an easy relationship. And there also has to be a high level of respect for one another. Once you're comfortable enough to convey your love into actions, you also have to watch and learn their body language, too. If it's not returned, it probably never will be and you're wasting your time....

My last relationship was with a Capricorn and lasted 3 years. I ended it because it had become incredibly repressive. We were never horrible to each other per se, but there were a lot of things left unsaid until too late. I was shameless and independent, while he cared too much about what others thought and was always trying to reel me back in to him. His constant proximity eventually fizzled out my sex drive and sparked a bitterness within me.
He wasn't a horrible guy, but we just weren't clicking anymore, and I knew I'd grow more on my own. I was civil with how I ended the relationship and we're still on speaking terms, but I'm definitely not looking back.

Presently, I'm still single and I'm not seriously searching for anything. I've fallen in love with true independence and I think a man would just cramp my style right now, lol. I'd rather focus on my education and career for a few years...Unless an Adonis happens to roll my way.
I'm only human, afterall.

Posted by AbstractRay
Lets talk about relationships cuz I love to empathize...
How did your last relationship go? How is your current relationship going?
And do you find yourself reaching deep levels of emotion or not?

SHITTY! Cancer man broke up with my. I admittedly was selfish during the last few months. (it was a hell of a situation) and I felt like he should understand and be there, but that's not how that went, and he broke up with me... but still tries to act like my boyfriend, just seeing me less. my venus is in cancer, and so is his, and he has tons of gem in his chart. I hope we can work it out! blah! I've never MISSED someone when they break up with me, usually I don't give a shit because I was just waiting for them to pull the trigger. UGH