The curse of the Gemini...

Any other Gemini's out there feel that being born under this sign is more of a curse than a blessing?

Honestly, sometimes I feel like I'm just an abstract mess of pieces of other signs in my chart rolled up into a ball and surrounded by the cursed sphere of the inconsistant Gemini...

you could believe in the opichius thing as a dillusion to relieve yourself of this 'curse' . . . .

Honestly, sometimes I feel like I'm just an abstract mess of pieces of other signs in my chart rolled up into a ball and surrounded by the cursed sphere of the inconsistant Gemini...

Yup.

But, I still don't think I would want to be anything else. Maybe just have some more stable supporting signs.

I am sometimes envious when I speak with other signs about having so many people inside of me, and they don't now what I mean. Imagine waking up every day and knowing exactly who you'll be that day, and exactly how you'll respond! But, there are also signs that have much worse inner turmoil, I think. My Piscesan friends seem to have a lot on their plates.

nah, i have more issue with the cancer parts. but, it's what i've been given to learn what i need to learn.

I've felt that way at times. I never quite "fit in". Any attempts at going with the flow and following the crowd were fake and never lasted. The need for freedom can be isolating.
I've been a loner for the most part, though I would've welcomed company. Maybe it's the twin in me that wished for a "partner in crime" that never materialized. In the end, it was just me.
Seeking my truth, on my own schedule has not always been easy. Being judged and henpecked by well intentioned people still happens, into middle age.

The only way I have been able to climb out of this is to mill the positive. I look at my multiple personalities as a resource to understand people, and to view the world through different lenses.
Because I feel I encompass all these qualities, anything is possible. If am I am shy, I can also be bold. If I'm scared, I can also be brave. We're dual, we can be both. There's no limit to what we can do, and be.

I wouldn't want to be anything else: I'm very intelligent, good-looking, great body, witty, clever, motivated, etc. Now that doesn't necessarily have to do with a zodiac sign but most Gems have these aforementioned attributes. I love how I can see both sides of a situation (which many ignorant folks see as two-faced; look that up people it's not the same). I do have quite a bit of water and earth in my chart so that balances me out. I can be the life of the party or the person who sits back and observes everyone at a party. People are not drawn to me because they can't figure me out. Am I bitchy or am I sweet? Those who choose to delve further (and provided they are worthy enough to be let in), find that I am a sweet person and a good friend who is fiercly loyal.

Gems should not constantly explain to others how they are. Those who matter know how we are and I don't feel it necessary to justify why I do the things I do. So many on this board say things about Gems and then the Gems come back on the defensive--why? Excuse my French but fuck 'em! LOL! Who cares what THEY think? I don't; I just read their comments with my Gem amusement and move on...

Life is good and being a Gemini is da bomb!

It's true... ya'll down right crazy lol. Truly odd at times, wanting everyone else to open up (which somehow causes you to believe you are just as open) even while you're ironically afraid to be vulnerable yourselves, hence the first-meeting charm-offense. Nevertheless, this Aquarius loves Gemini and gets it. While an insecure gemini most quickly becomes a bore and is entirely too aloof, a confident Gem who has an attitude of... as GemStar05 put it: "who cares what THEY think?" is most attractive and mentally stimulating! We can kick it, conversate, among other things, for hours! Gem women are indeed the most interestingly complex of all. Consider it a blessing, or check your insecurities.

"Striving.... yearning.... captured..... i am a Gemini.....and do not like to be contained ....... i love to learn ..... always up for a good conversation..... passionate.... do not like to be told that i cant do something ..... this gives me the urge to do it even more..... love being loved..... wont lie i have a tendency to judge people.... part of my nature.... if you can find a way over my walls you have a friend in me for life..... my hands r my veins to my soul, if you have that chance to feel it hold it. challenge me...."

Just me being me, at times I do feel cursed, because my mind is everywhere! I'm going to college for business, because there are so many different fields I can dabble in, I could never have a boring position, I would go nuts. I love to converse (conversate....not a word) with anyone who can spark up a conversation. However, if one can't hold my interest I'll move on no sense in waisting time bord. I love attention, but really who doesn't? My problem is attachments, I get attached to people way to easy! I also can't stand being out of a social scene for to long, I go crazy not doing things.....

I use to feel that way! But the older I got, the more I realized Gemini's are fabulous and I love being one! I'm with GemStar05. Who cares what they think! Those who take the time to get to know me are never dissapointed.I'm a wonderful friend, awesome mother,great sister,and super daughter. And someday I will make a wonderful wife for a lucky guy!