I met my baby in april thru my sister. He is an amazing man!!! Makes me laugh, I make him laugh....he told me that he really loves that i make him laugh because hardly anyone out there captures his funny bone. and you know how it goes, The aries and gemini connection just SPARKS!!!!!!. we are in love. finally he came to see me cuz he lives 1800mi away. we met in person for the first time and spend the whole week in the bedroom. we both took turns cooking. we cleaned together we laughed, played, we just had the greatest of time. this last 6 weeks though have not been so great. we would talk on the phone for 4 hours straight. now just about an hour. he tells me to please understand him because he works the 3rd shift and he's getting sooo tired lately. it never stopped him before. on his off days we would talk on the phone and now we dont talk until its time for bed. I work at 6am and i get tired too but i make time to chat. seems like he's losing interest. but yet he tells me that he loves me and he wants to be a part of his life and please stand by him. I NEED ATTENTION!!!!!!! i tell him how i feel....he then tells me his reasons why and he attempts to make it all better. he does, and i am happy again. a few days go by and its back to neglecting me. I give him space. i know you gems need it. i too need it. but i want my baby to please me. He puts me on hold now till the end of the day. and we talk just under an hour now. Im so inlove eith him and i feel like he's not putting in as much effort as he did when we first got together. but i mean its only been 5 months. i wanted to break up with him but he insists that he loves me very much. I dont think hes cheating. or is he—? but i crave his attention and im not getting it like before. im tired of the excuses. how can i make myself feel better with out looking for another mans attention. i dont want sex with another man. i just want the mental stimulation. why is he doing this— he says he's got a life and he cannot dwell on the fact that we are apart. but i have a life too, and i still make time for us. then sometimes when we are on the phone he seems distracted. i figure he's going thru sh**. How can I make this relationship work? i cannot do it alone. Please guys....especially you gem males, give me some peace of mind. I decided i aint calling him if he dont call me. he will eventually but he calls when im about to pass out into sleep. Im so sad that i have no desire to continue but i do want him.
