Translate this Gemini?

So I was textn this Gemini ex of mine and said "I know you prob found a replacement for me by now, but just wanted to let you know I was doing a photo shoot with my dog for a Marketing campaign and will send you the pics if you like. And he said, "" You worry too much, I'm just horrible at responding and I'm sorry... Any shots of you doggy style I'd love to see" 😉 So do you think he was just being flirty or this is his way of telling me he's just not up for anything other then physical right now? I mean he is very clever with his wording and playful like that (which I loved) but now as we are not together I'm not sure what his intentions are...?"

OP, sorry i am not a gemini but just want to ask does every cancer folks possess an emotionally rich eyes like yours? I looked at your dp & that glance stirred up so many emotions. Cancers are really very motherly sign indeed 🙂

Posted by Angmodurian
OP, sorry i am not a gemini but just want to ask does every cancer folks possess an emotionally rich eyes like yours? I looked at your dp & that glance stirred up so many emotions. Cancers are really very motherly sign indeed 🙂

Hi Angmodurina, thank you! I take that as a great compliment 🙂 We are the "mothers of the Zodiac" after all..but yes, I am in Sales/Hospitality and I like to "mother" my peeps 😉 I do have a lot of fire, so that combined with my water I'm sure give me the look of "crashing waves" lol

Gemini' are very wordy in general and the way we communicate is very playful, flirty and clever. Personally hard to tell from just this one interaction. However the fact that he did respond and is being kind and playful is a good sign he still holds you in high regard. Otherwise he may have been a bit distant and not have felt comfortable teasing you. Keep us posted, further convos may reveal more. 🙂

Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Gemini' are very wordy in general and the way we communicate is very playful, flirty and clever. Personally hard to tell from just this one interaction. However the fact that he did respond and is being kind and playful is a good sign he still holds you in high regard. Otherwise he may have been a bit distant and not have felt comfortable teasing you. Keep us posted, further convos may reveal more. 🙂

Hi WildHeartGemini, thank u for the advise 🙂 I seem to attract a lot of Gems in my life(which I love) I have Gem Mars...maybe that is why? But my 2 recent LTR were Gems, 2 recent bosses were Gems, Gem friends, Gem dog...lol. I just don't know how to get to my ex...i wanna meet up but he is just out of reach...:/

Posted by LittleStar
He's bored for the moment which is why he actually finally answered.

He actually doesn't receive reception at work so he replies when he can...but thanks for the input 🙂

Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Gemini' are very wordy in general and the way we communicate is very playful, flirty and clever. Personally hard to tell from just this one interaction. However the fact that he did respond and is being kind and playful is a good sign he still holds you in high regard. Otherwise he may have been a bit distant and not have felt comfortable teasing you. Keep us posted, further convos may reveal more. 🙂

Nailed it. We are wordy at times, flirty and clever. Usually it's just our nature and for fun. We don't purposely do it make anyone feel uncomfortable. And honestly, I would never be that forthright and silly with someone I didn't trust and care about. If we're writing to someone who isn't in our heart, we cut the flirty stuff and keep it simple.

He's not telling you, " I only want you back for your body....he's being clever with the fact that you are taking a pic with your dog and thus, doggy style. You made it too easy for him. Gems will jump on something like that without even thinking....it's all reactionary and in our DNA.

Let him come to you and keep the convo going. You initiated his reply. Let him initiate the next step.

BTW, if you can dish back some of his silliness and clever instincts, he'll love it. I love a guy who can play nice and banter. And guys loves this back. They love a challenge and a woman who has a sense of humor and is confident enough to use it. Especially a woman who can keep up with his pace and do so with a flare of flirtation.

Posted by gemini64

Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Gemini' are very wordy in general and the way we communicate is very playful, flirty and clever. Personally hard to tell from just this one interaction. However the fact that he did respond and is being kind and playful is a good sign he still holds you in high regard. Otherwise he may have been a bit distant and not have felt comfortable teasing you. Keep us posted, further convos may reveal more. 🙂

Nailed it. We are wordy at times, flirty and clever. Usually it's just our nature and for fun. We don't purposely do it make anyone feel uncomfortable. And honestly, I would never be that forthright and silly with someone I didn't trust and care about. If we're writing to someone who isn't in our heart, we cut the flirty stuff and keep it simple.

He's not telling you, " I only want you back for your body....he's being clever with the fact that you are taking a pic with your dog and thus, doggy style. You made it too easy for him. Gems will jump on something like that without even thinking....it's all reactionary and in our DNA.

Let him come to you and keep the convo going. You initiated his reply. Let him initiate the next step.

BTW, if you can dish back some of his silliness and clever instincts, he'll love it. I love a guy who can play nice and banter. And guys loves this back. They love a challenge and a woman who has a sense of humor and is confident enough to use it. Especially a woman who can keep up with his pace and do so with a flare of flirtation.

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Yep, cosign. I don't mess with people for the hell of it. Not nice and so not worth the time and effort. If you mean nothing or very little to me. Ghost but have a nice life!

The doggy style comment was funny though.... 😉 Not sure what's holding him back. He might have a lot of things going on in his life and needs to sort them out to feel whole and keep things positive, so when gems disappear it can be to deal with our issues as not to put them on anyone else. As a gem I don't like to draw people into my drama so I just deal with it myself, no need to torture anyone.

A lot of the comments on the boards about gems disappearing cause they are so bored, using people etc...many would be surprised that gems spend a lot of time alone trying to figure things out. The goal isn't to harm another, but to ultimately understand whatever is going on.

Posted by Moonbutter
So I was textn this Gemini ex of mine and said "I know you prob found a replacement for me by now, but just wanted to let you know I was doing a photo shoot with my dog for a Marketing campaign and will send you the pics if you like. And he said, "" You worry too much, I'm just horrible at responding and I'm sorry... Any shots of you doggy style I'd love to see" 😉 So do you think he was just being flirty or this is his way of telling me he's just not up for anything other then physical right now? I mean he is very clever with his wording and playful like that (which I loved) but now as we are not together I'm not sure what his intentions are...?"

Hmm...well if an ex texted me that randomly I would assume they are still interested in me/wanting to find a way to interact with me, so I'm sure if I was bored or wanted the attention I would respond and be flirty, but it probably shouldn't be taken too serious. If a Gemini is serious about you or interested in rekindling, trust me, they will come to you. We aren't very stubborn when it comes to going after what we want...but that could be my Venus Aries talking. He sounds like he is just being playful/civil, I wouldn't think anything into it (even though I would want to too)...

Posted by gemini64

Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Gemini' are very wordy in general and the way we communicate is very playful, flirty and clever. Personally hard to tell from just this one interaction. However the fact that he did respond and is being kind and playful is a good sign he still holds you in high regard. Otherwise he may have been a bit distant and not have felt comfortable teasing you. Keep us posted, further convos may reveal more. 🙂

Nailed it. We are wordy at times, flirty and clever. Usually it's just our nature and for fun. We don't purposely do it make anyone feel uncomfortable. And honestly, I would never be that forthright and silly with someone I didn't trust and care about. If we're writing to someone who isn't in our heart, we cut the flirty stuff and keep it simple.

He's not telling you, " I only want you back for your body....he's being clever with the fact that you are taking a pic with your dog and thus, doggy style. You made it too easy for him. Gems will jump on something like that without even thinking....it's all reactionary and in our DNA.

Let him come to you and keep the convo going. You initiated his reply. Let him initiate the next step.

BTW, if you can dish back some of his silliness and clever instincts, he'll love it. I love a guy who can play nice and banter. And guys loves this back. They love a challenge and a woman who has a sense of humor and is confident enough to use it. Especially a woman who can keep up with his pace and do so with a flare of flirtation.

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Thanks for the reply gemini64🙂 I actually am very witty/sexual banter with him which is why we got along so great, but being in this unknown position of where I stand with him I just take it too serious :/ I find it interesting that him being sexually suggestive is actually a sign he still cares for me? So you think I have a chance with him?

Posted by gemeliorist

Posted by gemini64

Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Gemini' are very wordy in general and the way we communicate is very playful, flirty and clever. Personally hard to tell from just this one interaction. However the fact that he did respond and is being kind and playful is a good sign he still holds you in high regard. Otherwise he may have been a bit distant and not have felt comfortable teasing you. Keep us posted, further convos may reveal more. 🙂

Nailed it. We are wordy at times, flirty and clever. Usually it's just our nature and for fun. We don't purposely do it make anyone feel uncomfortable. And honestly, I would never be that forthright and silly with someone I didn't trust and care about. If we're writing to someone who isn't in our heart, we cut the flirty stuff and keep it simple.

He's not telling you, " I only want you back for your body....he's being clever with the fact that you are taking a pic with your dog and thus, doggy style. You made it too easy for him. Gems will jump on something like that without even thinking....it's all reactionary and in our DNA.

Let him come to you and keep the convo going. You initiated his reply. Let him initiate the next step.

BTW, if you can dish back some of his silliness and clever instincts, he'll love it. I love a guy who can play nice and banter. And guys loves this back. They love a challenge and a woman who has a sense of humor and is confident enough to use it. Especially a woman who can keep up with his pace and do so with a flare of flirtation.

Yep, cosign. I don't mess with people for the hell of it. Not nice and so not worth the time and effort. If you mean nothing or very little to me. Ghost but have a nice life!

The doggy style comment was funny though.... 😉 Not sure what's holding him back. He might have a lot of things going on in his life and needs to sort them out to feel whole and keep things positive, so when gems disappear it can be to deal with our issues as not to put them on anyone else. As a gem I don't like to draw people into my drama so I just deal with it myself, no need to torture anyone.

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Thank u for your insight gemeliorist...I know he is working on his "inner demons" but I'm torn I mean I can respect that, but I also want to be there for him...maybe he just needs alone time to sort himself out I guess? I'm just taking it personal and I miss him...I am a Cancer after all so I want to coddle lol.

Thanks for the reply gemini64🙂 I actually am very witty/sexual banter with him which is why we got along so great, but being in this unknown position of where I stand with him I just take it too serious :/ I find it interesting that him being sexually suggestive is actually a sign he still cares for me? So you think I have a chance with him?



Yes, i think you have a chance with him IF you don't become too clingy with him and require lots of attention all the time. Guys in general don't like that. Gems and Virgo's both share mercury as our ruling sign of communication. Both male Gems and Virgo's don't like clingy partners. Just some FYI.

The sexual banter I believe also indicates some attraction. It's done subtly so not to offend you and come across like a jerk. Being that you are witty and can flirt, that is in your favor. Someone who possessed a personality that is rigid and lacking in humor would not appreciate this guy's comments. So you have a good combo imho.

A woman actually opens up a man by having the ability to be witty, self deprecating, and having fun with it. The sexual tension comes from that ability of a man thinking to himself, "wow, this lady is cool. She's funny and isn't afraid to stir it up with me." He then starts appreciating you more and thus, some of the attraction builds. He's thinking, "Hmm, she's pretty cool and I feel comfortable around her. Wonder what she thinks of me?"

Keep doing what you're doing but be subtle and don't always makes yourself available. Men love a challenge and mystery. Keep him wanting to figure you out but never let him. That can come later IF you get serious. For now, just be yourself and have fun with it. Don't change to try to impress him etc. He's obviously already finding you interesting and probably likes you.

Like I said, Gems can be flirty and witty. But we don't do that with just anyone. We do that with people we know, feel comfortable with and are special to us. I'm not saying he's finding you
special and is in love with you at this point; but I'm willing to bet he finds you unique. Guys love girls who are unique and just have that "something" about them they can't put their finger on.

Posted by Koniucha
Personally, I don't think sexual banter is a sign that someone cares deeply about you.

But I'm also not a Gemini or have any planets there lol

it depends on what was said and the context. I have never had a man use any banter, sexual or otherwise, who was just a simple coworker or mere acquaintance. However, it's not atypical that a man who finds you fun to be around, may care about you, even if on a basic level and may be attracted to you to use banter that has underlying subtle sexual innuendo.
How do you think sexual tension starts? It's not by discussing the Dow Jones or latest iPhone.

My best friend growing up is a guy who use to tease me all the time, but he did so very subtly, that it would make me laugh and roll my eyes. He did it to get a reaction or come back from me. He loved bantering with me because he knew I could stand on my own. We are still close. My husband, a Scorpio, always teases me and did so prior to us getting engaged.

I think it's all in what you are comfortable with and how well you know someone. Naturally none of us act our true self in front of people who were don't know or feel at home with.

Yes I wanted to add that as well. Don't "chase" him. If you do and come on too strong it will turn him off and he'll flutter away. Just be yourself. Best thing to do with a Gem. You being a Cancer you can relate to the fact that Gems also have great instincts about people and can feel out what they think and feel fairly easily. So if you aren't yourself, he'll know. Try not to over think it.....leave that to him 😉 LOL! Go with the flow, allow him to set the pace of what it is. He will make it clear what his intentions are if there are any. He'll show you and tell you if he wants anything more from you. And again, just be yourself and honest.

Posted by blackphase
From what you have said.. I don't know if he has any intentions at all.. you msg'd him and made it sound like you were looking for info as to if he had moved on. That is all that I took form that msg you sent him. And he responded in a way that would put your mind at ease about him in new relationships then decided to be cute and sexual. He still has feelings for you if that is what you are wondering. As to his intentions.. I can't say there as you haven't provided much about why you separated or who left who.

Thanks for your response blackphase, but how can you tell just from his response he may still have feelings? I am just intrigued since it seems with any other non-Gemini guy his comment would have just been meant as a booty call interest.

Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Yes I wanted to add that as well. Don't "chase" him. If you do and come on too strong it will turn him off and he'll flutter away. Just be yourself. Best thing to do with a Gem. You being a Cancer you can relate to the fact that Gems also have great instincts about people and can feel out what they think and feel fairly easily. So if you aren't yourself, he'll know. Try not to over think it.....leave that to him 😉 LOL! Go with the flow, allow him to set the pace of what it is. He will make it clear what his intentions are if there are any. He'll show you and tell you if he wants anything more from you. And again, just be yourself and honest.

Thanks wildheart, you are right...he is very intuitive to my moods, knows when something isn't right...But he generally thinks I'm kinda a bitch/high maintenance as he said I was a "she-wolf who needed her claws trimmed" lol But maybe he likes that about me...keeps him on his toes? Disclaimer: I'm not really a bitch I just played it up sometimes cuz he seemed to get turned on by a lil drama and bitchyness...but maybe I'm wrong : l

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Yes I wanted to add that as well. Don't "chase" him. If you do and come on too strong it will turn him off and he'll flutter away. Just be yourself. Best thing to do with a Gem. You being a Cancer you can relate to the fact that Gems also have great instincts about people and can feel out what they think and feel fairly easily. So if you aren't yourself, he'll know. Try not to over think it.....leave that to him 😉 LOL! Go with the flow, allow him to set the pace of what it is. He will make it clear what his intentions are if there are any. He'll show you and tell you if he wants anything more from you. And again, just be yourself and honest.

Thanks wildheart, you are right...he is very intuitive to my moods, knows when something isn't right...But he generally thinks I'm kinda a bitch/high maintenance as he said I was a "she-wolf who needed her claws trimmed" lol But maybe he likes that about me...keeps him on his toes? Disclaimer: I'm not really a bitch I just played it up sometimes cuz he seemed to get turned on by a lil drama and bitchyness...but maybe I'm wrong : l

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OP you give off warmth but that also fires off a feeling of difficult to cater to you emotionally. As an aqua, i honestly dont know how to satisfy your emotional needs. I am unsure whether fellow air signs like Gemini can do that unless he's very evolved. Air signs tend to be imaginative & philosophical but gemini wise its very playful & hard to ground them. Apart from that, they are very flirty haha so you may always get jealous. I think they do not do this purposely, they are just being friendly, nice & playful but may rub people the wrong way. I dont know whether he can satisfy u for your constant need of affection.

We are very deceiving bastards. Blame the twins.

Posted by geminidude
We are very deceiving bastards. Blame the twins.

What do u mean by that?

Posted by Angmodurian

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Posted by WildHHeartGemini
Yes I wanted to add that as well. Don't "chase" him. If you do and come on too strong it will turn him off and he'll flutter away. Just be yourself. Best thing to do with a Gem. You being a Cancer you can relate to the fact that Gems also have great instincts about people and can feel out what they think and feel fairly easily. So if you aren't yourself, he'll know. Try not to over think it.....leave that to him 😉 LOL! Go with the flow, allow him to set the pace of what it is. He will make it clear what his intentions are if there are any. He'll show you and tell you if he wants anything more from you. And again, just be yourself and honest.

Thanks wildheart, you are right...he is very intuitive to my moods, knows when something isn't right...But he generally thinks I'm kinda a bitch/high maintenance as he said I was a "she-wolf who needed her claws trimmed" lol But maybe he likes that about me...keeps him on his toes? Disclaimer: I'm not really a bitch I just played it up sometimes cuz he seemed to get turned on by a lil drama and bitchyness...but maybe I'm wrong : l

OP you give off warmth but that also fires off a feeling of difficult to cater to you emotionally. As an aqua, i honestly dont know how to satisfy your emotional needs. I am unsure whether fellow air signs like Gemini can do that unless he's very evolved. Air signs tend to be imaginative & philosophical but gemini wise its very playful & hard to ground them. Apart from that, they are very flirty haha so you may always get jealous. I think they do not do this purposely, they are just being friendly, nice & playful but may rub people the wrong way. I dont know whether he can satisfy u for your constant need of affection.

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Thanks! My ex is very mature and he has Scorpio Mars which I think makes him more the jealous/possessive one? lol But no, I don't get jealous he doesn't really flirt with other girls.Funny thing is he didn't think I was being sweet enough toward him and felt I couldn't be pleased...but I think that is both our faults of misunderstanding and immaturity.I broke things off so he could battle his "demons" but now i am regretting 😢