Will this Gemini come back?

Hi!
I am a libra Scorpio cusp female and I used to date a Gemini cancer cusp male for two months. At the beginning everything was ok, he did all the chase, replied back to messages, calls etc... He took care of me, he told him that he missed me a lot when he did not see me. Since one week he started pull apart and yesterday he told me that he needs some time on his own to figure out if he can be at this relationship. I try not to call and text but it is really difficult since this came quite sudden to me.

Any help will be really appreciated

Posted by Vretonilia
Hi!
I am a libra Scorpio cusp female and I used to date a Gemini cancer cusp male for two months. At the beginning everything was ok, he did all the chase, replied back to messages, calls etc... He took care of me, he told him that he missed me a lot when he did not see me. Since one week he started pull apart and yesterday he told me that he needs some time on his own to figure out if he can be at this relationship. I try not to call and text but it is really difficult since this came quite sudden to me.

Any help will be really appreciated

Yup, just keep not calling/texting so he can "miss" you and wonder what you are up to. Then when he does contact you act totally chill like didn't faze you one bit lol. This is him testing the idea of having a relationship so it is crucial you don't interrupt this needed alone time of assessment.

thank you Moonbutter! But is there any indication when I should contact him?

Posted by Vretonilia
thank you Moonbutter! But is there any indication when I should contact him?

Wait for him to contact you.

Posted by Vretonilia
thank you Moonbutter! But is there any indication when I should contact him?

Wait for him to contact you.

Posted by RoseAngel

Posted by Vretonilia
Hi!
I am a libra Scorpio cusp female and I used to date a Gemini cancer cusp male for two months. At the beginning everything was ok, he did all the chase, replied back to messages, calls etc... He took care of me, he told him that he missed me a lot when he did not see me. Since one week he started pull apart and yesterday he told me that he needs some time on his own to figure out if he can be at this relationship. I try not to call and text but it is really difficult since this came quite sudden to me.

Any help will be really appreciated

My gemini did this after 8 months. He had met someone else and was test driving her with me waiting to see if he wanted her and pulled the break bullshit so he would have me waiting.

Yours is doing the same.

Fuck him. Dont contact him again.

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thank you RoseAngel... maybe you are right... but he is very melancholic... very down... we work together, it is not only my impression... Anyway we will see 🙂

Posted by Vretonilia

Posted by RoseAngel

Posted by Vretonilia
Hi!
I am a libra Scorpio cusp female and I used to date a Gemini cancer cusp male for two months. At the beginning everything was ok, he did all the chase, replied back to messages, calls etc... He took care of me, he told him that he missed me a lot when he did not see me. Since one week he started pull apart and yesterday he told me that he needs some time on his own to figure out if he can be at this relationship. I try not to call and text but it is really difficult since this came quite sudden to me.

Any help will be really appreciated

My gemini did this after 8 months. He had met someone else and was test driving her with me waiting to see if he wanted her and pulled the break bullshit so he would have me waiting.

Yours is doing the same.

Fuck him. Dont contact him again.

thank you RoseAngel... maybe you are right... but he is very melancholic... very down... we work together, it is not only my impression... Anyway we will see 🙂

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It depends on the guy, but a lot of Gems are "moody/depressed" at times. I would say if he is down, then there is no new love interest, but I could be wrong.

I would agree with Moonbutter… if he is down or depressed and saying this, then it isnt stemming from a new romantic interest. But if he is bouncy and flitting around, then it's most likely he is testing someone else's waters.

Thank you all!!! especially for gemini insights! so is this typical gemini behaviour... could it be that this relationship started when venus was retrograde?

Posted by Geminariescharmer
Moonbutter u seem to read a gemini mind like a book haha..CAncer sun i see ^^

Haha, well I had 2 LTR with Gems and a "complicated" friendship with another male Gem for 8 years, so I guess it was good for something after all. Plus as strange as this sounds, I sometimes act/think like a Gemini...Maybe my Gem Mars.. And yes, I am a Moon Goddess lol. you like?

So guys! My genimi seems to wake up little by little, texting, smiling etc! BUT all his mesasges have a more kinky flavour 😢 I have made clear to him that if we are not going to be together as before, he should n;ot have such expectations and he said ok. thing is that i do not know in what degree I should play as hard to get, or if it would just start having fun with him and that would bring us closer 🙂

Vretonilia

With us Gems when we love a person we will go back to them, just give space we have a lot on our minds it doesn't mean we have found someone else to be with.

Posted by angiedbc457
Vretonilia

With us Gems when we love a person we will go back to them, just give space we have a lot on our minds it doesn't mean we have found someone else to be with.

Even if the other person keeps running away...or especially because lol

Posted by Geminariescharmer

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Geminariescharmer
Moonbutter u seem to read a gemini mind like a book haha..CAncer sun i see ^^

Haha, well I had 2 LTR with Gems and a "complicated" friendship with another male Gem for 8 years, so I guess it was good for something after all. Plus as strange as this sounds, I sometimes act/think like a Gemini...Maybe my Gem Mars.. And yes, I am a Moon Goddess lol. you like?

Yeah, thought you look extremely beautiful for a european chick, hehehe

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Haha Thank you Geminiariescharmer 😉