virgo male, gemini female

virgo third decan aqua moon, scorp venus with a gemini female (may 30)

she likes me we both flirt big time, u think it will work? anybody experiences please..

For the love god, don't do it. I'm saving u from a heartache and headache. You can thank me later. 😄

im the type of person who easily gets influenced by my moon, my head is always in the clouds while i sometimes feel as a libra, the control thing hsouldnt be an issue ive been taking care of that problem for the past 5 to 6 byears form relationship to relationship, to the point where im a "dont give a f***k type dude if you know what i mean. i get alot of critism good and bad about my dont give a fly attitude yet im not woorried because i am mature and know how to have fun. thanks for the input please continue more with this compatibility so i can know what to expect, conversation wise etc etc, heres my chart

Sun Virgo 21.52 Ascendant Aries 18.41
Moon Aquarius 10.33 II Taurus 24.34
Mercury Virgo 29.50 III Gemini 18.54
Venus Scorpio 6.16 IV Cancer 9.57
Mars Capricorn 18.35 V Leo 2.39
Jupiter Pisces 17.19 R VI Virgo 2.48
Saturn Sagittarius 4.16 VII Libra 18.41
Uranus Sagittarius 18.30 VIII Scorpio 24.34
Neptune Capricorn 3.03 IX Sagittarius 18.54
Pluto Scorpio 5.35 Midheaven Capricorn 9.57
Lilith Gemini 22.19 XI Aquarius 2.39
Asc node Aries 20.56 XII Pisces 2.48

i don't know about all the other attributes, but i have mucho expereince with the male virgo, and RUN LIKE HELL. after the roses stop smelling so pretty and the puppy love is over, give it 2 years, and it's torture. UGH. If you lok in my past posts i have commented in detail way too many times about this combo.

BUT - that's my expereince. GOOD LUCK!

""dont give a f***k type dude "

in the long run, that will be a problem.

UMMM the "dont give a f**ck" attitude wrks in the geminis favor being that i wouldnt be stressing little things other guys would i just live my life. with i dont give a shh attitude i didnt mean being ignorant or an ass whole if that where u got confused at. and im a pretty consistent person to keep everything fresh everytime. i would think i would be a better match for a gem than a scorp but youre making it seem like were all evil lol my bday is sep 14 by the way

cool cool, ill get it one day u think it would be akward just asking her if shes into astrology outta the blue being that ima dude and all that i dont wanna creep her outhaving her think im doing this overanalizing thing?. More insight from you guys would be cool on this pair and come on people be optimistic for once lol

bump

Wow this is kind of creepy. I'm a gemini may 31 and my crush is a virgo sept 14. I'm in the same boat trying to see what will happen. So far, he just text me all. The time went on two dates and we see each other but he is very private. Its been a year. I asked him how he felt about me yesterday and he just shut down and changed the subject. And then my twin came out! I called him out from A-Z. Reciprocation is what I need to continue. Period.

I'm totally going to copy and paste what I put in another thread about this very same subject. I'm going to add to it because I see somebody pointed out in the other one that I gave the sharp end of the sword to the Virgos.

Just facts on me if they add to the usefulness of my experiences with Virgos:
Sun-Gemini
Moon-Libra
Venus-Aries
Mars- Gemini
...
I personally have been in romantic relationships with 2 Virgos. My mother is a Virgo as well, and we BARELY tolerate each other. I generally regard them as a horrible match. Virgos have always seemed to have what I deem to be unrealistic expectations of me. Being with them tends to give me a feeling of having a wet blanket on my back. Theyre too focused on conventional things (they are an Earth sign after all) such as planning out activities step by step. Whereas a Gemini does things on a whim.

Sexually speaking, I have found Virgos boring to be completely honest. Yes, I do have a romantic side, but I've found Virgos to be too interested in pleasing me and sacrificing their own needs to excess. Without telling a sex story (which I wont do on a forum I'm new to) I'm not sure I can really explain that any more clearly.

Bottom line, in my opinion, its not a good pairing.

The Addition: Virgos tend to find Geminis obnoxious. Virgos are very interested in establishing order, and planning activities. Geminis do things on a whim, order and structure is not a Gemini specialty. And its even possible that the Gemini may begin to deliberately disrupt well-laid plans in protest. This will create great conflict which most likely cannot be avoided.

I wish this forum had an "edit post" feature so I didnt have to double post (lets ignore the fact that I should finish my thoughts thoroughly before submitting lol)

Virgos are the kind of people that will bend over backwards to help someone. The "catch" to that is they have expectations of people they help. (quid pro quo for lack of a better term). In a relationship for example: If a Virgo does the grocery shopping because the Gemini doesn't want to. God help you if you don't feel like cooking the food either. Sure, that sounds reasonable in a relationship that if one person buys the food the other should cook it. But just the simple fact that the Virgo HAS this expectation is probably going to cause the Gemini to do the opposite. Things like this will probably happen too frequently and often.

Posted by nyc125
im the type of person who easily gets influenced by my moon, my head is always in the clouds while i sometimes feel as a libra, the control thing hsouldnt be an issue ive been taking care of that problem for the past 5 to 6 byears form relationship to relationship, to the point where im a "dont give a f***k type dude if you know what i mean. i get alot of critism good and bad about my dont give a fly attitude yet im not woorried because i am mature and know how to have fun. thanks for the input please continue more with this compatibility so i can know what to expect, conversation wise etc etc, heres my chart

Sun Virgo 21.52 Ascendant Aries 18.41
Moon Aquarius 10.33 II Taurus 24.34
Mercury Virgo 29.50 III Gemini 18.54
Venus Scorpio 6.16 IV Cancer 9.57
Mars Capricorn 18.35 V Leo 2.39
Jupiter Pisces 17.19 R VI Virgo 2.48
Saturn Sagittarius 4.16 VII Libra 18.41
Uranus Sagittarius 18.30 VIII Scorpio 24.34
Neptune Capricorn 3.03 IX Sagittarius 18.54
Pluto Scorpio 5.35 Midheaven Capricorn 9.57
Lilith Gemini 22.19 XI Aquarius 2.39
Asc node Aries 20.56 XII Pisces 2.48

So true! I was married to one & I know! Been there soooo done with that!

Posted by ridiculousgemini
I wish this forum had an "edit post" feature so I didnt have to double post (lets ignore the fact that I should finish my thoughts thoroughly before submitting lol)

Virgos are the kind of people that will bend over backwards to help someone. The "catch" to that is they have expectations of people they help. (quid pro quo for lack of a better term). In a relationship for example: If a Virgo does the grocery shopping because the Gemini doesn't want to. God help you if you don't feel like cooking the food either. Sure, that sounds reasonable in a relationship that if one person buys the food the other should cook it. But just the simple fact that the Virgo HAS this expectation is probably going to cause the Gemini to do the opposite. Things like this will probably happen too frequently and often.

CORRECTAMUNDO!!! THIS CAN,WILL & DOES HAPPEN! Virgo is organized,Gem's are too in their own
style & their own way but Virgo expect you to hop to it when they are ready for dinner,or
to go some where,you name it,it's not a good scene played out at all & Gem's will see RED!

Virgo men are not the most passionate of lovers but can be very sexy.
I don't like sex to be planned or on a schedule,I am spontaneous & don't
really like to know when to expect it,surprize can be a great thing,hence
my attraction with aries males lol?
I love how passionate they are and they always surprize me,wow I love those
guys!!! Virgo men are hot but they are too cool in many ways.
Virgo girls don't seem to like me much but it's alright lol

I'm not gay at all,& virgo girls assume that I think I'm better than them.
I don't think that way until they make me think it lol

Posted by 25thDecan
Calling someone out isn't reciprocity. It's borderline mental abuse. You can be honest and straightforward without an in-person assassination of personality. And, to wit, he's an arsehole who needs to sheed or get off the pot. Touche' all around. I'm sorry he's such a deeck but that doesn't mean all of us virgo men. Just like all gemini women CAN'T be bipolar.

To the thread starter. You're putting her in a box, whoever she is. Go have fun with her. Don't be "igaf" about it. Find out-through experience what she likes and what you have in common. Her gemini two faceted personality may come in handy....she could be sexually reciprocal while simply nonphysically engaging at social gatherings. Give her a chance and give yourself a chance. Without trying to guess the unknown.

i can completely agree with you, and coincidently have been doing the exact thing u have suggested to do. Most of the time she goes with the flow along with me/ vice-versa, if can describe our relationship with one word is "airy". with themm all you have to do is come out of that shell and step up as a man and take control in social gatherings and stand your ground because gemini always have your back when others arent noticing. theres always this indirect inner language we always have that keeps her coming back for more because she never expected it

Posted by Mr Nice
Virgo guys match better with cappys. If you were a gemini male dating virgo female then yes it would a great. Anyways I hope it gos well for you. Peace!

idk about that, cappys are tooo slow and boring for me, they always feel uncomfortable when im trying to be out of the box, and not walking the "stright line society tells us to" i dont understad how can you be a human being and let someone dictate youre actions /mannerisms just cause they dont comply with year 1928 standards lmao

gem's love virgo's and visa versa but it must be the planet mercury
cuz they forgive one another for so much that they wouldn't easily
do with other signs but romance can be a big problem,but as friends
they seem very loyal and protective of one another! I do have all my
vigo's backs still to this day lol..

25 Deacon I agree with you. I shouldn't have lit into him like that. After a year of being calm and collective I expected more from him. I'm a gemini that respects and admire the qualities in most virgo men. However strong this attraction may be it doesn't override my existing standards for all men. So when he asked me on a date via text msg, I politely declined and suggested he call instead. A week later texting only! We agreed to disagree and be amicable to one another. I decided to be there for him when he told me his father passed. This is where I learned the most about this man. He is his own worst critic indeed but what he lacks I would make up for gladly. I believe that we could compliment each other in business and in a love partnership. He must want this equally as well. Otherwise, I am more than satisfied on my own. I've worked too hard and had overcome too many obstacles in life to lower my standards now.

Oh, and by the way... I happen to know quite a few Gemini woman that were either self diagnosed as bipolar or accused by their man! I can relate to having mood swings but I'm no doctor so I won't pretend to know the answer to that one. It Just may be a dual nature.

NYC 125 -My advice would be to go for it. Your gem is delicate so be sure to handle her with care and she will do the same. If she tries to fold your laundry, please just let her. She can have to much energy at times so this may be her way of caring in a loving way. Take her mind on an intellectual dance and don't forget to be spontaneous,kiss her at first glance. This advice should at least get you thru your 10 th year wedding anniversary! Carpe Diem!

I was with capricorn man it was not good at all!

Hot damn. May 31st here. Dated a Sept. 15th Virgo for about 6 months. We are soo different. The sexual chemistry was there, but he was pretty mechanical in bed...kind of like playing the same episode over. He is more introverted than me. He has all the same major placements as you (NYC) except his Mercury is in Libra. He was sweet, but selfish. He likes strong, vibrant women. We are not a good match overall, but we were what we needed at the time. 🙂

Virgos and Aries are great in bed. Virgos now exactly how to please and he takes his time doing that. Willing to serve and likes to take orders.great cuddlers too! Aries is an animal in bed and it can be an all day thing with a gem.

Posted by Kleo
Hot damn. May 31st here. Dated a Sept. 15th Virgo for about 6 months. We are soo different. The sexual chemistry was there, but he was pretty mechanical in bed...kind of like playing the same episode over. He is more introverted than me. He has all the same major placements as you (NYC) except his Mercury is in Libra. He was sweet, but selfish. He likes strong, vibrant women. We are not a good match overall, but we were what we needed at the time. 🙂

would you give it another try if you would?

@nyc - you know, i can't say no. i did really enjoy the human that i saw in him...cause he was very humane - little to no frills. however, his mechanic calculations irked my spontaneous ways and although i'm used to dating stronger personalities. there is seriously no one else like him!!! with our forces combined, i think we could do great things together. like move mountains to benefit the people, that stuff.

Posted by Kleo
@nyc - you know, i can't say no. i did really enjoy the human that i saw in him...cause he was very humane - little to no frills. however, his mechanic calculations irked my spontaneous ways and although i'm used to dating stronger personalities. there is seriously no one else like him!!! with our forces combined, i think we could do great things together. like move mountains to benefit the people, that stuff.

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with stronger personalities do you mean more extroverted? like i am, because if it is, it just becomes so interesting to me how different a person like him could be compared to me. YOU need a real man lmao spontaneous and touch enough to pick you in front of everyone and kiss you like no other 😉

Wow! May 31 gem with September 14 virguy right here. So far so good. I can understand what you mean by mechanical, however I will take mind blowing and mechanical any day over "just ok". Try softly whispering your wildest fantasy in virguys ear. He will deliver and be finished just in time for your morning cofee!

Whips and chains? Its more like fire, ice and cuffs! Lol. I don't think I'll break out the surprises just yet. 😉

Whips and chains? Its more like fire, ice and cuffs! Lol. I don't think I'll break out the surprises just yet. 😉

Fire ooooh yes! 25th Decan. Grab a pen and paper and take notes babe! Lol
First, you will need some scented Victoria Secret spray (contains alcohol). Then spray the desired area. If your an a** man then spray it there. Next, take a lighter or candle and ignite the flame. This will not burn! I repeat, it will not burn!
Practice makes perfect. Class over. Have fun!

lol, you guys... my bad using 'mechanical' real bad word choice. let's just say he was very 'routine'. 😛 he also had mars in cap - known for routine sex !?? but yeah, he had a certain biological trait that contributed to his meeker demeanor. always let me know what he wanted though. in a sense, he was all defense mechanisms. entertaining to see in action. but he has a great strong head on his shoulders. he is going to go sooo far! it's weird that i'm talkin about him cause he's shown up in my dreams twice this week!