Well endowed gemini

My Gemini has made a comment to me on the phone we were chatting,he said,if I did not have a big penis u probably would never speak to me again,he meant this as a joke,but do you all think he really meant it?? Am I giving him the wrong impression by not saying how I really feel about him—? Btw I love him very much ,please answer,and men also please tell me what this means ,and if you think I'm just reading into it too much.love ya all!!!

all i know from currently dating a Gemini is this: dont take what they say as face note. there is more meaning to it (even if they themselves is not consciously aware of it)

he's just being a goose, don't read anything into it.\


But they do come well equipped, don't they—?
😉

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
he's just being a goose, don't read anything into it.\


But they do come well equipped, don't they—?
😉

Yes they do,oh yes they do,lolz!! Thanks you guys you all got me to calm down and stop thinkingnto much lol

of course, I am not a guy, but it might not be a bad idea to reassure him of your enthusiasm for BOTH

a) equipment and
b) owner/operator

I think they like that - don't you guys—?? meaning this is a guy-specific thing, not sign specific.

have a great day everyone xx

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
of course, I am not a guy, but it might not be a bad idea to reassure him of your enthusiasm for BOTH

a) equipment and
b) owner/operator

I think they like that - don't you guys—?? meaning this is a guy-specific thing, not sign specific.

have a great day everyone xx

😆 hahah i agree. it's a guy specific thing. Sometimes men are insecure with their equipment which may be due in part to the society and the media today.

I think sometimes its hard to tell with geminis when we're making a joke with a double meaning behind it OR when its plainly JUST a joke perhaps with a touch of 'flirtatiousness'.

Sometimes people find it hard to read me when im making a joke in reference to something. They dont know if im being serious about it OR its plainly a joke.

A lot of the times i'll say something 'jokingly' but theres a lot of truth behind it so saying it in a humurous sense takes the pressure off the 'truth' and leaves the person wondering but its also good because if you say it in a joking sense and the person thinks of it as just a joke they may come out and actually tell you something truthful because they feel comfortable since its all in the name of 'good fun and jokes'

But yea dont take it seriously. Although IF he keeps saying it, even it its JUST in a joking sense then I think theres some truth to HIM behind it.

god damn it! he made a jokingly comment with my buddy how i basically need him for dinner lol for him to pay or some shit. i got upset of course...i enjoy company its not the money.....

he kept saying "i was just joking "i further inquire that its okay jokes have truth in it..i would like to know how u perceive it..and he responded "im just kidding, i know your not high maintenance princess .very chill and easy to get a long with " blah blah blah doesnt know why he said it..

you gemini and dual meanins or none at all! pffFFT 😛

p.s. gemini men dont lack in that "department"

Nats - you say "Sometimes people find it hard to read me"

how does a non-Gemini READ if a Gemini thinks they are special for just being treated politely like everyone else?

As an Aries I would say something like "You're very special to me" or "I love you" or "I hate you, please go away"
What is the Gemini language for "I treetrunkingly adore you"?

Sorry to threadjack, but extracting basic information from you Geminis ranges from frustrating to pointless sometimes.
You are supposed to be the communication sign. Speak to me.

haha gemtaur i liked your "Reign in your warrior mars and he'll take the lead".

Yes I agree we express it when we FEEL it. If I dont feel LOVE for someone then i'll NEVER say 'i love you' just for the sake of it or admit to any other emotions when I just dont feel them. We dont roll like that lol. Yes we may be the sign of communication BUT we dont broadcast our emotions. If he is communicating with you on a regular basis, seeing you, being in public with you, doing things with you etc then your on the right track. Trust me we wouldnt hang out with someone and give them our time if we didnt 1. like them as a friend and/or 2. in a romantic sense.

When he stops communicating with you, cancelling dates & times to see you etc THEN be worried. If you've already told him how you felt about him and he knows it then dont keep on reminding him everyday UNTIL HE starts top open up with his emotions and how he is feeling about you. Going too strong on him with about how you feel or saying it too much when he doesnt FEEL as deeply might scare him away. Seriously with us geminis, just keep hanging out with us (but dont always be SUPER available) somtimes be 'out of reach' and keep it cool & stimulate our minds and he'll probably stick with you!

And yes definately let him take the lead sometimes. As a female gemini I have to admit that I love to chase lol and sometimes I dont mind taking the lead at all. I guess it would be the same with the male geminis maybe even more.

Thanks Nats,
no, I wouldn't want him to say ILY unless he meant it. As he hasn't bothered to say it, I figure he doesn't and is just using me as a support person. Aries make good support people.
It just butters me that he can't say, hey I don't love you, but would like you to do all the things that a girlfriend would do while I am away.

What's with the xxx's at the bottom of his emails? Geez I hate being played.

Yeah yeah, I should know better. Really Dumb Aries Person

Thanks so much for that GemWiz.
Interesting what you say about the support thing.
Will bear that in mind.

I felt awful accusing him of playing/using me (I wanted to say using me, but ZappedThoughts would be round to accuse me of blurting things out again!!). It's such a horrid thing to say, but I am glad I blurted it out because I would otherwise have not learned another interesting Gemini fact!

have a neat day everyone