Gemini Advice..

Ok so I am a gemini myself 10th June 85..I met this guy YEARS ago..but we stopped talking randomly and after years started talking again. This time is different to before..hes 21 yrs old born 4th june, but hes doing my head in.

As a gem i like a challenge and I like to seduce etc..hes the same! He plays me at my own games! I like it, keeps me on my toes..We had fone sex..amazing! Hes going travelling in 4 weeks time and was talking about coming to stay with me when hes back..he lives far from me you see.

However..now hes started ignoring me not completely though, just sometimes he wont reply to my msgs when my blackberry has told me hes read it or wont answer my calls.
Then next time we talk hes fine. Then today he really pissed me off..HE messaged me..I replied an he read it an didnt reply..so I msgd r u ignoring me? an he doesnt answer. So I said I think its so rude! If u dont want to talk dont talk but dont ignore my messages! and he replied straight away saying Honestly he didnt see my msgs till just now cos he was lying down..I havent replied..I dont know what to?

I really like him, usually I would be cool an letting them chase me, but like now I am really trying to ignore his last msg and really wanna reply at the same time. Im going insane! NEVER had a guy quite like this!

HELP MY FELLOW GEMS!
x

Lol don't think about it too much

I know considering you're a Gemini it's hard to do than say but trust me..
If you really feel like he's playing games and you're tired of them then lay it down for him, be very straight forward

What's the point in being with someone who confuses and upsets you? lol you need to know where you guys are heading..
Games seem exciting and fun but in the long run you'll regret it, TRUST ME lol.

So either lay it down for him or go with the flow really..
I don't know much to say cause I don't know your placements and all
that would give us more insight probably but yeah..

Ok guys so I ring him an we spoke for bout an hour. Was good. Then we're messagin agen, msgs get a lil tongue in cheek
And jokey..still replying tho, now he hasn't replied for hours an I dnt wana b the first to write to him cos I always am!

He doesn't live to far but far enough considering neither of us drive.

I live in london an he's goin travelling around america for 6 mnths. But he said we can still facebook eachother

We've had loads of banter about us liking challenges an mucking around. Today wen I sed "well I like a challenge"
He replied "ha good luck".

Shud I just back off?

X thanks for ur replys guys x

Ok guys so I ring him an we spoke for bout an hour. Was good. Then we're messagin agen, msgs get a lil tongue in cheek
And jokey..still replying tho, now he hasn't replied for hours an I dnt wana b the first to write to him cos I always am!

He doesn't live to far but far enough considering neither of us drive.

I live in london an he's goin travelling around america for 6 mnths. But he said we can still facebook eachother

We've had loads of banter about us liking challenges an mucking around. Today wen I sed "well I like a challenge"
He replied "ha good luck".

Shud I just back off?

X thanks for ur replys guys x

I say back off.
He seems like he wants to play games lol
especially since it's so distant and he's all over the place lol

But hey at the end of the day its all ur decision girl 😄

Thanks girlies.

And not that I'm bias but u guys r much mor friendly and helpful then any other message board.
Iv been on a few of em and theyr just rude an everyone ends up arguing lol.
Xx

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Posted by ser9123
Ok guys so I ring him an we spoke for bout an hour. Was good. Then we're messagin agen, msgs get a lil tongue in cheek
And jokey..still replying tho, now he hasn't replied for hours an I dnt wana b the first to write to him cos I always am!

He doesn't live to far but far enough considering neither of us drive.

I live in london an he's goin travelling around america for 6 mnths. But he said we can still facebook eachother

We've had loads of banter about us liking challenges an mucking around. Today wen I sed "well I like a challenge"
He replied "ha good luck".

Shud I just back off?

X thanks for ur replys guys x

No you should not back off. You know how Geminis are being one and all. I think he was meaning your gonna lose, not he wasn't up for it. Just a thought.

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ARGHHHH ok so wer not talking...

He was being off with me again and quite rude actually! So I told him he was acting like a prick (ino this was stupid but cudnt control myself) He sed he was angry at family, i sed u dont have to take it out on me, when we flirt hes all there bt when I try have normal chat hes off with me, he sed "now is not the time!" so we havent spoke since yesterday.

I have probably blown it now! x

He was being rude?
Okay I still say blow him off..

How rude was he being?

Just being a sarcastic idiot..like saying things like "my bad" for pissing me off and when I called him a prick he sed "thats how I roll"..he doesnt talk like that either.

We spoke today and he sed all is good..but now..surprise surprise..back to ignoring me!

I could just scream he stresses me so much!!!

I get this now..

I messaged him saying hes obviously busy with going away and stuff and good luck with going away etc.

he replied this morning saying "I still wanna talk 🙂 Its just busy at the moment and your timing sucks 😛! x"

So still interested or just being nice?

I think I should back off though as even if he is still interested its going to suck when he goes travelin in 3 weeks 😢

x Thanks girlies x

Yea well we shall see, after that message i said "ok cool well u msg me wen ur free x" havent heard from him since, I dont think hes going to contact me, but thank u both for ur insight, i guess im not a typical gem cos he confused me, so thanks for understanding. x