What do they want lol

I have observed one gem guy and he always plays attention game....he wants me to want him all the time and when I pay attention,he is happy and then he's gone lol...then again he's back with it....are they insecure? or they like these games? Do they like to test other people? we have been playing this game for about 2 years now and he always comes back for more lol

What I meant is....he does crave attention....and I give it..I think if I ask him about it,he will again say something different and change the topic..I have tried talking to him on this..I am not accusing them on being insecure or anything..just plainly confused lol

eh—? lol what? lol

oh oh my bad...I didn't mean he is confused...I wanted to say I am confused because of his behaviour....what does he want?

Actually we are in different countries and from 1 year he always says that he wants to meet me...whenever we have chats....and now he is planning to come to my country...

This might be a gemini thing. When I like someone and they don't contact me for a long time or show that they like me back I get bummed out. I think most Geminis are attention whores and can feel really insecure when someone they like isn't talking to them. If you want to piss off a Gemini, ignore them.

hmmm... well,I did not contact him last when we both were online...didn't feel like it..when we message each other,first thing he asks is 'are you already in my country??' He only talks about me going to his country,where I am going and he wants me to contact him n meet him there, if I am not busy (he says this all the time) but I don't understand one thing lol he never asks me WHEN exactly I am going there and for how many days...he just keeps saying that he wants to meet ....last time we talked he apologized for being too busy and requested to contact him when I go there...>< Do gems always want to be contacted— Don't THEY want to contact? (he's a taurus-gem cusp and very proud)

What I meant by contacting is...we don't message often so when we both are online (not many times) He does not contact me and when I contact him he seems willing to meet me...this is a bit contradictory and so I am confused....generally if we like someone we want to talk to the person...but when he says he wants to meet me he sounds really serious...what does this mean—

I guess you can't give him attention all the time. I have a lot going on so i can't see my bf all the time. He always wants me to come over, but when I'm over and I want to cuddle, he doesn't really want to. I usually fall asleep cuz i'm so tired and thats when he cuddles and kisses me 🙂 Basically when I ignore him is when he shows me affection.