What is it like to date a Gemini?

I'm currently dating a Gemini. We got introduced at a party and I was a little drunk and I think even a little mean to him lol. A couple weeks after that he asked me out on a date and it was really fun. We talked a lot and got along really well. We've been seeing each other since then and it's all together really awesome. It's like being with a really good friend and dating him at the same time. He is so calm in situations that would make me blow and I feel like he makes me calmer as well. Last night he told me that he has been eying me for a while before we started going out. The thing I like about him is that he is not clingy at all and he is very respectful.

Now I want to know what it's like to date a Gem and just in general what is coming at me.

Thanks

Moood swings!

I'm not getting any hot and cold, so far I'm getting neutral/ positive. I've been with a Gem before (first bf/ puppy love) he didn't give me any hot and cold either. I got hot&cold from a Leo and a Virgo before though.
This Gem is very thoughtful but in general he is wether too much nor too little and what surprises me a lot is that he handles me pretty well and he doesn't seem to be intimidated by me in any way.

@Avies, according to some, Aries F and Gemini M is one of the best pairings out there. I used to try to officially get together with this Gem 3 months ago, and he didn't want a relationship with anyone. But we somehow stuck around each other and began an interesting friendship.

Posted by RamOfPeace
@Avies, according to some, Aries F and Gemini M is one of the best pairings out there. I used to try to officially get together with this Gem 3 months ago, and he didn't want a relationship with anyone. But we somehow stuck around each other and began an interesting friendship.

It's kind of like friendship/dating with me and my Gem. I feel like I get really soft when I'm with him. I can relax when I'm with him. He can see right through me as well.

Do Gems have a reaaaaally really dark side?
My Gem is like Dr. Jackyl and Mr. Hide. He is like a different person in the bedroom.

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Posted by RamOfPeace
@Avies, according to some, Aries F and Gemini M is one of the best pairings out there. I used to try to officially get together with this Gem 3 months ago, and he didn't want a relationship with anyone. But we somehow stuck around each other and began an interesting friendship.

It's kind of like friendship/dating with me and my Gem. I feel like I get really soft when I'm with him. I can relax when I'm with him. He can see right through me as well.

Do Gems have a reaaaaally really dark side?
My Gem is like Dr. Jackyl and Mr. Hide. He is like a different person in the bedroom.

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Where is his moon and venus at doe?

I have no idea lol but I'll find out!

Posted by Avies
I'm not getting any hot and cold, so far I'm getting neutral/ positive. I've been with a Gem before (first bf/ puppy love) he didn't give me any hot and cold either. I got hot&cold from a Leo and a Virgo before though.
This Gem is very thoughtful but in general he is wether too much nor too little and what surprises me a lot is that he handles me pretty well and he doesn't seem to be intimidated by me in any way.

So since you know everything why are you asking us? If you have already dated one, why ask us what is like? You seem to be answering you own questions. So what do you really want to know?

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Posted by Avies
I'm not getting any hot and cold, so far I'm getting neutral/ positive. I've been with a Gem before (first bf/ puppy love) he didn't give me any hot and cold either. I got hot&cold from a Leo and a Virgo before though.
This Gem is very thoughtful but in general he is wether too much nor too little and what surprises me a lot is that he handles me pretty well and he doesn't seem to be intimidated by me in any way.

So since you know everything why are you asking us? If you have already dated one, why ask us what is like? You seem to be answering you own questions. So what do you really want to know?

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It's because I recently started dating one and I threw the question out there to get all the knowledge. Someone could perhaps tell me something New and besides I like to hear about other people's experiences.

Cardinal fire to a Gemini air sign. Inferno that will spread like the plaque at times. One or both need air to ground and keep it consistent.

Both need earth and some emotions though.

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I don't know but I tried dating an Aries once who was super sweet and very confident but we were both too prideful for eachother and neither one of us budged over a certain situation so we just lost contact and ignored eachother. lol. I think it'll be a good relationship up until the ego's come into play. I think Aries needs someone who they can dominate, or be dominated by.. Gemini's need someone who is less prideful then them.

I'm not sure about other Aries females but I personally want a middle thing. I get bored with men I can dominate I need someone who can handle me if I go to far. It's all about the respect. The relationship is don't if I lose my respect.

I have the birth charts:

Me:
Sun: Aries
Moon: Leo
Ascendant: Aries
Mercury: Aries
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Gemini
Jupiter: Leo
Saturn: Aquarius
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio


Him:
Sun: Gemini
Moon: Libra
Mercury: Taurus
Venus: Taurus
Mars: Aries
Jupiter: Cancer
Saturn: Capricorn
Uranus: Capricorn
Neptune: Capricorn
Pluto: Scorpio

Someone at some times will get sensitive or hurt either in not enough emotions or not enough communication and whiplash of a tongue which can cause a back and forth bickering in the way people talk to one another.

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Someone at some times will get sensitive or hurt either in not enough emotions or not enough communication and whiplash of a tongue which can cause a back and forth bickering in the way people talk to one another.

We've been there already. He said something I didn't want to hear and I was about to blow up so I left pretty quickly and he kept on asking me if something was wrong. Sometimes I act like I don't care even though I care and in order to avoid showing any sign of weaknes I don't talk about it. That's exactly what happened that day. After that he pretty much left me alone for a few days and then he called me again and we cooked together and had a really great evening together.

Posted by Avies
I'm currently dating a Gemini. We got introduced at a party and I was a little drunk and I think even a little mean to him lol. A couple weeks after that he asked me out on a date and it was really fun. We talked a lot and got along really well. We've been seeing each other since then and it's all together really awesome. It's like being with a really good friend and dating him at the same time. He is so calm in situations that would make me blow and I feel like he makes me calmer as well. Last night he told me that he has been eying me for a while before we started going out. The thing I like about him is that he is not clingy at all and he is very respectful.

Now I want to know what it's like to date a Gem and just in general what is coming at me.

Thanks

It's fun if you love adventurous unknown.
But they're smart and i love ppl who can share my interests and develop topics I like.

Patterns I've seen out of everyone I've had in my life is they'll talk to you a lot when they like you. They'll share all their interest with you AND ASK ABOUT YOURS. When they love you, you'll come up in their future plans and even if we fight and ignore each other, we'll always found ourselves back together.

Well that sounds promising. Yes I put up a fight at the beginning. I was actually pretty mean and pretty much talked him to death when we first met because I was really drunk and in a bad mood.
I even put up a second fight once when he said something wrong and I gave him the icy treatment. He handled it with ease. He asks me a lot of questions and tells me quite a bit about himself. He told me that he saw me and liked me right away. He knows me pretty well already even though we've only been going out for a few weeks.

Posted by Avies
Well that sounds promising. Yes I put up a fight at the beginning. I was actually pretty mean and pretty much talked him to death when we first met because I was really drunk and in a bad mood.
I even put up a second fight once when he said something wrong and I gave him the icy treatment. He handled it with ease. He asks me a lot of questions and tells me quite a bit about himself. He told me that he saw me and liked me right away. He knows me pretty well already even though we've only been going out for a few weeks.

Haha I recall myself in this

Geminis are outgoing, social people but private with their emotions. I've noticed they have a hard time letting go of romantic relationships but they try to hide it at the same time. They run hot & cold. Very moody. They get bored easily.

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Posted by SofiaV87
Geminis are outgoing, social people but private with their emotions. I've noticed they have a hard time letting go of romantic relationships but they try to hide it at the same time. They run hot & cold. Very moody. They get bored easily.

Do we know each other? 😄

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Did I decribe Gemini well ?

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Posted by SofiaV87
Geminis are outgoing, social people but private with their emotions. I've noticed they have a hard time letting go of romantic relationships but they try to hide it at the same time. They run hot & cold. Very moody. They get bored easily.

Do we know each other? 😄

Did I decribe Gemini well ?

Ain't sure about the rest of the twins, but you describe me well. 😆

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Oh cool!