Why do gemini girls talk to other guys?

she has a boyfriend away at college she says she loves him but is talking to another guy.

Well you have to start with talking, then you might get to the fucking. One step at a time, even for sluts.

This post needs a little more info in it. Is she just talking? Geminis talk to everyone, and it doesn't necessarily mean anything. Doing activities with guys doesn't necessarily mean anything, either. We like to have company at all times. I'm married and have lots of male friends. Honestly, she could even be flirting and it might not mean anything. Geminis often aren't even aware they're doing it- it's second nature. There are also lots of instances in which a Gemini girl might be giving off signals of which she is not even aware, causing a guy to get interested. Are you sure that SHE'S the one interested when she's talking to other guys? On the other hand, it's perfectly plausible for a Gemini to love someone and still be keeping her options open.

Hmmm I guess it depends on the kind of talking with that other guy. We Geminis like to communicate and be connected be it with women or men. That doesn' necessarly mean that she is flirting or anything, unless she is really intending to do that. Gemini having a male friend/s doesn't mean they're cheating on their bfs/husbands ... etc.

Also, some Geminis believe in keeping their options especially when they're not in a committed serious relationship. They don't believe giving all love and hope to that one person - they're cautious and not very easy to get.

my bestie is a gemini

she has a boyfriend that she wants to marry and spends everyday with. SHE cannot get enough of him however..when we do go out...she does flirt.

shes getting a haircut by my guy friend..he proceeds to ask her " are you dating anyone?" she goes (looks at me...glances back at him seductively) "no im not dating anyone" (looks back at me with a smirk in her eye)

i then asked her when the guy left why she said that

she goes "oh it means nothing, its just fun hehe i mean dating is too casual. im not dating casually, im seriously committed, besides i love james"

Lets be honest. We Geminis, are very likely to be unfaithful. Geminis are always in search of "bigger and better". You could be the greatest, coolest, most interesting person in a room full of people to them and we are still going to look around the room to make sure. Your friend is probably doing that. I'm not saying she will cheat on her boyfriend, but its possible. And if she has any moral ground, she'll at least break it off with the other guy before pursuing other options.

Well as a gem female I do talk to other guys WHILST in a relationship etc BUT its harmless. Yes I MAY flirt but honestly it doesnt mean shit, doesnt mean I like the guy or im going to go and sleep with him etc. No. Its just me talking, communicating, letting my thoughts out etc nothing serious.

Honestly 'flirting' is like a way of life for us, at least for me. I dont even realise im 'flirting' because im just talking. Maybe its the way we say things?, the questions or statements, comments we make that seem flirtatious... A lot of times I flirt unknowingly, but when im really trying to "flirt" you'll know.

Just because we talk to other guys while were inlove with our boyfriend doesnt mean anything. More than likely if he lets her have her little 'free time' and speaking to other guys etc (in a non serious manner - just friends) then she'll always come back to her man as long as he continues to keep it interesting and continues to gives her the stimulation she needs.

We just NEED to be able to communicate with whoever we want, whenever we want. Otherwise we will feel restrained, trapped and then we'll rebel and leave you high and dry, or might do something shifty.. hmmm lol. Dont know about the rest but me, I need to talk to a variety of people, talking to the same one person over and over etc makes me get really bored and I NEED interaction from OTHER people.

Youre right, we are often harmless. My guy (yes I'm a guy as well) understands my need to communicate. He knows, and I honestly would never be unfaithful to him. Hes the greatest person in the world. (a Libra no less- which is about as good a pairing you could ask for).

But its understandable to me that many people can find it difficult to trust out fidelity. And the distrust is not always unwarranted. Its very easy I think for a Gemini to find themselves in what started as a perfectly innocent situation that turns into something otherwise.

lol "Its very easy I think for a Gemini to find themselves in what started as a perfectly innocent situation that turns into something otherwise"

That is incredibly true!!!! ugh!!

she can't talk to other males? what? does she need to cover her face too?

Posted by nats
lol "Its very easy I think for a Gemini to find themselves in what started as a perfectly innocent situation that turns into something otherwise"

That is incredibly true!!!! ugh!!

>.< yes this is true. I think one guy ask me out because he thought I was flirting with him when I was just acting normal. Another guy mentioned to me he have a girlfriend even though I was just talking to him in my normal way.

well it is true that we often times find ourselves in situations that start innocent but things
get twisted and living a double life has been known to happen but we don't actually go looking'
for it but talking to other guys isn't a bad thing at all and it's socially consider normal and
being polite.Will a man stop talking to all other girls even though we know we see people every
day and should act civilized?

Posted by geminiwizard
why do birds eat hot dogs?

good question!

Posted by candi3bb
my bestie is a gemini

shes getting a haircut by my guy friend..he proceeds to ask her " are you dating anyone?" she goes (looks at me...glances back at him seductively) "no im not dating anyone" (looks back at me with a smirk in her eye)

lol i think she was telling the truth since she wasn't dating just anyone but it can have a different interpretation depending on the person who hears it. i guess she was well aware of this? i do that sometimes when i talk to people- tell them the truth but then the truth also can have a double meaning depending on how you interpret it. i don't know if it's a gemini trait. i just realize i did it after looking at your post. 😛

I am this way in that NO GUY has a complete hold on me and I'm not
anyones property! I don't need a man's approval of me and he cannot
tell me not to talk to other guys.I am free right now and when I date
I don't date just one guy and the guys I date know this! Girl's what
are you telling a guy that you hardly know if you only date him?
He knows he's got you in the bag pretty much and thats insane!
why do girls do that to themselves? the guy never said he wants
to marry you if he did why date him since he doesn't know you yet?
you don't make a commitment to any guy when you start to date so
why assume that he's only dating you or that this will the right
guy in time? I date and I talk to who I want.If I have a boyfriend
then I will talk to other males just the same except I won't date
any of them,just friends only,but no one owns anyone and no guy
owns me and better not even dare try to boss me.

having a playful spirit isn't wrong or even playing around is a good thing!
She was joking! If I was your friend I wouldn't trust you anymore for making
a big deal out of nothing and posting it on a public board.Jealous girls do
that not mature grown up girls.gemini women attract alot of men so what should
she do? act all stupid and rude? I don't think she should,thats wack! I am fun
and I am playful and very proud of it!