why do gems say i love u do they mean it?

I have noticed with some gems that they say i love you and when things get tough they are quick to duck out. Then when you some how coax them back in the relationship ,they become lovey dovey. I understand that you all have nervous energy. i'm cancer by the way. and they love there freedom and want to be noticed by friends flirtatious,etc. However when i talk to my lady friends she gets verrry upset or suspicious and said that forget her blah blah blah. I don't take it serious because she calls back saying was up ,if i'm okay. One thing though give them their space but still have tehm interested by being aloof at times.Weird from a cancer huh.lol

Yeah brahn i do put my foot down and she acknowledges that she was the one that said she loves me and i love 2 talk but being aloof helps and being direct

And at times she says dat i dont show emotions

And at times she says dat i dont show emotions

What actions is that yeah but geminis seek out people with emotions and they do show that side of them they love their fuk and like new stuff as well as keep tabs on people who they love

Thats the thing when i show anger or dont call or she calls and we talk about other stuff she lights up and she was the one that sent the cards and love letter they tend 2 argue but i win the arguements most of the time and im mysterious why she trying 2 figure me out

She has tried to cut me out but failed miserably

Thanks brahn and i read the pisces lady friend dat is a lot to deal with i had a similar situation with one is all about maturity and being true 2 oneself

Gemini's also can love easily and quickly, then in a minutes notice, are on to something else... so some of us, mean it when we say it, cuz that's what we feel at the time. Granted, this isn't a True and Undying love, but it is love non-the-less. Its just, keeping that feeling and sensation flowing in a Gemini is a very difficult task.

Thks babgyrl the gemini lady has been hurt but she says she loves me and she still has some anger but she still talks to me is it that she still loves my mind cause i can talk about anything under the sun

Daemon... keep that mind of her's goin'.. that's the best advice i can give ya. I'm speaking for myself. and i know it's true of alot of Gem's. Give her the freedom to talk about, anything especially with no concesquences. It sounds like you're still 'in her mind' and that's the key. Every Gem is different on the level you talk to her on...sounds like your doing great. If she didn't 'love' you still believe me, you would be very familiar with a cold shoulder by now. She may not be direct with it, but you would definitely know she wasn't too interested anymomre.

yeah once again babygrl thanks. yeah she does have me in mind very strongly cause i TALK too much ,lol. And i always let her have her say because i value what she says,caus e she is wise. geminis don't like too much repetition. And her mind changes but once the point is made and remain consistent and they do listen to the emotion in ur voice.lol

Hey Daemon...I was "blown away" by your posting. I SOOOOO agree with you although I as a woman am the Cancer and he's the Gemini although he has Mars, Mercury and Saturn in Cancer and a Scorpio Moon. He has lots of water and is VERY emotional. However, you have described your girlfriend exactly how he is. He too would tell me that I was unemotional. I think it's our "cancer" protectiveness but it sure does help in keeping the Gemini around. He was usually the one to "make up" etc. He was VERY affectionate and loving though VERY scattered. He has left suddenly to try and remedy a very ugly situation with a double virgo..the mother of his children who he never married and is really an alcoholic and crazy. When he left this Sun nite, he literally had tears running down his face and said he loved me over and over and that he would miss me. He even was yelling from his car..I love you baby!?!? He was staying with me for 2.5 months & waiting to move into his apt.on April 1. Little did I know that behind my back although I had a strong intuition, that he was negotiating with her and when I called him on Mon. morning (he left Sun nite) she answered the phone. I was devestated! He wouldn't give me my house key and has a couple of tape recorders I want back and had been asking for for weeks. Is this his way back into my door? According to some very good psychics, they said he's a mess right now and keeping my things is a way to "come back". They said he doesn't love her & he does me. They said he just cares very much about his 2 very young kids and only wants to make amends with her but not because he loves her. All I asked for was the truth...that he tell me that he was intending to go back. I am torn between the lies and the love but mostly torn for the back stabbing, disrespect, lack of loyalty. The 3 psychics all said he still is intending to move into his apt.on his own. This is the first & only time he has not returned my calls or tried to "talk it out" as he was always willing to do so. I'm devestated. Gemini's are opportunistic and not loyal.

That sounds like a horrible situation and i do hope the best for you. I keep hearing that gem's are not loyal. Maybe it's my cancer in me, but i'm am as loyal as you can get. I actually stay in some situations MUCH longer trying to hold on than what is in my best interest. I'm also the type that'll leave ya before cheat on ya. I had that rep that we have. I am sure alot of us are like that...but i know not all. Opportunistic.. yeah i'll agree with that. lol can't help that...

If your guy is in that kinda of turmoil, yeah he handled it really bad and should have been honest with it, but could it be worth it to stick it out.. maybe not tellin him that.. but stick it out to see what really is going on? Is there something going witht this mom of his kids, that could be making him have to do this to keep a relationship with his kids? I know i don't lie about my feelings.. and for him to be expressing that kind of emotion about you... hard to imagine that he is just doin' that.

yeah that's the opportunistic nature of a gemini .who is opportunistic here raise ur hand.lol. I however,did say some of my emotions,but i think i would be unemotional for a while again. One thing they can't lie for long they are upfront when they know they would get caught telling the lie. They are loyal,gems however will judge you,on how fast you give a gift or any other things they need. And based on that judgement they would be either b flighty or get handed your "dear john" letter. Keep yall posted.

i am a true gemini and i think...hahahahhaaaaa gemini's are hard to get because though they act cool and all, they are "skeptics" most gemini's i know, myself included don't trust people easily but once pinned down and happily stimulated lol, they stay forever and more, they love truly once and only once in a lifetime. they don't cheat---get caught cheating that is, coz they're really smart...hahahha im jokinggggggggggg

once they're inlove they're inlove with that one person forever, but that doesn't mean they will stay forever, they tend to roam around, but not f**k around, go to europe, play tennis, read a book, jump at a building, kayaking, run with african animals, mountain climbing oin south america----then they will pop out uin your door again and give you some romantic loving memories without reserve (you know we don't have a lot of ego, we do what we want) --memories that you will never forget, and no one can top, because gems are the best lovers ever, but for a short/long span of time. then they will fly again---to wherever their beautiful restless feet takes them...they they'll come back again..and leave again but don't chase them ...they'll run further away..just sit right there...yes there on that same chair where you made love the last time...and wait..for another exciting adventure with a gemini....ahhhh gemini you make me go nuts baby.....

oh wait did i just contradict my self? oh