Abortion....?

About two months ago i posted a post under sc0rpyking89.. first thank you for all the wonderful advice's and im pleased to say i did end up with the leo.. but heres the problem now so.. shes pregnant.. she wants an abortion and i do not agree with abortions as it has happened before because i wasnt capable.. but now im capable of providing for a child.. but she thinks im too immature, and im not ready.. im capable because i have a family that can provide.. my parent is willing to provide until i graduate from university in two years.. and then ill be lawyer.. but she doesnt want a dime from my family.. i really dont have time to prove anything.. how can i prove im capable and that i am ready.. i know she loves me... could it possibly be our/my past thats scaring her away from me? or the fact i have a reputation of being a ahole.. i am ready to get a ring and propose.. i want the child and the woman..

Shes still a busy lady at work and school, my suggestions were finish spring semester and take a time off till shes given birth.. As for the money, its not an issue.. i was actually going to borrow some money from my parents, and pay them back monthly a little by little.. Daddy is ready and totally ready to commit.. the mommy doesnt want to, i have savings and i could rent a place.. I do not plan to spend a penny of her families money.. we both come from families that can afford the babies needs but i dont want to spend a penny of their money on something i created.. since im in school and have a part time job i was planning, like you said a loan from my parents and support her and the baby.. but she doesnt seem to want the baby.. a few days ago she was ready for the abortion and todays shes wondering, i on the other hand really want the baby.. the baby has every right to come to this world.. I dont want the baby to lose the right of living for something we did.. but how can i make this stubborn leo see..

The only thing she said was.. abortion is the right thing.. and keeping the baby is a bad thing.. we both have a good future, both willing to work.. Im taking law as of this moment and shes taking something else so i really do not see money as a issue in the future.. She hasnt told her parents.. very traditional parents actually.. like sex is after marriage and not before.. i havent told mine yet either, but im positive my parents will support me.. im the only child.. as of a month ago ive already started giving her every penny ive earned, as a proof of my commitment and she requested it also to help me save up.. cause i can be a pretty big spender..

Sigh... Fixed Signs...

I commend you Scorp89. for wanting to do the right thing by the baby.. you are a kind hearted individual.
I can't comment further so I will just pray that Peace & understanding prevails for you and your Leo.

I wish you all the best.

If she does abort.. its over.. ive already tried begging, telling her how much i want the baby.. but the only thing i dont get is why the fear.. I know shes planning to abort soon.. And im desperately trying to figure out a way to keep the baby..

Lol yea by created i mean by the both of us, and my parents should be willing to take care of the baby when im in class and at work.. I havent planned to deffer cause i think finishing school asap would be the better thing to do cause i will be earning more.. meaning better living for the both of them.. Shes been pulling away a bit since pregnancy, i know there alot going on in her mind right now.. I want to give her to time to think about it too, but im afraid that she'll abort behind my back too... i thought leo's like kids..

By fearful i mean like being pregnant and bringing the child to the world.. She knows my ex aborted my child once, i wasnt capable than and i was young... But i dont want it to happen again.. If its to get my attention than thats a little, umm immature.. to use abortion as a way to get attention, as if i dont give her enough..

I can promise better living and she can too because both our families are pretty financially capable.. I think ill have to sit down and talk seriously again about this issue..

Posted by Jynja


Every, every mother is fearful of that! I got drunk the day I heard I was pregnant. I was so out of it, my husband stuck his finger down my throat so I could throw it all up and I argued for years after that I stuck my own finger into my throat.

I know a woman who got depressed through her entire pregnancy. Pregnant women need constant assurance that they'll do great. You need to keep highlighting how they'll be dedicated moms and their kids will love them. It's like a full time job. Get ready for serious mood swings, calling you at work to ask if it's true she'll be a good mother, stuff like that. You need the patience of a million stars. Patience and some "stupidity." You won't understand but you must agree. It can get that crazy, and Leos like to play everything up. LOL

Poor Scorpy... hahahaha

Alrighty than, ill reassure her a million stars she will be a excellent wife and mother.. ill see her tmr and im ready to cry if i have to... Planning to look at rings tmr, if all goes well im going to be married and a father this year, thanks for your wonderful advice again jynja!

I wish that I could provide you with non bias advice and reflections because I can sense the amount of weight on your shoulders, mind, and heart.

However I'm not a perfect human being - far from it. My values are quite strong and as a direct consequence, I cannot be of any help aside from sending good karma your way.

I wish you nothing but the best, and truly hope you obtain all you desire as the dust settles for this situation.

If she wants to end the pregnancy there is nothing you can do to about it, and if she is a true leo money, flinging money, offers of parental help or gold bands at her will not make a blind bit of difference. She has seen the big picture instantly and is well aware of how that future would play out and is not up for it. Money, marriage and someone else raising her child is not something she requires, she can do all of this herself if she wants to, leo's generally fear nothing so i would imagine that fear is not taking place here. Its unfortunate and unfair on you and the baby but unless she decides to keep the baby herself for her own reasons she won't.