I love my Leo man but i don't trust him

I've known him for almost two years. Next month could have been a year since we've been together (that's if i never ended it with him today).

I have trust issues with him because of something he did and admitted to me at the beginning of this year. However, because of this same issue, i haven't been able to fully trust him or anything he says. Last night as we all know was Xmas and he never really stayed in contact with me (he did call me in the morning to say he loves me and everything else) but he said he would call me later on in the evening and he never. He hardly responded to my message much so i was hurt and left him to it. last Xmas i was able to spend it with him, this year though i couldn't because i had to spend it with my family and his mother is a nurse and would be working all day so his place weren't an option either (and he spent it with his grandparents and extended family).

Cutting the story short, i just felt like he could have at least spoken to me if we couldn't spend time together. So this morning, i ended it. He was shocked (as always) were an on and off couple but when i say OFF we hardly are OFF and we only stay off for 1 day. We love each other alot and have been through alot together.

I just feel like he should work hard to gain my trust back and he has to some extent but Xmas day really hurt me. He explained and everything but i don't know if i believe him...i secretly feel he was with another girl but every time i want to break up with him he dosent want me to leave and i hurt because i can tell his hurting by the constant messages he sends to me but im also scared that my trust issues would eventually drive him away anyway.

I don't know what to do...i feel like getting back with him. He wants me down tomorrow until new years. Am i being unreasonable for dumping him?

He is a Leo (obviously, hence why im here..and im a taurus) were not suppose to be compatible apparently but we very much are! were also best friends and both of our mars are in cancer (dont know what role that plays but anyway) and im also Leo rising.

Is he being honest when he says he loves me? i feel like he is. I am close to his family and friends, his close to my family. He never wants to let me go (im the one who always breaks it off because of trust etc)...he also says he wants to get engaged to me etc...i mean, he shows me he loves me. Is he lying or do i just have to sort out my trust issues?


Thanks for reading x

Trust is a huge thing for anyone. By admitting you have trust issues going as far back as earlier this year, I don't see you getting past the trust issue. Before you move forward with him or any man, you need to gain closure on whatever it was that he did or said that caused these trust issues to begin with.

Thanks,

We always argue about the issue and its usually about this one particular girl. I may post the story in another topic one day (its a looooong story and i dont have the energy for it tonight.too many emotions running in me)

I do want closure. Everytime i try to leave him, i make sure i put it in an email explaining exactly why (hoping that he would understand and we can talk it out and agree to seperate) but one time i did that, he called me and kept crying (knowing that leos protect their pride that was refreshing to hear but sad at the same time) ...so he dosent take it too well and makes it seem like im doing something bad to him by ending it.

I would love closure in order to move on but when his not giving me that and insists on being with me. ..Even though he knows i have trust issues I find it hard to end it completely without a really really good reason.

Thanks,

We always argue about the issue and its usually about this one particular girl. I may post the story in another topic one day (its a looooong story and i dont have the energy for it tonight.too many emotions running in me)

I do want closure. Everytime i try to leave him, i make sure i put it in an email explaining exactly why (hoping that he would understand and we can talk it out and agree to seperate) but one time i did that, he called me and kept crying (knowing that leos protect their pride that was refreshing to hear but sad at the same time) ...so he dosent take it too well and makes it seem like im doing something bad to him by ending it.

I would love closure in order to move on but when his not giving me that and insists on being with me. ..Even though he knows i have trust issues I find it hard to end it completely without a really really good reason.

Its true. They do tend to stay close to their ex's

In my case i WAS the ex that he went back to. This girl in question, was the girl he got with after i broke up with him and when i got back with him...he let it be known that he was back with me (its funny because shes an aries..as a leo man, i thought they were compatible or the best for each other?)

anyway, Its hard because i don't live in the same town as him but she does however were looking for a home together. But because they live in the same town (which is small and everyone knows everyone) i get trust issues thinking his with her. His pretty good at calling/texting/arranging to see me/letting it be known that I'm his girlfriend however, i still have trust issues mainly because this girl is always at his beck and call and i know that (so does he)

Im not sooo sure, but he does know that if i wanted to find out i could and i would. It wont be too hard. I just need to let a couple of days to pass where his family or friends may post pictures up on the all so wonderful SOCIAL NETWORKING sites..but at the moment, were okay (haven't broken up completely) his trying to get into my good books right now..but i don't want to feel bad for dumping him when HE feels his done nothing wrong and i have no proof that he has. I would prefer to know that were both on the same page and have some closure before moving on but he he insists.

Sigh

Exactly. I don't want that at all and every time i break up with him he even asks why would i give her that satisfaction of knowing that she was able to break us up? But the thing is I'm not so sure. ..if fighting for him is worth it. Sometimes il rather just let her have at him. But his not bad to me at all, it was just xmas that was a bit OFF KEY for me but he called me not too long ago telling me that he misses me and that he called to prove that he isn't with her and even made a point by passing the phone to his friend. I mean, he is making an effort to make me feel secure but i don't know...

Omg.,.they always have to have their favorites etc he says I'm his NUMBER ONE. I guess being a typical leo male he feels he should have quite a few and then number them according to what priority he sees them as. Well, I'm called NUMBER 1. amongst other things he calls me like HIS WOMAN, HIS BABY, HIS GIRL.

But when i choose to leave, he hesitates but if i was to go....I'm sure he would be back with her because Leo's cant be alone (especially the men -- or so i read) so he always has back up...this is something he admitted to me. That he used her as a back up since i had issues and was always dumping him.

Do you know what? I removed my phone card so that he cant call me and the only reason why were back to square one was because of the stupid emails!!!!! I thought i had blocked him but i never and i was able to see his response which i couldn't help but respond to.

How do i block him? (For future reference) i have a gmail account and tried looking on google for this answer but couldn't find anything other than AUTOMATED RESPONSE messages which doesn't work because i could still receive his replies.

Lol wow thanks...

Uhh yeah ive thought about the therapist many times..not sure if he would agree though. His the type that dosent believe in going to other people for help. His very stubborn when it comes to that. He believes he can solve everything

Thanks for your input,

The girl mentioned, is an aries..funny, because he still chose to be with me over her.

Leading me to believe that other signs in our chart play a role. Were like best friends and very compatible with each other.

I have only one aries in my chart and thats in mercury (i dont know what role that plays)

But I am a leo rising (so is he as well as a leo sun)
With a moon in gemini
Both of us have our mars in cancer though
And i have my venus in cancer too.

I like my earth sign folks pretty well.........as friends and co-workers. Dating wise is not really in the cards with me. If you don't mind me asking, what did he do to break the trust in the first place to bring it to this point? If it was infidelity or simple dishonesty, you have a right to be leery.