Well Heres the thing, I have known this Leo for about 4 years but we NEVER had a serious convo until she and her partner split, and I and my partner began fighting! Its been about 2+Mths and We speak everyday, we share our updates on our breakups, we even flirt, we discuss just about everything, youd think she was my new GF. She just recently told me she loves me, because she hasnt felt lonely with me by her side and she decided she wanted to take me shopping... BUT Im not interested in her this way, nor is she (she expressed her heart is still with her ex) But I believe the vulnerability has gotten the best of her.
She insists on taking me shopping but I dont want to lead her on, nor do I want to take anything from her, shes in the process of moving out from her house with her ex.
No advice, just wanted to know for future reference! ARE LEOS THIS NICE or is it MY cancer CHARm...I usually end up meeting people like this!
Shes NOT hetero, shes attracted to me, and she also stated she loved me & why she cant have a girl like me... Um, I dont feel comfy doing it. Its just shopping now, but she may expect more.
Since this invitation I have stopped the late night calls. I think shes very intrested, she tells her sister about me....and how im her boo. smh I dont want to hurt anyone the way the both of us are hurting. We are both still in love with our exes. We feed off of that, but shes more attracted to me than I am of her... ALl of her qualities point to great catch but then alot of those qualities im not intrested in.
Leos are very generous, almost always confused with being materialistic and show offs.
I find that people tend to do what makes them happy. Chances are shopping makes her happy as it does most Leo females. She simply wants you there or she thinks it will make you happy too.
It's no different than if cooking makes her happy and she wanted to cook you dinner.
Leo's also value honesty. I think you should just tell her what you told us. I'm big on boundaries. So as long as I know where I stand, I can be just friends with someone even if I'm attracted to them.
I'm not heterosexual, call my closest friends my boyfriends and girlfriends, flirt with them (Leos tend to flirt shamelessly without realizing it), and its never meant much of anything besides friendship. Although I've had friends become very confused with my intentions.
Why not be straight up and ask if she's interested and if so, tell her that you're really not looking for anything more than platonic friendship with her.
i agree with your instinct. leos are generous to people but not to everyone, only to those who are special to them. so tell her straight up how you feel and ask away whats bugging you. she'll appreciate this. the sooner the better 🙂 good luck
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Its been about 2+Mths and We speak everyday, we share our updates on our breakups, we even flirt, we discuss just about everything, youd think she was my new GF. She just recently told me she loves me, because she hasnt felt lonely with me by her side and she decided she wanted to take me shopping...
BUT Im not interested in her this way, nor is she (she expressed her heart is still with her ex)
But I believe the vulnerability has gotten the best of her.
She insists on taking me shopping but I dont want to lead her on, nor do I want to take anything from her, shes in the process of moving out from her house with her ex.
No advice, just wanted to know for future reference! ARE LEOS THIS NICE or is it MY cancer CHARm...I usually end up meeting people like this!