Aries Woman needs help Understanding Leo Man

I'm a 33yr old Aries female who has recently been dating a 29 yr old Leo man. During the first month everything was great he would call me every day and we would talk for hours and see each other every week, he was very affectionate hugs, holding my hand and kissing me good night at the end of each date but for the past week and a half he just stopped calling me, no explanations no reassons for the lack of phone calls. I called him one day to ensure that he was okay and that nothing bad had happened to him, he was very short with me during that phone call almost to the point of what I considered rude and rushed me off the phone. Since that day he has never called me back. My question now becomes is that typical behavior for a Leo men to be all into a woman one day and then completely distant and invisible the next despite the fact that we didn't have an arguement or anything? How can I get him to start calling me again and being affectionate like he was in the begining?

Either he has lost interest or is there could be another female in the picture.

Is he working alot or something?



he was very short with me during that phone call almost to the point of what I considered rude and rushed me off the phone. Since that day he has never called me back

DONT CALL HIM Back, seriously!! I have done this before when i have lost interest. If i were you lose his number, and do not chase after him you will only feed his ego. It smells of another woman might be somewhere..

He had just gotten a new project at work and was working on some big meeting for his own business. But the first night he started to work on his new project he called me three times that evening, which was on a Thursday after he got off work. We were suppose to spend the day together the Monday after our last conversation and he never called me that entire weekend. I suppose you are correct that I should just lose his number and I most certainly will do that. You are probably also correct that there is another woman involved... Thanks for the advice...


Lovage what causes a man to quickly lose interest in a woman that he would call her three times one evening and just stopping calling the next day?

Fire, honestly i dont know. Maybe he was just testing out the waters and wanted to see if he really liked you,if you moved him in any kind of way.... men can be complex at times.

What was the conversation like when you chatted those 3times? You didnt pick up on any kind of weird vibes?

He probably has his hands full with business and other opportunities that might be falling into his lap per say. Leos like to be challenged, maybe you didnt do this for him, but then again i could be wrong.

Yeh dont lose any sleep over him, if someone is rude to me on the phone they dont have to worry about me calling them back ever...ever...ever!! Dont allow for him to control you entire thoughts.

I have trained my mind to think like a man, and my body is of all woman.

leo men can be quite the charmers and thee ladies love them...

He probably will chime back in sooner or later, just to see how things are. If he does dont be eager and giddy with information, keep it light and short. Little or NO info is better when you dont know where you stand.

Lovage, you asked the questions below:

What was the conversation like when you chatted those 3times? You didnt pick up on any kind of weird vibes?

The first conversation was like our usual conversations we talked about our day what happened, he told me where he was going to get dinner, he was expressing some frustration about have a new project. We talked about my friend being at my house and her styling my hair at that moment. I mentioned that another friend wanted me to help him with a project over the weekend and he said "well, I'm not going to say much about this now but when we get further into our relationship I would have something to say. So me being a typical Aries I said well we can talk about what's on your mind now and he replied with "Well as we get further into our relationship then I would have a problem if we have plans and you change them, I would be very upset, disappointed and I would probably sulk about it. So my response was I'm not changing our plans my helping my friend would not infere with the time I plan to spend with you. I can work on his project at home when I'm not with you.

The second call was about him meeting some guy over dinner that wanted him to invest in his business. We also talked about the fact that I offered to cook him dinner and he politely declined coming to dinner by telling me that he "Knows how he feels about me and he knows what my response will be so why would he put himself in such a tempting situation...I completely don't understand what that statement means...He also said he wasn't comfortable telling me that until I asked him what is the issue as to why he can't come to dinner.. So typical Aries in me comes out again and I replied by saying I want us to not just talk about the stuff we find comfortable but to also be open enough with each other to talk about the uncomfortable things so we can grow and get to really know each other.

Third conversation was him asking me if I was going to go to work the next day as it was late and I had not gone to bed yet, then we just talked for a few minutes and he said he was getting tired so he was going to sleep we wished each other good night and that was it.. Then he never called me again after that day...

The only weird vibes I got was him not wanting me to help my friend with a project and the conversation about him not coming to dinner... I thought those things were strange but we talked about them with both of us being very calm and neither one of us getting upset with the other person. I suppose I thought we were okay since he called me back again so we could talk before we went to sleep which we always do...

I was rather surprise when he stopped calling me...

Posted by Fire_Dragon
I'm a 33yr old Aries female who has recently been dating a 29 yr old Leo man. During the first month everything was great he would call me every day and we would talk for hours and see each other every week, he was very affectionate hugs, holding my hand and kissing me good night at the end of each date but for the past week and a half he just stopped calling me, no explanations no reassons for the lack of phone calls. I called him one day to ensure that he was okay and that nothing bad had happened to him, he was very short with me during that phone call almost to the point of what I considered rude and rushed me off the phone. Since that day he has never called me back. My question now becomes is that typical behavior for a Leo men to be all into a woman one day and then completely distant and invisible the next despite the fact that we didn't have an arguement or anything? How can I get him to start calling me again and being affectionate like he was in the begining?

Sounds like this were going too well. You need to kick him out of his comfort zone with you spice, make him chase you a bit.

^^ I mean, jazz up things in your own special way 🙂

I mentioned that another friend wanted me to help (((him)) with a project over the weekend and he said "well, I'm not going to say much about this now but when we get further into our relationship I would have something to say.

That other man friend tweeked his nerve, plan and simple.


So me being a typical Aries I said well we can talk about what's on your mind now and he replied with "Well as we get further into our relationship then I would have a problem if we have plans and you change them, I would be very upset, disappointed and I would probably sulk about it. So my response was I'm not changing our plans my helping my friend would not infere with the time I plan to spend with you. I can work on his project at home when I'm not with you.

You see how he changed the whole conversation back towards you and the relationship, you never even got to talk about his stuff, he's a manipulating lil devil and he's controlling the entire conversation. I would have stopped and said Oh by the way i will be coming to pay you a visit at your office tomorrow, whats a good time or shall i just show up unannounced...through his ass for a loop.



The second call was about him meeting some guy over dinner that wanted him to invest in his business. We also talked about the fact that I offered to cook him dinner and he politely declined coming to dinner by telling me that he "Knows how he feels about me and he knows what my response will be so why would he put himself in such a tempting situation...I completely don't understand what that statement means..

So do you actually know, how he feels about you? And he wants some SEX, so thats why he doesnt want to come over because you are going to turn him down...he wants dinner/sex/and fun!! He isnt going to open himself up to you, something is stopping him.

The third...he was getting bored i think and he probably was tired too, but he probably was bored with the conversation and ready to get off of the phone.

Lovage, in response to your question "So do you actually know, how he feels about you?" I don't know how he feels about me he never made that clear to me. The closest he ever got to discussing his feelings was once on the phone he said that he is reallying feeling me and that he didn't want to be the only person being all open between the two of us...

so how long were u guys dating? and were u actually exclusive dating or did u just fall into being with each other.

We were dating each other for a month. We just fell into being with each other. I suppose we were both very comfortable being with each other, at least that is what I thought but maybe I was wrong since it was so easy for him to pull his disappearing act on me. I guess he did me a favor by leaving early in the game before I started to catch too many feelings and invested too much time in him.

so out of that whole month he actually called u everyday?

did u ever go to his business?

did u spend quality time together..going out on dates and etc...etc?

you should have spoken up early as to what is going on between you guys and never just fall into that comfort zone without having some cushion to back you up.

i am guilty of disappearing on people, but not the way that he did. thats why i think that there is another woman he is multitasking, but i could be wrong.

Lovage,
He called me everyday for that whole month and would leave me messages if I was not around telling me that he wanted me to know that I was in his thoughts and to call him when I got the message. Sometimes he would call me more than once for the day.

did u ever go to his business?
No I didn't go to his business, he has a full time job with the government and I have called him at work on several occassions. He has an entertainment businesss that he runs along with his full time job.

did u spend quality time together..going out on dates and etc...etc?
We would go out on dates a couple tiimes a week and spend time with each other. He would always say that he wants to see me or that he is excited to see me.

you should have spoken up early as to what is going on between you guys and never just fall into that comfort zone without having some cushion to back you up.
I don't understand what you mean by this. If I'm dating someone and they call me every day and I see them several times a week and we are having fun together I don't start looking for problems, my focus is on getting to know that person and having fun when I'm with him.

Hmmm... Like the true Aries I am I did not read the previous post, so I am just basing my advice off of the initial post. I have seven years of experience with a Leo male and I'd have to say Leo men are very consistent in terms of their affections. He has only called you once last and it was very brief. So it seems like to me... personally, that he's just not that into you.

Sorry... ROFL evidently I didn't read your first question either... but you know us Aries always rushing through things with out really paying attention.

Okay, okay, okay, let me start again.

I still believe he's just not that into you.

To the first question I don't think it is something that is characteristic of Leo men... just men in general. Men don't need such reasons as an argument or conflict with a woman to break ties with her, she can just be, simply put, boring or too nice (Not to say that that is your case)... it's just to him you're not the right girl. Do you understand what I mean? It is is the same way when you don't like a guy, usually guys that are too nice, whatever the reason it may be you just don't having feelings for him that way. Except for women (most cases not all) we have the balls to tell them so. Men can be wimps when it comes to that and tend to just drop all connections.


There is nothing you can do to change the situation, anything that you attempt might make it worst. Because during one time or other you lost the ball and now the ball is in his court.

This is just my opinion and advice... so of course it's at your disposal.

"I don't think it is something that is characteristic of Leo men... just men in general. Men don't need such reasons as an argument or conflict with a woman to break ties with her, she can just be, simply put, boring or too nice (Not to say that that is your case)... it's just to him you're not the right girl."

And, to add to that, if someone isn't in to you, it DOES NOT take anything away from you as person. It doesn't mean anything is wrong with you - sometimes ish happens. You take it as a learning experience, and move on. I definitely agree with X-tina that it is more a male thing than a sign thing. Men are good for just disappearing without a backwards glance, but sometimes women put too much into everything, and overanalyze things that aren't there sometimes too. It takes two to tango.

fire...i was talking about the comfort zone, when i said to speak up, because whenever i start to date someone *exclusively* i always ask them quesitons...like what do you want from me, where would you like for this to go, are you just looking to bang me, dont waste my time if ur not going to be around only for a short minute because you might see a different side of me instead of the niceness...so dont bs me and there wont be any bs back. Keep it real or move the fuck out of my way....🙂and they listen to me and i get my man answers that i am looking for.

Use that fire energy of yours girl, dont let the next one just come in and sway you to easily, make his arse work for your fabulous love and dont be so available. He laid on his charm really thick and you adored it, which i understand but at the same time keep your options open just as he did. Just sit back and enjoy the frienship first and allow for your instincts to guide you, listen very closely..

Go out tonight gf and have some fun...go and flirt with some guys...let your hair down and live it up.

xtina and USC, get out of the leo board.....~chocoloate~..hehehehe! Kisses!!!


but you know us Aries always rushing through things with out really paying attention.

This is true...you guys rush into things without seeing the full picture.

Damn Choco how you gonna call me out like that! Lol! Smooches.
*slinks back to Taurus and Sports boards 😉*

I do what I want 😛.

hehehe....you know i love u girls.

stay around, we need ya!!

Kisses!!