Rays heart, No not about pursuing futher. we have never met, we just exchanged a lot of emails.
he did send me another email saying he jumped the gun and so now we are planning to meet in a very public place for the first time. but I was wondering that without meeting, if he's so attracted to me (he has said this a few times) if i decided that meeting after all is not a good idea, will he cyber stalk me to find out where i am?
I finds me very attractive and my beliefs in certain things very appealing
we have not met face to face, but exchange many many emails and he has already looked me up on the internet and is very intereted in me. I might even say that he has strong feelings for me. But when we talked the first time, I let him know that I was not planning to marrying ever again. but i do want to share my life with someone I am in love with. Well, he eventually wants marriage and took my stand on this as a rejection. He was very hurt and angry, and said so in an email. But later that day, he offered another alternative like a few months "try" to see where it goes.
Well, i was already a little spooked with his super strong reaction, and so I said that we neither one is going to change our stance on marriage, no need to meet. I wished him luck in finding someone for himself.
OH and he wants marriage not for love, but because he has missed out of a wedding party, and toast for himself, friends and family get together at the wedding, etc. He has missed out that with his previous marriage. He finds me very attractive (personality wise) yet ot meet me.
Question now is, if he feel so strong attraction towards me, will he get stakerly? or will he back off knowing that he and I don't share this one important thing.. I am a little nervous as I foudn him to be overly emotional.
1. Rugged look 2. Sensetive, yet manly 3. Courage, must be protective of me 4. rough housing during sex 5. lots of sex 6. new positons in sex 7. passionate in and out of bed 8. emotional, but not girlee emotional 9. loyal and honest 10.Must care for those weaker than him 11. MUST NOT get in my way of my independence or freedom or HE-WILL-DIE ! 12. I must be a # 1 priority in his life 13. very loving
It's definetly a booty call. Probably all day long he's got activitis to keep his mind occupied and then at night when all is dark, he is alone by himself. Alone with his thoughts. And bored. Bored Aries will start just about anything because we love action.
Don't give in, he'll just use you and toss you out when something else comes up. Right now, you saying no to him is further fanning his fire because you are challenging him by saying no. trust me, when you text him back, he's probably panting with excitement because it is some kind of a stimulation.. hahaha. But don't give in.
Ohh, yeah. we love red. And we love a bit love pow wow in bed. Love taking turns and the love struggle for dominance in bed. I mean, if you are not going to have fun when the clothes are off why bother?
Hyno, I'll be honest, it was purely physical attraction that brought us together. We both knew that as we had talked about that many times. But he has a side that was very hurtful.. like ignornig my B"day, valentine's day and say "oh i didnt know it was important. I promise to do somthing big for this and that" and again he'll raise my hops only to crash it. - the reason this was important was because he kept saying tht he loved me deeply. Yet when it came to showing it, he was colder than ice and very hurtful. So I realized tht I was the only one getting emotionally involved and would keep getting hurt. so I broke it off.
haha, I guess I gave the impression that i want to be stalked.. no, here's why i was fretting.. he said to me many many times that there's no way I can get rid of him. he said that I'll have to say no to him for months and months before he takes that to be my final answer. That's why I was fretting.
So i broke up with this scorpio almost 3 weeks ago. since then, he has texted me twice. saying he's very angry with me (I ignored it) and another one saying that he'll just come over, which I answered back saying not to come.
My question is this, now I am contantly looking around to see if he's stalking me. Havent' seen or heard from him now but I am still looking over my shoulder. I want to let my guard down and not worry. Sex was awesome, and neither of us could have enough of eachother in the bed. But that's not enough for me to be with him; I want love. So, I have not called him. However, I have a feeling that I'll hear from him again. When I do, I will stand firm.
Question is when can I know that he won't contact me for sure so that I dont' fret about it anymore
MsVirgo, I asked a Scorpio man what will it take him to get the message that it's over and you know what he said?? And He was serious, too! He said that I would have to say no no no no no to him for a few months before he will finally walk away. Months !
I guess you just have to stand your ground or do what the other poster suggested, get back with him, piss him off.. One of the thigns that scorpio men dont like is clingy, possesive woman.. Try that maybe, if you'd like. But whatever you do, pick one and stay with it.
woa don't drag us into this psychotic mess we don't obsess over it for months cuz Aries attention span is like a grasshopper which makes. oooohh I am going to watch Greys' Anatomy online I want ice cream