HappyCapper
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Posted by leow31Good. That's the approach I have taken. I just wanted to do something more; it's like my thank-yous hardly mean anything anymore...me having uttered them so many times.
Done or given...anything that has sentimental value...you can't go wrong...yes leos love nice expensive shiny things but what I'll appreciate the most..especially from bfs is when they'll remember something I've said I liked done or that I need..and and I'm not expecting it. The thought really counts.

Posted by SpiceNSugarYes, this has indeed been appreciated in the past. I am working on something right now for the first guy, but that's going to take at least three to four months to finalize. Think I'll go through old pictures for inspiration for other projects.
Sentimental gifts. Gifts from the heart. Gifts that will remind your friends of special moments shared together or of happy memories. These will be the most cherished gifts.

Posted by HappyCapperSounds good. Best of luck!Posted by SpiceNSugarYes, this has indeed been appreciated in the past. I am working on something right now for the first guy, but that's going to take at least three to four months to finalize. Think I'll go through old pictures for inspiration for other projects.
Sentimental gifts. Gifts from the heart. Gifts that will remind your friends of special moments shared together or of happy memories. These will be the most cherished gifts.
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Posted by BlackMambaYup. 🙂
Yes we're awesome
Posted by SpiceNSugarThank you🙂Posted by HappyCapperSounds good. Best of luck!Posted by SpiceNSugarYes, this has indeed been appreciated in the past. I am working on something right now for the first guy, but that's going to take at least three to four months to finalize. Think I'll go through old pictures for inspiration for other projects.
Sentimental gifts. Gifts from the heart. Gifts that will remind your friends of special moments shared together or of happy memories. These will be the most cherished gifts.
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Posted by MontgomeryI know. She is CC, isn't she? But maybe she knew a lot of leos and could chime in anyway. 🙂Posted by HappyCapperShe's a Cancer.
Any advice, BlackMamba?
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Posted by MontgomeryThanks for the advice! Due to certain practical issues, I can't do the sort of surprise things you suggest, but I get the sentiment and I like it.
Anyway
I can't surprise myself with say Christmas-y coffee
wif whipped cream on my lunch break ... but you can.
Time and effort will appeal more than the guilt of
knowing you spent more than you should have on
something.

Posted by HappyCapperOhh... no, I meant I or we would feel guilty--Posted by MontgomeryThanks for the advice! Due to certain practical issues, I can't do the sort of surprise things you suggest, but I get the sentiment and I like it.
Anyway
I can't surprise myself with say Christmas-y coffee
wif whipped cream on my lunch break ... but you can.
Time and effort will appeal more than the guilt of
knowing you spent more than you should have on
something.
Yes, I do feel guilty in a way. I don't think you should count back and forth who's on top between friends, but it's getting ridiculous. I'm in a situation in which I am temporarily(hopefully) somewhat limited(which is also the reason why I can't do as much for them as I would have wanted to) and they have lifted mountains from my shoulders. The main reason why I want to do things for them is not guilt, but because I feel actions mean so much more than words and I want to show appreciation for their friendship and for everything they are doing for me.click to expand
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Problem is that I can't keep up, mainly with guy no 1 and the girl. I know they don't expect me to, but I want to. Giving them things is is difficult since they are the typical people who have everything they want to have...except for things that are simply way past my price range. I have given them gifts that were more of the personal kind, which have been apprechiated, and done them favors anytime I have been able to, invited them over for dinner and drinks, etc, but now I'm just stumped.
Any advice? What has someone done for you/given you that has been the most appreciated?