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How can husband deal with leo wife

her coworker was telling her love words and she didn t stop him and she admit to me she enjoyed that but she didn t love him.

i get tired of problems?
that's the story i have been with since last year but lately i feel change in her not caring like before when we have sex i feel she is acting

I try many many time to talk friendly to her to know why she changed after long talk she say she not love me like before because stress of life and her
work and kids.

Maybe, she really is stressed.

Posted by 037
Maybe, she really is stressed.

things getting more complicated
all I'm sure about she hide something effecting to her psychologically and refusing to tell me
I want things back fine and stil love her but she not helping me
appreciated all advices

can you post her chart or birthday?

Posted by TxOgal
can you post her chart or birthday?

8-8-1985

Posted by egy

Posted by 037
Maybe, she really is stressed.

things getting more complicated
all I'm sure about she hide something effecting to her psychologically and refusing to tell me
I want things back fine and stil love her but she not helping me
appreciated all advices

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Are there financial issues?

Posted by Montgomery

Posted by egy

Posted by 037
Maybe, she really is stressed.

things getting more complicated
all I'm sure about she hide something effecting to her psychologically and refusing to tell me
I want things back fine and stil love her but she not helping me
appreciated all advices

Are there financial issues?

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No at all

Posted by egy

Posted by TxOgal
can you post her chart or birthday?

8-8-1985

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It's interesting that she has Cancer venus and Taurus moon... no surprise that she's aloof emotionally .. maybe something she is not happy about and cant voice it.. ur assumptions could be true :/ .. can u tell your chart/birthday as well? .. I just try to understand what could be bothering her from you .. maybe we reach something.. the way you communicate or love her maybe..

the good news is ... it seems she was honest that shes not interested in such relationships like her coworker incident.. or at least thats how cancer venus is.. it seems you trust her and thats a great n important thing! salute

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Posted by egy

Posted by TxOgal
can you post her chart or birthday?

8-8-1985

It's interesting that she has Cancer venus and Taurus moon... no surprise that she's aloof emotionally .. maybe something she is not happy about and cant voice it.. ur assumptions could be true :/ .. can u tell your chart/birthday as well? .. I just try to understand what could be bothering her from you .. maybe we reach something.. the way you communicate or love her maybe..

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Thanks so much , I really appreciate your help
I'm 10 January 1974

I though so and asked many time is there anything you don't like on me ? no
are you afraid of me ?please don't b afraid and tell me all , we are one person not 2

the answer was no , it's really hard to go deep inside her

last months she start to prefer turn the light off while we make love.
when we start our marriage after we making love she was ask me to keep beside her and i did since then
now lately after love she go and leave me not interested like before

What do you mean "i get tired of problems"?

I don't see how that phrase fits into the rest of the story.

Posted by SpiceNSugar
What do you mean "i get tired of problems"?

I don't see how that phrase fits into the rest of the story.

Nor care like before and talking with her became useless because she not telling the reasons
and hardly have love with her and hardly we talks or feeling like lovers only 2 persons go early to work and later take care of kids
no love moment no few minutes to feel her love by words or eyes or anything and from all of this stress increasing to me and arguing with her

she not the same
All the change started since her coworker told her love words, maybe that's the reason maybe not
i try to know but she not helping

Posted by egy
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All the change started since her coworker told her love words, maybe that's the reason maybe not
i try to know but she not helping

'... and she didn t stop him and she admit to me she enjoyed that'

Do you still do anything like that?

Appreciation?

Tell her you love her... how amazing she is, etc?

You have no water in your chart-- the issue could be an emotional one,

from her standpoint.

I don't think she wants to cheat per se.

I think she's tired of living a monotone life of kids, cooking, work, tv, sleep, lather, rinse, repeat.

The "love-words" from the guy at work momentarily made her feel "alive again"...

If you haven't been giving her enough romance and recognition over the years, it's likely that she feels unappreciated and locked into her wife/mother role.

Because she knows that this is her obligation and duty, she doesn't want to complain ...but deep down she's bored and needs some excitement.

Are your kids very young?

Maybe you can read this, ofcourse i dont know if these words are true.. but only u can tell.. since u have Venus in Aqua and Mars in Taurus

http://goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-taurus/your-marsvenus-combinations/mars-in-taurus-with-venus-in-aquarius.html

and this is about her Venus in Cancer and Mars in Leo

http://goodgollyastrology.com/your-mars-and-venus-playbook/mars-in-leo/your-marsvenus-combinations-sp-907/mars-in-leo-with-venus-in-cancer.html

think you can read the Moon in Leo-Moon in Taurus compatibility bec. it says u hardly understand eachothers styles of expressong feelings.. which could be true since u cant figure out a way to.understand her emotions for now

http://www.cafeastrology.com/moonsignleocompatibility.html

read on.. when mercury in fire and mercury in earth interact.. since ur mercury is in Capricorn (earth) and hers is in Leo (fire).. it also suggests how u can reach a solution to this clash

http://www.cafeastrology.com/articles/synastrymercury.html

I'm not a Leo but my mom is.. and from ur post, since it is hard for her to speak her mind, then there must be something extremely sensitive or maybe embarrassing about what she thinks..
you also mentioned that now she turns off the lights.. could there be something annoying her about her body? maybe this is a possibility.. compliment her more about her efforts and her body? .. I support what Montgomery and SpiceNSugar said..

maybe after reading those u can put ur finger on something.. there are infinite reasons..

we are now getting to divorce
when a man love a woman so much she stop love him
all that started a year ago since love words from coworker and i told her stop him and she promise but she didn't stop that second time i was going to divorce her but she promise again she will stop reply to his message and talks
since February no contact on what's app or facebook but she looks sad she did so not the same it's like she was expecting he keep contact her but he didn't

all last 12 months our sex life drop to very few time

as a leo she was always feel non secure when i go away from her now that's doesn't make any different

Sad times.

Why don't you tell her love words too?

Posted by dontgetmewrong
(((((SHE WANTS TO CHEAT ON YOU!!)))))))

THIS PERSON ^^^^ IS NOT A LEO

That is for egy's benefit.

Most other people know she's just jealous of leo women with these outbursts.

Carry on.

This is really sad egy... did she ask for the divorce? csn you give yourselves a month to try n make it work before a divorce?

Posted by Ssupes
In my experience, Leo's love hard and deep. We don't just quit loving like that. And we love sex too much to stop having it with our partner, unless something very bad has happened to cause this.

Speak up

+1

Strongly agree.

Posted by dontgetmewrong
(((((SHE WANTS TO CHEAT ON YOU!!)))))))

why you say so?