Confused about leo man?

Me and my leo started talking about 2 and a half yrs ago. After a few months we became friends with benefits for awhile. We lost contact for awhile then rekindled in like Jan. We became an item in May. Everything was great. He was super sweet and we spent lots of time together. In Aug he went thru my phone and found something he didnt like. I was texting back and forth with another guy. I did not and would not physically cheat on him but the msgs were enough. He broke up with me which is understandable. We still decided to be friends. He still came over but we didnt go out anymore. For the last few mnths he has become pretty distant. He comes over maybe once every two weeks and stays the night. When I try to tell him that I miss him and still have feelings for him he is usually really short in response and says he doesnt like mushy stuff. He used to call me sweet names and take me out he doesnt do that now. He came over for New Years and stayed until this morning. He cooked for me for the 1st time and we lounged around all day. He is hot and cold. I feel like he makes me fall for him then pulls back. Can anyone give me their opinions on this? Should I just move on?

That is a Leo man for you. His ego is bruised, therefore, this is his way of acting out. But he may really like you, that is why he has not shut you out completely. I know alot of Leo men, and if they do not have feelings for you, they would vanish. But be warned. He sees you in a different light, due to the texts, and if someone better comes along, he may forget about you totally.

From personal experience, I would say that loyalty is one of the most valued qualities for a Leo. Sometimes we can come off as non-committal or casual, but that's usually because we have huge hearts and can fall into an all-or-nothing mindset pretty easily when it comes to romance etc. So we're guarded about who we let in and consider it a big deal when we've allowed ourselves to be vulnerable with someone else.

Genuine and deep trust is something we only give to a few, and to break that (in the way of questionable texts/loyalty/attraction) can cause a huge upset, especially if a lot of time/energy/emotion has been invested in a connection with someone. Sure it hurts the ego but that we can recover from, it's when our heart is bruised that we really pull away. Leos are pretty straightforward and it's not hard to tell if something is wrong: we're just not around anymore, whether we fade out slowly or completely poof overnight.

For myself, if a guy I had genuine feelings for did something similar to me, I probably would've disappeared entirely. I don't let go of people I care about easily and can be forgiving/understanding of a lot, but disloyalty is a deal breaker and I will cut ties without question. Because once I'm emotionally attached to someone, I'm single-mindedly into them and I need someone who is able and interested in reciprocating that same level of devotion. It's about me showing how much I value someone, and seeing that they value me just as much in return.

If he's still spending the night but infrequently I would hazard a guess that's simply for convenience/lack of a genuine interest or connection with anyone else. He's likely to have distanced/severed emotional ties with you because you hurt him, the trust is gone, and once that's broken it can be incredibly difficult to rebuild.

Sorry to ramble, I just hoped to give you an inside perspective on why it could have happened and how your past actions may have been perceived. At this point I would strongly suggest moving on, because it would take a lot of effort on your part to repair what is likely a burned bridge while he uses you in the interim. And regardless of signs or past actions, I don't think anyone deserves to be used :/

Easha3000us I do believe that if someone else came along he would forget about me 😢. UntamedLeo I have felt that he only comes over for his inconvenience. I have felt that way for the past few months. And I appreciate the "rambling"...lol. Great advice. Thanks!

Easha3000us I do believe that if someone else came along he would forget about me 😢. UntamedLeo I have felt that he only comes over for his inconvenience. I have felt that way for the past few months. And I appreciate the "rambling"...lol. Great advice. Thanks!

Easha3000us I do believe that if someone else came along he would forget about me 😢. UntamedLeo I have felt that he only comes over for his inconvenience. I have felt that way for the past few months. And I appreciate the "rambling"...lol. Great advice. Thanks!

Easha3000us I do believe that if someone else came along he would forget about me 😢. UntamedLeo I have felt that he only comes over for his inconvenience. I have felt that way for the past few months. And I appreciate the "rambling"...lol. Great advice. Thanks!

People are always raving about Leos being so loyal, No they are NOT!!! All the Leos in my family cheat....and there is about 9 of them in my immediate family...No loyalty there...

Easha2300us is exactly right, they all cheat. Even if it is an online relationship they cheat