Damn whats wrong?!!!

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tokyodiamond21
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18 YearsAries

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hey everybody,

Well Im in a relationship with a male leo who is 4 years older than I. As being an Aries female we have a good time together. We are both in the military and both overseas together. Yea we have occasional battles but that's what make our relationship unique. I shower him with attention and he spoil me like I want him too. So it seems equal enough to me. I show him support, he shows me security. Right now im pregnant but this was before me and him got together,but accepts that and acts as if its his child inside of me not another man;s. Only thing is that one he's divorced and two he has a child by his first love. I feel its good he's been divorced b/c he has more experience than me and he knows what he wants but at the same time its bad b/c it seem now like Im struggling to show him its ok to open up to me. The only time he tell me how he trully feel is when he's drunk. He even told me he love me but I never brought it up b/c he was drunk. Well today I emailed him sayin goodmorning as I usually do when we are at work but this time I got a response I was not ready for. He emailed me back saying "Hey I need some space stay off me", so I emailed back "wat". Then he emailed back saying"Gotta lot of shit happenin today and I need to sit back and think". I didnt email back. That really hurt my feelings, especially me being an aries. Im str8 confused. I know leo's can be some rude assholes sometimes but I feel like something is trully wrong. Is he leaving me? He could have at least told me why he need space but knowing a leo they feel like they dont owe it to no one to explain their actions. Help someone. I dont know what to do or say, let alone feel.
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Motsureru
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18 Years

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Ouch, it sounds like that message WOULD hurt alot like, SHEESH.

But maybe give him a bit of space for now, wait and see if he makes contact with you first and when he does ask what was wrong.
And if he doesn't want to talk about it, then maybe tell him how the message hurt your feelings. As easily angered as Leo's are, he should at least know how to be nicer.

I'm speaking from experience with a male Leo friend, I WAS going to date him but met somebody else so...But chances are if you cope wit him a bit he'll tell you whatever is bothering him.

When you figure out whats wrong you'll have to figure it out from there because I won't know that much.

And its ok to feel hurt by what he said in the txt, I'd feel bad too, well...Actually I'd be ticked and probably freak at him but thats just my inner Aries speaking so ignore that notion. LOL

Just give him space, say what you feel you need to say when the time comes, maybe ask whats wrong and give him some comfort or something. Then see how it goes from there.
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truthseeker
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20 Years500+ PostsCancer

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Hey TD21...you're all over the place! I wouldn't worry about a thing. Sh*t, I wish my aries would say that to me instead of just disappearing and not letting me know what's goin' on!!!

I'm glad that he at least had the sense to tell you that he needed space. Don't get worked up...and give him the space that he needs. He will contact you, but you've got to be patient (which I know is hard for aries).

Don't worry, be happy:-)
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tiki33
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19 Years10,000+ Posts

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your leo actually TOLD you to leave him alone...consider yourself lucky, most of us on here and I'm sure around the world have to figure it out lmao.

He needs time to himself and he let you know, can't be all bad, sounds pretty mature actually, most leos will not verbally say this, they expect us to know and they don't feel like they have to let us know whats going on.

as everyone else has said,your fine, he's fine, just need breathing space, it takes hard work to be mr.wonderful all the time, he needs some down time to get re-energized...be patient
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wheelhomies
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sweetie it doesn't sound like he's leaving you 🙂, or that he thinks you smother him. it just sounds like he was being overly direct in his request for some space on that one occasion. like he didn't wanna talk to ANYONE and unfortunately the harshest remarks are always to those closest to us (with anyone really, not just leos). i'm sorry he was such an ass about it, but i have to admit i get that way too sometimes.