lotuslily
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Do Leo guys test?
Did he ever respond to your latest text?
Nope. He usually gets back to me when he can...
but he hasn't replied to my latest text saying I'm not coming out tonight either...
but he hasn't replied to my latest text saying I'm not coming out tonight either...
Thinking about it, I have been guilty of doing this to even my friends in the past. I'll be so busy running around and in a hurry to get from one place to the next that my feet hardly touch ground, and I'll totally space that I had people wanting to know more info about where I'm going because my hands just haven't been free to get back to them. It's been nothing personal against them... just a crazy busy time.
I know Aries, Leo and Sag are usually always on the go. Maybe I shouldn't take it personally.
I know Aries, Leo and Sag are usually always on the go. Maybe I shouldn't take it personally.
@Seraph and Enfant and the other lovely lions who know about my order with the universe for more Leo men...
So this may not be the one we all hoped for, for me... but it may be one that is a bangin hot lover while the universe conjures up my alpha. He has said he is not looking for anything serious but we have both admitted to wanting to bang each others brains out.
Lol... I've been looking at pics of him trying to catch glimpses of the size of his package! no luck.... It will have to be a surprise. Hope it's a pleasant one!
So this may not be the one we all hoped for, for me... but it may be one that is a bangin hot lover while the universe conjures up my alpha. He has said he is not looking for anything serious but we have both admitted to wanting to bang each others brains out.
Lol... I've been looking at pics of him trying to catch glimpses of the size of his package! no luck.... It will have to be a surprise. Hope it's a pleasant one!
So, do you think I reacted appropriately for " heightening the interest and feeding the attraction at times. That back-and-forth advance-and-pull-back phenomenon that keeps things interesting and the other party guessing and wondering. There's always a delicious element of the exciting and unknown that acts as a backdrop in a relationship with a Leo."
Basically I thought... well if this dude isn't going to get back to me, then I'd rather save some face early on in the evening and change my mind about going out. My self respect made me do it. I do kinda realise it's a get outta jail free card for him in a way...
I don't mind that... This is the first time, so I will give him another chance, if he makes contact again. I don't think I should make contact first again...
He's a hottie and I want a notch with his name on my bedpost :p
Basically I thought... well if this dude isn't going to get back to me, then I'd rather save some face early on in the evening and change my mind about going out. My self respect made me do it. I do kinda realise it's a get outta jail free card for him in a way...
I don't mind that... This is the first time, so I will give him another chance, if he makes contact again. I don't think I should make contact first again...
He's a hottie and I want a notch with his name on my bedpost :p
Posted by Jynja
Yeah. I bet the first test was telling you he'd like to bang your brains out. I do think it might be unconscious though, and he really wants to bang you, but if he was hoping for someone - he'd be thinking that he might be a little disappointed.
my .02 though.click to expand
Confession: I was the first one to admit to wanting to bang his brains out.
I was talking to him about how I enjoy that our work is similar and how we help other people and it feels good and how we may be able to learn from each other to widen our skill set in helping people.... I told him it was nice to find someone who enjoyed helping people and enhancing their lives through our skills.
So I ended up telling him I wanted to talk to him about something because I am in conflict about where I want this "friendship" of ours to go. I said on one hand I really enjoy engaging with him on how we can help each other help other people, but one the other hand, I am extremely sexually attracted to him and I want to bang his brains out for a while.
I continued to say I had both pure (learning from each other to help others) and impure (wanting to bang his brains out) intentions for our friendship.
He replied saying he thinks I'm very attractive and that he'd totally bang my brains out too. And then that's when he said he's not looking for something serious at this point of his life.
Which I was cool with... as long as we could balance and still keep engaging and sharing what we know about our work to learn from each other.
Oh, and his added response to me saying "I wanted to talk to him about something because I am in conflict about where I want this "friendship" of ours to go. I said on one hand I really enjoy engaging with him on how we can help each other help other people, but one the other hand, I am extremely sexually attracted to him and I want to bang his brains out for a while." was that we should go for a drink sometime and see how things develop in person.
HE also said he hasn't had sex in a couple of months. dunno why i think that's relevant... but for some reason i felt i needed to say that.
HE also said he hasn't had sex in a couple of months. dunno why i think that's relevant... but for some reason i felt i needed to say that.
Posted by lotuslily
I don't mind that... This is the first time, so I will give him another chance, if he makes contact again. I don't think I should make contact first again...
He's a hottie and I want a notch with his name on my bedpost :p
He just-- didn't respond?
I wouldn't contact him first, again-- totally with you on that.
How odd, though.
Posted by seraph
But when it comes to the actual experiencing of *you*, on the basis of plans already made, if a Leo has to reschedule you'll be sure to know about it, and know exactly the new time and date (which will be firm.)click to expand
This ^
Because ordinarily, Leos don't just crap out on people-- *wrinkles nose in distaste*
The last thing he sent was at 7:30pm. It's now 10pm in my country. He invited me out at 7:10pm. I doubt he'll reply tonight. Maybe he was already drunk.... he said they were planning on going big tonight and that it wasn't going to be pretty. Sounds like he was amped for debauchery and maybe even on his way already.
It was obviously a last minute, spontaneous invite.
It was obviously a last minute, spontaneous invite.
Posted by JynjaPosted by lotuslily
@Seraph and Enfant and the other lovely lions who know about my order with the universe for more Leo men...
So this may not be the one we all hoped for, for me... but it may be one that is a bangin hot lover while the universe conjures up my alpha. He has said he is not looking for anything serious but we have both admitted to wanting to bang each others brains out.
Lol... I've been looking at pics of him trying to catch glimpses of the size of his package! no luck.... It will have to be a surprise. Hope it's a pleasant one!
Yeah. I bet the first test was telling you he'd like to bang your brains out. I do think it might be unconscious though, and he really wants to bang you, but if he was hoping for someone - he'd be thinking that he might be a little disappointed.
my .02 though.click to expand
What do you mean "...if he was hoping for someone - he'd be thinking that he might be a little disappointed."
I've read that three times, and I feel like a word is missing-- or something.
Posted by lotuslily
The last thing he sent was at 7:30pm. It's now 10pm in my country. He invited me out at 7:10pm. I doubt he'll reply tonight. Maybe he was already drunk.... he said they were planning on going big tonight and that it wasn't going to be pretty. Sounds like he was amped for debauchery and maybe even on his way already.
It was obviously a last minute, spontaneous invite.
Yeah-- maybe taking advantage of a little liquid courage.
That wasn't a test-- if it was, it wasn't one you want to pass (unless you are looking for strictly a good time-- you did mention a notch-- no judgement, just saying). 😉
Kind of flattering, but I wouldn't contact him-- he'll likely contact you.
Thanks 🙂
It's just weird how all that happened in 20 minutes. Quite a mind fuck!
I'm left feeling like "HUH? What the hell just happened?"
It's just weird how all that happened in 20 minutes. Quite a mind fuck!
I'm left feeling like "HUH? What the hell just happened?"
Sooooo.... update.... just for interests sakes for anyone who stumbles upon this wondering why Leo guys pull disappearing acts.
I heard from the Leo I posted about in this thread the next day.... I decided not to ask why he didn't call me... instead i chose to focus on appealing to his reasonable emotional side about something that really had me worried about the situation.
He replied almost straight away apologising for his silence and saying that he felt things were moving along too quickly with us and that in general he distances himself when things like this happen. He said he didn't mean to freak me out, and suggested we take a step back (cus it got sexually excitable very quickly over texts...) and start again as friends and see where it goes from there.
I told him I'd been coming down pretty hard on myself for getting ahead of myself with him last week with sexual banter, and he said I could not take the blame for this alone because there were two of us involved and we both got caught up in it.
Then I told him I looked forward to becoming friends with him and having no obligation for it to go any further than that if that's how he felt.
Then he invited me to go for a drink this week sometime....
So I like that he was honest and transparent with me... WAY better than the mind fuck from saturday night! And vibes are all good again. It seems. LOL
I heard from the Leo I posted about in this thread the next day.... I decided not to ask why he didn't call me... instead i chose to focus on appealing to his reasonable emotional side about something that really had me worried about the situation.
He replied almost straight away apologising for his silence and saying that he felt things were moving along too quickly with us and that in general he distances himself when things like this happen. He said he didn't mean to freak me out, and suggested we take a step back (cus it got sexually excitable very quickly over texts...) and start again as friends and see where it goes from there.
I told him I'd been coming down pretty hard on myself for getting ahead of myself with him last week with sexual banter, and he said I could not take the blame for this alone because there were two of us involved and we both got caught up in it.
Then I told him I looked forward to becoming friends with him and having no obligation for it to go any further than that if that's how he felt.
Then he invited me to go for a drink this week sometime....
So I like that he was honest and transparent with me... WAY better than the mind fuck from saturday night! And vibes are all good again. It seems. LOL
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