First time dating Leo male. Looking for advices

So I met this guy online and we started our conversation by his funny stories. We talked not too much, just casual things.
Then he asked me out, emphasizing strongly that it's just casual one. So I agreed (normally I'd just say "I'll consider" and tried to get to know them more. since, u know, it's just online).
We went to his fave spot and we hugged the very first time we met. It was really nice of him. Talking and conversation went on smoothly as we spent almost 4hrs together, with wide-range topics. He seemed interested in my personal point of view, and ask some personal-related things about me. He shared his stories too. Overall, cute.
Then he asked me out, again. On that day he told me that other girls asked him out (as dating), but he said no, and honestly told me that he likes me.I really like him too, it's strange for me (we only hav 1 day together only). It was a mixed feelings for me.
So ive been wondering every now and then, if he really means it. He said, just "like", not something too much going on so don't be freaked out. But he rarely texted me. I tried to texted casual line, but he seemed to have no interest (didn't reply quickly or stuff).
How to interpret here guys? Pls help. Thanks 🙂.

Take your time. I can't emphasize because soon rather later you can spot red flags. And we often ignore them..so what does your mind and? Because if we listen to our hearts. It will break alot.

What's your moon, and stuff like?

@Op- I have cut guys off really quick online. By simply waiting and asking the right questions. I even had great conversation and swapped numbers and then had red flags.

I had red flags and still went out just to be open minded, lol. I have waited a few weeks of talking alot to when I meet nothing to talk about except if we meet then I think we're compatible so go for it what's to lose.

How on earth do you like someone you barely talk to , then when you meet its like I like you because I didn't accept other dates because I am with you tonight instead of them. Ass.

My moon is Scorpion and that's all i know. I'm not good at signs btw.
So I was hurt before and I'm quite protective over my heart. Though I don't easily have crush on someone, I tend to fall unexpectedly even just right after I meet one special men. I know it's crazy (it makes me frusrtated at this trait of me also), but it keeps occurring at the most unexpected way.
This guy is cute, great sense of humor, nice and seem caring when we meet. But when I texted him, he doesn't seem to be into it much. And rarely texted me first. So just wonder if this is just a game for him or what..?

My moon is Scorpion and that's all i know. I'm not good at signs btw.
So I was hurt before and I'm quite protective over my heart. Though I don't easily have crush on someone, I tend to fall unexpectedly even just right after I meet one special men. I know it's crazy (it makes me frusrtated at this trait of me also), but it keeps occurring at the most unexpected way.
This guy is cute, great sense of humor, nice and seem caring when we meet. But when I texted him, he doesn't seem to be into it much. And rarely texted me first. So just wonder if this is just a game for him or what..?
But yea I guess u're right, this is bizarre. I just need to simply let go of it. Overthinking is not good anyway.

I get it believe me I do. I have a different moon than you so yeah I know you think that after a day or two this is the guy for you. But it still about actions speak louder than words. Yeah people like people by physical attraction but separate that really quick and let clouds disspated and then see.

@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428 thanks so much. Love your advice. I'll go and calm my damn self down 🙂

I have been told to go with the flow and not always think ahead but that I need to see it now and presently.

Take the independence time for yourself and go do things like if he's dating others then why can't you. Wanting to be friends first is a good idea.. sometimes knowing them as friends can actually help to see if they are the one for your future.

Good luck.

Trust I know, how it can be so intense. Haha.

Anyone can be attract to one. How can it be slow if they are both fire and impulsive types. Haha fire and fire oh boy.

Well actually I don't text him that much, neither does he. To me I let it past 3 days before actually ask "How's going".
And yea, taking things Slow is not my type, but i'll TRY to be real slow this time. 🙂

That's torture though. Lol

@FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428: to me, yea. He did reply but not quickly. Anyway, haha it's fine now. I was overthinking only. Maybe just a little spark in us both. Let it flows naturally then. We'll see how things go.

@AriesLove: yeah u got me there 🙂. I'll take it slow. Great advice btw.

Yeah no I get yall fire peeps. Let it flow naturally.

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I'd say take it slow as well. You are in a good place right now. You guys are hanging out, he wants to see you and making the effort.

If he's not responding to your texts...then try not to text him that often and allow him to text you first. You won't have to worry about waiting for a response.

He probably does like you, most Leo men are attracted to Aries. Just take it SLOW!

I'm proud of u for this comment lol.

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I'd say take it slow as well. You are in a good place right now. You guys are hanging out, he wants to see you and making the effort.

If he's not responding to your texts...then try not to text him that often and allow him to text you first. You won't have to worry about waiting for a response.

He probably does like you, most Leo men are attracted to Aries. Just take it SLOW!

I'm proud of u for this comment lol.

I'm surprised. I was just talking about a man and ONE woman. We know that's not your thing. Still appreciate it!

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Lol that is my thing. That's the foundation. Adding anything should amplify...but that's a whole nother convo

Hey guys, so my man ask me to go to his place, for cooking. I'm not into sex, so I clarified that it's just cooking only, and he was cool with it.
He seemed excited bout this date, since he asked me to come quite some times. But I just knew that he's living with 4 other men, and i'm not sure whether I should come or not?

Hi guys, just curious here. If you and your date first started as "casual dating", then he asks you to his house cooking, and ask you to meet his friend to get to know them, is it still "casual" here?

Wait what Is going on?

Casual means just friends but can turn to casual fling and still just friends, yall not together yet.. so hey he asked you over to cook for you and meet his other friends? What type of friends exactly?@Op.

So he asked me visit his place, cooking and getting to know his flat mates. I think it's quite too fast right? Other Leos don't fall in love that fast and push things too fast that way right?
He did mention that he doesn't want to be pushy. Quite confusing here.

Okay you can do that, but tread carefully. If you already met him in a public place and got to know each other or feel comfortable. Just be careful..

Yea had met him in public 3 times b4 he asked me that. I decided to meet his friends in public to and the cooking can wait. He's cool w it so I'll meet them in the next couple of days

Cool beans good luck.

That's it? It's that easy. Hmm.

Haha LibraMuda, i really hope it could be that easy.

Anyway, I haven't gone to his house. But last time we met, I dressed up nicely and he couldn't take his eyes off me. He said he had a thing for me, and enjoyed talking to me 🙂. But I think to him we're just friends.

It's hard to interpret his action, he seemed more than friend, but still, hasn't been into texting to me. I was really confused by his actions. So I just decided to let it be that way and enjoy.

Since Leo is not that hard to understand (from what i've read abt them), i guess this guy is just playing around..

I hate words. I love to 50/50 though mutually.

Sorry, I dont get your saying.

Why hate words? In which situation btw?

I meant action are louder than words.

Ah yes, I see now.

When we headed home, he always asks for a hug and last time, my hug was a lil bit tighter, and so did he. It was a great moment when he briefly kissed my forehead and said goodbye.

I haven't dated anyone for a long time, and once again I feel like I'm falling again. I did take advice to slow things down but it's rly hard to restrain.

Yes, I agree on taking it slow, but it's getting more intimate now >..

Hi guys..

So we went on dates together and it all ended up with hugging and he kissed on my forehead. But last time when we were out for dinner, he asked if I'd had a crush on someone or not, and told me that he'd be fine and still want to meet me again even if I was going out seeing other men.

I didn't answer his question of having a crush or not and intended to keep it that way. But when we hugged to say goodbye, I just couldnt hold back but spilled it out. Aries like me, not good at restraining myself and conceal my feelings.

So, i confessed about me having a crush on him... He said "I've noticed that already" and then we kissed. It felt really good, and overwhelming, and great.

But then, overthinking got me after that. We actually talked a lot and shared our thinking about life, people, and experience. So many things in common between us. And he kept on complimenting about me, and expressed that I'm a mystery to him. However, I'm so afraid of relationship since I was hurt badly and deeply before. I told him that i'm really insecure and I'm not interested in games.

So guys, what do you think? Should I give this a try? Not asking for something serious and just go with it (the whole things of hugging, kissing,...)? Or should I just tell him to slow down, get to know more, then decide what's next?

And also, he did mention lots of time that "I have a thing with you". How's that supposed to mean? It's just an interest right? Not a crush right..?

Hmmm after seeing my current boyfriend twice, I asked him to come back to my place so I could cook and he could meet my flatmates. Him being a Sagi and myself a Leo, things just naturally moved really fast (same with my last two Sagi exes).

I asked to cook for him because I'd decided only after two dates that I like him a lot. And I wanted him to meet my flatmates because I wanted them to suss him out for me lol.

Not saying all Leos are like this but sure, if I asked to cook for you and for you to meet my friends, it means I like you. And I usually decide really fast whether or not you are worthy of such things. You're either dating material or just a friend. And if you're friendzoned, you stay there for life. I never suddenly develop feelings for friends or become friends first and then slowly develop feelings for you as time progresses.

From what I know, Leos are straightforward and we don't beat around the bush. If we like you and things go well, it's on. If we like you and you don't move at the same pace, we might get bored and start looking elsewhere. Having said that, there are amongst us who are simply always on the prowl. Perhaps something to do with our individual placements. Luck luck!

Just keep petting him and telling him how wonderful he is, until you puke.

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Make him something good to eat and rub his belly

Hahaha, this made me laugh so hard, because it's true. I'm a lady, but if a dude starts running his fingers through my hair, or rubbing my head, I get sooooo relaxed. God forbid food is involved; I'll be asleep within the hour and super grateful when I wake up.

Posted by Mishmorecookie
Hmmm after seeing my current boyfriend twice, I asked him to come back to my place so I could cook and he could meet my flatmates. Him being a Sagi and myself a Leo, things just naturally moved really fast (same with my last two Sagi exes).

I asked to cook for him because I'd decided only after two dates that I like him a lot. And I wanted him to meet my flatmates because I wanted them to suss him out for me lol.

Not saying all Leos are like this but sure, if I asked to cook for you and for you to meet my friends, it means I like you. And I usually decide really fast whether or not you are worthy of such things. You're either dating material or just a friend. And if you're friendzoned, you stay there for life. I never suddenly develop feelings for friends or become friends first and then slowly develop feelings for you as time progresses.

From what I know, Leos are straightforward and we don't beat around the bush. If we like you and things go well, it's on. If we like you and you don't move at the same pace, we might get bored and start looking elsewhere. Having said that, there are amongst us who are simply always on the prowl. Perhaps something to do with our individual placements. Luck luck!

Thank you, it's a helpful comment to me 😄.

Actually he asked me to go over to his flat and cook on our 2nd date. And I still postpone it till now,since I guess it's too fast for me. I wasn't sure about his feelings, and we're barely strangers.

So now when we both know how we feel about others, I wonder if we're in a rush or what. We've just known each other for less than 1 month only. He never texted me first, if I did he'd replied nicely but that was it. But he indeed sent many texts to his friend. However when we went out together, he talked a lot. And complimented me non-stop, on everything 😄.

Thing is I had this same situation before. Went out with a guy (Caps), found many things in common, confessed our feelings, then started dating. Then boom! After 2 weeks he said he actually had no feelings for me and recently when we talked again (as acquaintance), he admitted that it was just a game. So I'm scared this time maybe the same, just another game, another conquering.

Should I be back off a lil bit? I plan to tell him that I won't come to his flat till we know each other more (I've been postponing this "visit" many times). But another part of me just really wanna go along with it and enjoy the moment, tho it's in fast pace.

Any advice here...?

Yeah I totally get that feeling of wanting to be cautious. All I can say is, just enjoy it. If he texts, reply. If you feel like texting him, do so. If he doesn't reciprocate, then you'll know it's over.

I'm not sure if Leos are known to play games but I don't. Always straightforward and I kinda enjoy to chase a little bit. So I don't think you should play games. If you like him, go with the flow. If it works out, good, if it doesn't, lick your wounds and move on.

I hope it works out for you =)

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Posted by Mishmorecookie
Hmmm after seeing my current boyfriend twice, I asked him to come back to my place so I could cook and he could meet my flatmates. Him being a Sagi and myself a Leo, things just naturally moved really fast (same with my last two Sagi exes).

I asked to cook for him because I'd decided only after two dates that I like him a lot. And I wanted him to meet my flatmates because I wanted them to suss him out for me lol.

Not saying all Leos are like this but sure, if I asked to cook for you and for you to meet my friends, it means I like you. And I usually decide really fast whether or not you are worthy of such things. You're either dating material or just a friend. And if you're friendzoned, you stay there for life. I never suddenly develop feelings for friends or become friends fiIt and then slowly develop feelings for you as time progresses.

From what I know, Leos are straightforward and we don't beat around the bush. If we like you and things go well, it's on. If we like you and you don't move at the same pace, we might get bored and start looking elsewhere. Having said that, there are amongst us who are simply always on the prowl. Perhaps something to do with our individual placements. Luck luck!

Thank you, it's a helpful comment to me 😄.

Actually he asked me to go over to his flat and cook on our 2nd date. And I still postpone it till now,since I guess it's too fast for me. I wasn't sure about his feelings, and we're barely strangers.

So now when we both know how we feel about others, I wonder if we're in a rush or what. We've just known each other for less than 1 month only. He never texted me first, if I did he'd replied nicely but that was it. But he indeed sent many texts to his friend. However when we went out together, he talked a lot. And complimented me non-stop, on everything 😄.

Thing is I had this same situation before. Went out with a guy (Caps), found many things in common, confessed our feelings, then started dating. Then boom! After 2 weeks he said he actually had no feelings for me and recently when we talked again (as acquaintance), he admitted that it was just a game. So I'm scared this time maybe the same, just another game, another conquering.

Should I be back off a lil bit? I plan to tell him that I won't come to his flat till we know each other more (I've been postponing this "visit" many times). But another part of me just really wanna go along with it and enjoy the moment, tho it's in fast pace.

Any advice here...?

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I think you should go. Me and the Aires I'm with now were spending the night @ each others spot after a couple weeks. No sex tho.

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Thanks guys. Very helpful indeed 😄.

He said he had a crush on me at our 2nd date when me to him was just more than interest. But the guy is really sweet and i just naturally have faith on him gradually.

I hope this can work out since I've got issue in relationship before. And though I'm surrounded by some men now but I tell him I'm not interested in them (as implying for my interest in him only). He seems happy to know that.

Will update the progress later guys 😉

Hey I know I should just go with the flow and keep it natural but how to keep the spark between us goes on. I mean, how to not lose interest? Anything I should take note about Leo, besides paying attention and showering him with compliments? (At this stage, it's mainly him compliments me on my appearance and stuff)

I really don't wanna be pushy but I wanna "maintain as is and develop if possible". So, any specific idea you guys may have?