Gonna Get That Leo...

I'm so glad that I rarely listen to others advice...

Synopsis: I'm a Gemini girl who was living with a Pisces man and met a Leo man that I started having feelings for. I share a child with the Pisces man. All of us happen to work at the same place, but different departments. I had told the Leo that I liked him about 2 months ago and told the Pisces I was looking to move elsewhere. The Leo went from hot to not with me. Who can blame him considering I was still living with another man.

Update: So I moved out on the Pisces man beginning of this month. We all work at an RV resort, and I happened to find a place for rent there. Full time RV'ing is definitely an adventure, but hey it gets me away from the Pisces.

I ran into the Leo the other day at the pool. Usually he's there with his friends, this time he was alone. My daughter was so super friendly towards him, which is so unusual for her especially with men. I guess she senses how much her mommy likes him. We hung out and talked a bit. So I asked him to help me move a few things as he has a truck. Then he helped me the following day. Afterwards he said "If you ever need me to help you move anything, or if you need help with anything at all, don't hesitate to ask me." I was like awwwwwwwwww. Yea baby, I got a few things you can help me with 😉 So I invited him to come this weekend to a bbq with me and a few of my friends. He said sure.

So now he's been waaaay more friendly with me since he found out I was leaving the Pisces. I really want to watch my steps with him carefully. I don't want to mess this up. Him and I could be too good together. We really seem to share the same core beliefs and have many similar interests.

Any suggestions on how to seduce the Leo? Of course being a Gemini female, I already know the art of seduction. But it wouldn't hurt to have some inside Leo advice.....Not that I ever listen to advice anyways 😉

As for the do's...be yourself....
I can give a don't....don't play your Gemini mind games with him!! We hate it, it frustrates the living bejesus out of us.

my advice is not to listen to other peoples' advice. ha! no you'll have to take it!

Prringleo...I will certainly be trying to keep the evil twin in check. That was the thing about the Pisces...he knew how to push my buttons and oh how he did...then the evil twin would come out. Thing is, I don't like being the evil twin. The Pisces treated me more as a parent than a b/f. A Gemini doesn't like to be bossed around, and have her every actions judged constantly. Being with the Pisces was bad for my health. I have a chronic pain condition that is worsened by stress. Ultimately, that's why I had to leave the Pisces. However, whenever I'm around the Leo, I feel as I can be myself without judgement. I think the Leo will have no problems keeping the evil twin at bay. As I've gotten older, I've learned how to let the evil twin out only when she's needed.

chocolate...I suspected that the Leo was purposely at the pool by himself hoping I'd show up. I had ran into the Leo about a week before I moved. I told him I'd like to take him out for a drink sometime as a belated b-day thing. He said "sure we can do that." This was after I told him I found a place to rent and was going to do it. If he wants to seduce me, he can go right ahead 😉 That doesn't mean I won't be doing it back to him. I guess we'll just have to see how it plays out tonite.

Proverbs...I pretty much have already fallen for him. This attraction to him has been going on for over 2 years now. After our one time kiss, and a few times of hanging out together, I feel that this could really work out. We seem to share a lot of similar interests. He actually listens to what I say, unlike the Pisces did. The Pisces wanted to be the talker and not the listener. It seems all the pieces are falling into place now. Which is making me scared as hell...what? my dreams are coming true? how can that be? I will definitely be there to catch him if he falls...I just hope that he does.

And to think LeoAqua was concerned about me, the Gemini, playing mind games with the Leo....turns out it is the other way around. So I run into the Leo today and told him what exact time I was having this bbq. Then he tells me that he has to run his brother into town (which is around 15 miles away) and that IF he came over it wouldn't be until much later. So at that moment I pretty much figured out that he wasn't going to show up, and I was right. I think he's very scared of me. He is supposedly still a virgin and I'm much older than he is. And from what his friends tell me, it is not like he has girls beating down his door. I'm probably the first female who has really showed him any real attention. I feel like I am taking two steps forward and three steps back with him. Every time there it seems like things are moving ahead, he backs off completely. This is just so frustrating. I don't know why he just can't let go, but I know that I can't take much more of this emotional pain. Like it's not bad enough that every day I experience intense physical pain (I have a chronic pain illness). I've been trying to be patient with him...but he's pushing the limits. And now my little girl really likes him. She was hoping he was coming too. I just don't know what else to do about him. I've tried forgetting him, which is hard to do when you dream about the guy just about every night. I feel tortured by him. It makes me think I must have done something really bad to him in a past life. Ok now I'm rambling because I've had one too many drinks...Remember us Gemini's tend to over-analyze things. We also have an intense need to verbalize our thoughts.

Proverbs...I haven't shown the Leo those sides of me...He's only seen the good, sweet Gemini. Besides that, I hadn't talked to or seen him in between the day I asked him and a few days later when he changed his mind. So I really don't think there is anything that I did for him to back off. Like I said, I think he's scared. He's young and supposedly still a virgin. I'm much older and more experienced.

However, it has entered my mind that the ex Pisces may have said something to the Leo. The first time the Leo turned from hot to cold, was when the Pisces had a talk with the Leo. Then the Leo started getting more friendly after I moved out. Then all of a sudden he backs away again. I could see the Pisces making stuff up to scare him. The Pisces wants me back. I don't think it helped that our daughter was raving about the Leo after we all swam at the pool the other day. The Pisces thinks if I don't get the Leo that I will run back to him. That is not the case. So I'm going to ask the Leo if the Pisces has said anything to him. Certain things the Pisces said were suspicious and usually my intuitions are correct.

It's hard for a Gemini girl to be patient, but for him I'll try just about anything.