HELLLOOOOOOO!!

wow....i've missed this place. i've had to sit on my hands to stop myself firing off emails to everyone who's ever upset me in my life cos there's been no dxp to soothe my nerves.

i just wanted to post about my last message to the knobhead. just before dxp went down, there was a little flurry of messages between us...not really saying anything of significance....more dangling of the carrot from his part i think.

anyhow. i had enough. i sent the following message:

"one thing i can't get my head around is why you didn't just tell me you're 'in a relationship'. was i sposed to guess or something cos the first i knew of it was when you messaged me here (fb). do you really think i would have tried so hard to see you before had i known? i don't get you at all [name] and i don't get what happened between us any more. i just know i didn't deserve any of it."

and voila! i needed to push it all to conclusion cos it's almost a year of pathetic behaviour on my part and i've had enough. i want him to explain himself but i don't think he has the bollocks to and on that basis, i don't want him. it's been very liberating and although i would love for him to come back to me....unless he's single, i'm not interested.

i just thought that all the hurt he caused had to mean something (to me that is). why the hell was i being all playful with him after what he put me through.

so instead of waiting for him to grow a pair.....i grew a pair myself.

nah....no-one cares but i'd rather bore people virtually than in real.

Lol, trolls.

Rig! I'm glad you have made that peace with yourself (which, this situation tested you). You've conquered a big hurdle in that.

Posted by SaltMistakenedAsSugar
seriously...does anyone care?

Actually we do care,

we do want to know if things are fine with the people we share a sliver of our life with, even if it's in virtual vacuum,
we feel happy when life is fair with them,and
we do feel bad when they have to suffer disappointment or pain.

glad to know Rig about your being courageous and candid about the whole mess, now let's hope he decides to grow up---

AAAAAAnd, did he respond to your message? Good for you for putting it out there.

Good to hear from you Seraph, 🙂

oh, how I missed all of you---

yeah! i've so missed you guys!! i think a group hug is in order 🙂

yeah, he did answer tonight. obviously drunk. spelling like shit. said i'm crazy and that he wasn't in a relationship when we met. nice. so that means he found someone since and decided to just ignore my stupid outpourings rather than having the decency to tell me. i responded telling him he should've just told me. i feel sick to my stomach now. what a prize c**t he is.

gosh seraph...i missed your astute observations and cutting delivery. thanks for pointing out the obvious.

The Prides all here !!!! Who knew you could be so attached to people you have never met? I feel like crying. It's like a family reunion.

I cant believe I didnt come HERE first when DXP was resusitated. I posted over the scorpio den....my moon made me 😢

I missed you all, and def wondered what happened with CL's weds date with the Virgo last week?? Hope she pops in to update us.

And yes, Seraph does hit us over the head with some real truths. I give power to my thoughts and that makes me obsess too. That wont stop, but I CAN and DO have a choice over had to feed it, or to feed it at all. I go running a lot, that helps distract the evil committee which resides in my head. I also talk on on phone, go to 12 step meetings, create art, and email my fav friends in Europe. It all helps.

This shit will pass. And then we will get some new shit and do this shit all over again. 😛

wait? So he is in a relationship? Or he isn't in a relationship? @_@

sweaty...it says on his facebook profile that he is but he maintains he wasn't when we met and so i assume this is someone new and not that he's gone back to his ex as i assumed. that's what you get for making assumptions, lol. if my latest assumption (ffs) based on what he told me is correct, he is possibly the biggest knobhead fuckwit low-life i have ever had the displeasure of wasting my time on and i hope he and his gf are eternally happy although i doubt he will be able to sustain a relationship anyway as he hasn't managed to so far and he's 45.

i just don't get why he contacted me all those weeks ago. i was getting on with my life and now he's stirred it all up again. i have no clue what the fuck he wants but i'm not in a very giving mood right now.

^^^^^^^^

Rig, I am sorry for being a dunderhead, but I could not understand what you wrote.

Are you talking about the previous issue when he started ignoring you after his ex decided to claim him again, or is it a present situation and he is again being ambiguous about his single status?

shah...it's sooooo long-winded that it's not worth going over again. he never ignored me though....only on the few occasions i tried to pin him down to meet up and the last time that happened, in february, i decided not to bother contacting him again. so a few weeks ago, when he contacted me through facebook, i was surprised particularly as we didn't communicate on facebook in the months since we last saw eachother. it was when he did that i saw his 'in a relationship' status.

it was only ever my assumption that he went back to his ex on a LDR basis cos it would've tied in with some of the things he'd told me when we were seeing eachother. but when i asked about it, he wasn't specific in his response....he just said that he was single when we were seeing eachother. so the bottom line is that i don't know if this relationship is with his ex or someone new. if it's the latter, i am going to track him down, cut his dick off and feed it to his dog fred. LOL!!

the only thing i don't get about it all is why he would contact me when he's with someone else. i'm starting to care less about what that answer is as each day passes.

yeah well happily, i don't need compliments like that seraph!

my scorp friend was like a dog with a bone over this whole issue and he decided to do some snooping (against my wishes). it seems leo did go back to his ex on a LDR basis just as i thought. when he met me, they had genuinely split up but she had wanted him back pretty soon after we met and because it wasn't really over with him either - which he'd told me - he obviously chose to contintue with the LDR.

i can live with this scenario because it means he was being honest at least when we were seeing eachother. what i don't like is the fact that he didn't just tell me as although yeah, it would've hurt obviously, i completely get why they would want to at least try LDR as there was nothing that split them up apart from the fact she needed to have her son educated in the uk.

he doesn't need to contact me for validation of his attractiveness seraph. he's a leo ffs!!!

i think he contacted me cos in his world, he didn't do anything wrong and so is sticking by what he always said about keeping in touch. as usual, i've been reading way too much into things but that would be because of the absence of information from him. fucking libra mooners....just soooooo wishy-washy...eh seraph??

anyhow....i am most defnitely not a huge pain in the ass and there was absolutely no personality conflict. we got on great...too great really cos that's what made the come down really hard for me. just bad timing 😢

awww rig, here's a hug...i was able to stay away for 4 months with my leo and when they appear out of nowhere, damn caught me off guard. (imagine a scorp getting caught off - guard)they just know exactly what to say to make you forget your resolve. >> on my case, ex-aries is now completely off the picture but i smell a rat, just like your guy, a new girl...ill make a guess on your knobhead it's a new girl. you'll definitely need a BIG hug. im in the same deep shit, and cant get a grip on the fact why leo men had to keep baiting you when you're nearly over them, convinced of yourself that you're better off without them, started getting a semblance of a normal life without them, when in fact they're trying to seduce a new girl in their life. im out of words at the moment so you can choose between a BIG hug or ill offer to hold him down while you cut his dick...^__^

leo guy answered a phone call from a girl, called her by an endearment and not by name. when i asked who that was, said there's no one important in his life at the moment worth mentioning about. (yeah right, when you just called her "love")this same guy who tells me everything, every girl he's been involved with, months ago before i stepped back. i know you're wondering why i am back here on the same exact spot i had months ago, lurking on this threads again...im not sure either. heading out for a drink. 4 months of ignoring, not calling, not texting, getting on with my life, down the drain. *sigh...ill need a hug back when i get back...

well, if it's a new girl, he's got some bollocks as he's invited me to friend him on facebook after i made it known how i would feel if he was seeing someone new rather than having got back with his ex. i'm not accepting though cos i don't want to be just his facebook friend and also, i don't want any of our mutual friends seeing and asking me stuff about us. i've stated my case and i'm waiting for him to state his but i can guarantee that if he was with someone new, he wouldn't have the nerve to continue contacting me. i've arm wrestled him. he knows i'm tough LOL.

perhaps he was always telling me the truth...that he was in a state of headfuck and would see me on the other side of it...we'll see. i'm not in a hurry any more. ffs it's been almost a year since we saw eachother!

well RM, my former friend the Leo, Joe...he does the same thing when trying to come back into a womans zip code. he will send out test balloon emails or messages.(Im sorry I forgot to tell you this before, it just came to me). With this virgo woman from last year who he loved, but they fought like nuts cus she was crazy as hell...during their silent times, he'd send out nonsensical texts of FB msgs...saying nothing at all, hoping to get a reaction or to hook her. By your not taking the hook, it will rile him up. Though, you do run the risk of him thinking "she wont bite, fuck it". Id consider after he asks you agin about the request, you dont reply with anything to do with your situation or the personal letter you've sent him, but rather with the friendly yet detached manner...

It lets him know you are not totally ignoring him, just that you are a busy, confident woman whose life doesnt revolve round answering FB requests!

i want to push him to the point where he has to state his case or just fuck off and leave me alone. this bullshit train crashed back in january when i gave up and i told him i'd given up on him already when he contacted me again. i would rather stick pins in my eyes than accept his friend request right now. when he contacts me again, i will take the decision about whether i will respond or not but one thing is for sure.....it's no more mrs nice guy!!

he knows i'm busy and he knows i'm confident...he also knows i can be scarey when i'm pissed off...another leo said i was the angriest white woman he'd ever seen, lol...he's trying to draw me back in with the same indirect tactics he used to fuck me over with and i am not having it!

so mr king of the jungle...you said i had met my match...let's see shall we?

The poor big leo man has no chance the angry white female scorpion.

Meow...!

he's actually the only man on my radar that does stand a chance but i'm not gonna let him know it 🙂

-facepalm-

Posted by Huntress
-facepalm-

hahahah!! you are soooo cute huntress. my life is littered with facepalm moments. one day i'll learn, lol.

😛

Posted by BigGirlPanties
The poor big leo man has no chance the angry white female scorpion.

Meow...!

hahaha, met his match wouldn't u agree...but u know rig, he'll be challenged you got the nerve to ignore him. i wanna make a bet he's gonna pester you with more than just FB requests after this (till you give in and he's comfortable he lured you back in)oh well, he's in for a surprise...scorp on ignore mode: chilling. he's gonna get confused big time, thought he knew exactly everything about how to twist women in his paws (before he met you)glad you stood your ground. this i want to see. (*grabs popcorn)

I say just drop the situation forever because it's just ridiculous to even bother thinking about it. It's always one extreme or the other. I've seen Seraph's advice go unused way too many times.

It's just an endless cycle of destruction. The saddest part is that you knowingly continue with it, despite it being a parasitic situation that even you recognize.

huntress: as with many other people who make threads about relationships here....you only ever hear one side of the story. also and this is a confession which i believe others here could make...sometimes the details that are given are done so in order to elicit a certain response or to defend against a certain opinion expressed OR simply to provide some kind of entertainment. in other words, neither you, seraph or any one of us here - including me - is in a position to say whether someone should drop a situation or not or indeed whether someone should act upon advice given or not.

yes, i knowingly continue with him because i have feelings for the man? perhaps i am supposed to cast them to one side flippantly as you suggest. but, not just because i'm a scorpio but because of who i am, my feelings take one hell of a lot to develop in the first place and NEVER develop without stimulus from the other party and they simply can't be switched off.

in my life in general, i continue with my day-to-day as i always have. i have a policy of holding my head high no matter WHAT my circumstances are. i also have a policy of not discussing very personal issues with my friends unless it's in the context of something they are going through because i tend to be the shoulder others cry on.

this is why i come to an anonymous forum. so that i can express things i don't feel i can in real the things i say do NOT represent who i am....which applies to all of us here.

i appreciate advice and comments on anything that i post here but i will not be called 'ridiculous' and i'm very surprised at your tone. you clearly find this whole topic very irritating and so on that basis, perhaps you would be better maintaining a dignified silence.

Posted by o0phoenix0o

Posted by BigGirlPanties
The poor big leo man has no chance the angry white female scorpion.

Meow...!

hahaha, met his match wouldn't u agree...but u know rig, he'll be challenged you got the nerve to ignore him. i wanna make a bet he's gonna pester you with more than just FB requests after this (till you give in and he's comfortable he lured you back in)oh well, he's in for a surprise...scorp on ignore mode: chilling. he's gonna get confused big time, thought he knew exactly everything about how to twist women in his paws (before he met you)glad you stood your ground. this i want to see. (*grabs popcorn)

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this isn't tactical ignoring phoenix. i don't want to talk to him. he can do what he likes to try and 'lure' me back but i simply can't be 'lured' that easily as he should well remember from the beginning.

i won't tolerate dishonesty in any relationships...including with my kids....and to me, not communicating truth is the same as not being honest. if he wants a response from me, he has to say something of substance otherwise, i have no interest. i am 100% alpha woman. most men know it. he needs reminding but i happen to know others are doing that for me. nevertheless, he doesn't step up? i won't acknowledge him. i'm tired of fucking around. got more important things to deal with.

i feel like i've been made out to be completely stupid on the leo board...like a lovestruck kid. all because i have the front to express a little vulnerability with this man.

well, i'm not stupid and neither am i insecure or 'easy' as has also been suggested in past threads. this is the trouble when you say too much to people which is another reason i don't share confidences in real.

You're overreacting to a statement made in relevance for your sake. Instead of reading my post and reacting with your emotions, take a step back and see where I'm coming from.

R1g, you know that I care for you and see your true quality. Don't question that and never even think for a second I am seeing you as anything else than wonderful. That being said, if I was irritated and didn't give a fuck about you - I wouldn't even bother reading your words, let alone post.

I do see where you're coming from with your response.. but I don't think you perceived my intended tone and are reacting emotionally with your words. You're emotionally charged from this situation and reacting like you have been just amps that up as well.

Lastly - I never called you ridiculous. Don't put words in my mouth. Reread that sentence because it never stated such.

'I say just drop the situation forever because it's just ridiculous to even bother thinking about it. '

ergo..i am ridiculous because i am bothering to think about it.

that's what made me react huntress. i agree tone is something very difficult to transmit in writing and likewise, i care for you too 🙂

i must admit i have taken a step back and re-read your post and no, i don't see where you're coming from with that. in particular with regard to seraph's 'advice'. he doesn't really advise as such, he tends to give his opinion on what the poster has done to deserve the treatment she's getting. he tends to criticise rather than advise - on the boards at least. i'm sure he will openly admit that on occasion he says things to provoke reaction or debate...don't we all.

everyone has an opinion but it's not the same as advice at all.

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
huntress: as with many other people who make threads about relationships here....you only ever hear one side of the story. also and this is a confession which i believe others here could make...sometimes the details that are given are done so in order to elicit a certain response or to defend against a certain opinion expressed OR simply to provide some kind of entertainment. in other words, neither you, seraph or any one of us here - including me - is in a position to say whether someone should drop a situation or not or indeed whether someone should act upon advice given or not.

yes, i knowingly continue with him because i have feelings for the man? perhaps i am supposed to cast them to one side flippantly as you suggest. but, not just because i'm a scorpio but because of who i am, my feelings take one hell of a lot to develop in the first place and NEVER develop without stimulus from the other party and they simply can't be switched off.

in my life in general, i continue with my day-to-day as i always have. i have a policy of holding my head high no matter WHAT my circumstances are. i also have a policy of not discussing very personal issues with my friends unless it's in the context of something they are going through because i tend to be the shoulder others cry on.

this is why i come to an anonymous forum. so that i can express things i don't feel i can in real the things i say do NOT represent who i am....which applies to all of us here.

i appreciate advice and comments on anything that i post here but i will not be called 'ridiculous' and i'm very surprised at your tone. you clearly find this whole topic very irritating and so on that basis, perhaps you would be better maintaining a dignified silence.

I COULD NOT HAVE SAID THIS ANY BETTER !!!

So true, true, true...... brava!

Posted by R1g0rM0rT1s
huntress: as with many other people who make threads about relationships here....you only ever hear one side of the story. also and this is a confession which i believe others here could make...sometimes the details that are given are done so in order to elicit a certain response or to defend against a certain opinion expressed OR simply to provide some kind of entertainment. in other words, neither you, seraph or any one of us here - including me - is in a position to say whether someone should drop a situation or not or indeed whether someone should act upon advice given or not.

yes, i knowingly continue with him because i have feelings for the man? perhaps i am supposed to cast them to one side flippantly as you suggest. but, not just because i'm a scorpio but because of who i am, my feelings take one hell of a lot to develop in the first place and NEVER develop without stimulus from the other party and they simply can't be switched off.

in my life in general, i continue with my day-to-day as i always have. i have a policy of holding my head high no matter WHAT my circumstances are. i also have a policy of not discussing very personal issues with my friends unless it's in the context of something they are going through because i tend to be the shoulder others cry on.

this is why i come to an anonymous forum. so that i can express things i don't feel i can in real the things i say do NOT represent who i am....which applies to all of us here.

i appreciate advice and comments on anything that i post here but i will not be called 'ridiculous' and i'm very surprised at your tone. you clearly find this whole topic very irritating and so on that basis, perhaps you would be better maintaining a dignified silence.

I COULD NOT HAVE SAID THIS ANY BETTER !!!

So true, true, true...... brava!

Posted by Huntress
You're overreacting to a statement made in relevance for your sake. Instead of reading my post and reacting with your emotions, take a step back and see where I'm coming from.

R1g, you know that I care for you and see your true quality. Don't question that and never even think for a second I am seeing you as anything else than wonderful. That being said, if I was irritated and didn't give a fuck about you - I wouldn't even bother reading your words, let alone post.

I do see where you're coming from with your response.. but I don't think you perceived my intended tone and are reacting emotionally with your words. You're emotionally charged from this situation and reacting like you have been just amps that up as well.

Lastly - I never called you ridiculous. Don't put words in my mouth. Reread that sentence because it never stated such.

Dearest Huntress....I too care for YOU. You are so very bright, kind and delightful.

I do have to say, however, this post and the previous one to RM comes across as very egotisical and omipotent. You are not God, love, please step off the pedastal. I perceived your comments to RM the same as she, so perhaps it is not the readers perception that is skewed but the writer's manner?

It did come off as ofeensive, imo. I dont think you meant it that way, but its the way I see it.

Yes, because I responded thinking I was God. Ugh.

The context of a post is meant only as the writer intends it. I've never claimed to have tact in my nature but that doesn't automatically leave my intentions to hurt or look down on equals. That alone isn't qualities I've ever held or resorted to for that matter.

What the fuck ever. Evidently I just can't fucking come off the way I mean or don't make any goddamn sense to others. I give up.

Good luck.

oh dear seraph. you are disappointing me right now. please don't think to take me on as you are absolutely no match for me.

i can say what the fuck i like about myself, my circumstances and relationships. i can one day be this way and i can one day be that way but whatever way i'm swinging, i'm honest. i am open to opinions on whatever i post, even if i don't like what i read...otherwise why the fuck am i here—

but i will not be spoken down to and whatever way you dress it, huntress was implying i have been ridiculous and you have attempted to back that up with your quoting of my posts.

and you were also patronising...would you prefer another synonym—

if we're throwing judgements around here then i would suggest you both at times have your heads way too far up your own asses. you may think you're in a superior place in your own relationships right now and that your life is sorted but i have been on this planet a lot longer than both of you and had my fair share of life experiences. i come to dxp for INSIGHT not advice and i certainly don't fucking come here to be the butt of your sarcasm.

i admit my feelings. i admit weakness and vulnerability. THAT IS NOT RIDICULOUS. it is called being human. you should try it some time instead of just rattling off your platitudes as though they have some kind of importance.

I find it one of the greatest challenges on the internet: not to get entangled emotionally in online conversation. So few indicators of emotions, body language etc. are present, or rather, a lot of people are severely handicapped when it comes to linguistic accuracy and sarcasm. I find that many go online to portrait themselves as someone they're not, but get caught up in that realm and actually touch some people, both in a good way and a bad way. Perhaps they're so absorbed by cyberspace, that their own real life has become the less important alternative. Wife/husband, kids, job, and friends, must all wait for things to explode and shatter, before said person can return to normal.

I once had a semi-romantic thing going with a person on www.anybodyoutthere.com. We exchanged pictures, none nude, emails and laughs and all. I knew she was married and it never came to anything more than harmless flirting, but I found myself drawn to this person, because it was an easy way to be recognized by someone and feel a little bit of comfort. Time passed and so did the fling. When I returned to talk to her in the forums, she was doing the same thing with other people. Some, complete moronic trolls, others horny young boys who had probably just discovered the sensation of masturbation. I felt somewhat cheated, or rather I felt that she owed it to her husband and kids, at least, to leave those people alone, at the very least, act less slutty with them. Reality is rarely reality, when virtual.

oh dear seraph. you are disappointing me right now. please don't think to take me on as you are absolutely no match for me.

i can say what the fuck i like about myself, my circumstances and relationships. i can one day be this way and i can one day be that way but whatever way i'm swinging, i'm honest. i am open to opinions on whatever i post, even if i don't like what i read...otherwise why the fuck am i here—

but i will not be spoken down to and whatever way you dress it, huntress was implying i have been ridiculous and you have attempted to back that up with your quoting of my posts.

and you were also patronising...would you prefer another synonym—

if we're throwing judgements around here then i would suggest you both at times have your heads way too far up your own asses. you may think you're in a superior place in your own relationships right now and that your life is sorted but i have been on this planet a lot longer than both of you and had my fair share of life experiences. i come to dxp for INSIGHT not advice and i certainly don't fucking come here to be the butt of your sarcasm.

i admit my feelings. i admit weakness and vulnerability. THAT IS NOT RIDICULOUS. it is called being human. you should try it some time instead of just rattling off your platitudes as though they have some kind of importance.

Posted by thousandmph
I find it one of the greatest challenges on the internet: not to get entangled emotionally in online conversation. So few indicators of emotions, body language etc. are present, or rather, a lot of people are severely handicapped when it comes to linguistic accuracy and sarcasm. I find that many go online to portrait themselves as someone they're not, but get caught up in that realm and actually touch some people, both in a good way and a bad way. Perhaps they're so absorbed by cyberspace, that their own real life has become the less important alternative. Wife/husband, kids, job, and friends, must all wait for things to explode and shatter, before said person can return to normal.

I once had a semi-romantic thing going with a person on www.anybodyoutthere.com. We exchanged pictures, none nude, emails and laughs and all. I knew she was married and it never came to anything more than harmless flirting, but I found myself drawn to this person, because it was an easy way to be recognized by someone and feel a little bit of comfort. Time passed and so did the fling. When I returned to talk to her in the forums, she was doing the same thing with other people. Some, complete moronic trolls, others horny young boys who had probably just discovered the sensation of masturbation. I felt somewhat cheated, or rather I felt that she owed it to her husband and kids, at least, to leave those people alone, at the very least, act less slutty with them. Reality is rarely reality, when virtual.

high five thousand!!!!! 🙂

i must admit that in the past i've become involved in internet 'things' but i avoid them like the plague now. no-one is as they seem in real life let alone in the ether. i need to see the whites of someones' eyes before making a judgement. when i was a bit lost on the internet, there were reasons...going through a marriage breakup, then health problems, living on a mountain in the middle of nowhere, lol. i guess they usually attract people in similar circumstances cos it's like living vicariously through the internet. people can cheat without being perceived as cheating. that's why for me, it's something i try and steer clear of.

that fabulous expression i heard on american tv springs to mind.....your ass must be jealous of the shit coming out of your mouth!

i will tell you that as it happens i was completely wrong with my assumptions with him and most of my threads contained statements that i made without certain knowledge of his situation. one thing i know - because i've heard it from him recently - is that he did NOT use me or lead me on....he DIDN'T block me on facebook, it was his privacy levels...he is NOT actually in a relationship...it was simply the timing was wrong and he wasn't ready for a relationship with anyone..his ex included.

and you can go right ahead and knock that down by saying he's probably been fucking around in the interim but i'll pre-warn you that so have i and i wouldn't expect anything less from him either.

so you were wrong AND i was wrong. you think the attraction was in my head when actually his rejection was in my head. this is what i mean about people proffering 'advice' or sarcastic 'opinion' when they don't know the facts. i've not had a problem in any of the many threads i've made about this because i'm quite open to hear what anyone has to say and yes, i have been a lovestruck idiot on occasion....that a crime these days??

btw...where DO you get the time for all that copying and pasting??

'And she was right. Are you going listen (finally)? Or will this go on for another 6 months? Are you looking for a resolution?'


HAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! see how that statement has now been rendered ridiculous in itself? i think i'll pass on 'listening' and find my own resolution if you don't mind.

god almighty!! the ego!! unbelievable.

oh my, ill back read in a second but just want to let you know rig that i lurk here because i learn from other people like you...im not sure if you've read my thread here and i dont feel ur a lovestruck kid. im just so amazed you were able to stood your ground (coz i thought i was but there were those nights i thought of crawling back to my old destructive self, lol)

be easy on rig..i understand where she's coming from because i went thru the same exact thing a few months back... https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/stay-or-back-away-scorp-f-29-leo-m-28-2842983/. she is only writing to vent out. no need to judge what she or she may not do. it's easier to write things when your being emotional, then go back and read it after a few days instead of making a fool out of yourself over and over again. it takes time to get rid of the emotions out of our system because we don't normally allow people to get that close and half of the time you're at war with yourself why you allowed yourself to get vulnerable with that kind of man. i am trying to curb it but intense feelings needs a channel or it'll build up. one day i can decide I've had enough but might decide to throw caution to the wind the next day, that's the dynamics of human emotion. i know we cannot let our hearts rule our head but that's why i come here, when my heart's too stupid to hear my head, i read back what i wrote and i get a good bashing and a wake up call.

be easy on rig..i understand where she's coming from because i went thru the same exact thing a few months back... https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/leo/stay-or-back-away-scorp-f-29-leo-m-28-2842983/. she is only writing to vent out. no need to judge what she or she may not do. it's easier to write things when your being emotional, then go back and read it after a few days instead of making a fool out of yourself over and over again. it takes time to get rid of the emotions out of our system because we don't normally allow people to get that close and half of the time you're at war with yourself why you allowed yourself to get vulnerable with that kind of man. i am trying to curb it but intense feelings needs a channel or it'll build up. one day i can decide I've had enough but might decide to throw caution to the wind the next day, that's the dynamics of human emotion. i know we cannot let our hearts rule our head but that's why i come here, when my heart's too stupid to hear my head, i read back what i wrote and i get a good bashing and a wake up call.

sorry 'bout the double post (*blaming my crappy net)

i didn't even read your last coment seraph. you are now talking complete bullshit and you have pissed me off big time. you present your 'opinions' as though they are truth...your ego makes you do that cos you're one of these people who may never be right but you are definitely never wrong.

well you are wrong on this occasion. you were completely wrong about him and furthermore, you totally underestimated me too.

i'm OFFENDED by the fact that you and huntress have taken this thread as a chance to stick the boot in with your comments about a situation you are not in the possession of the facts on. yeah, everyone does that here cos they only ever get one side of the story but only the trolls get personal and i feel you in particular seraph, got very personal indeed.

you don't have the right to talk to me the way you do and anyone dared in public i would punch their lights out. it's rude, disrespectful and unnecessary.

it may have been enjoyable for you to put me down like that but it wasn't hugely entertaining from my point of view.

if you're just going to pour scorn on me every time i mention this topic, i'm not gonna bother. i don't need your advice anyway...i was merely reporting the situation as it has changed and even then, significant details were left out. i can take it from here though...i'm a big girl and i will sort out my own issues with him privately.

anyhow...thanks for completely spoiling my dxp experience. i'm not an overly sensitive person and i can take a bit of banter but 'advice' dressed up as a put down, i don't need.

no pecheresse...maybe he should've kept his mouth shut. you too are assuming that seraph is the seer for all things to do with leo men but he's not. you too are still talking as though his take on the situation is the correct one and i'm not going to go into too much detail (because i'm not putting myself out there for more of the same treatment) - but i know his take is completely wrong....heard it from the lions mouth myself.

no man will ever wrap me around his little finger. i don't play games and i don't get easily sucked in or 'lured'. ffs, i'm a damn grown up!! the only thing i feel foolish for is the fact that i've talked about this on the leo board because certain people here have drawn some very inaccurate conclusions from the start and have clung to them despite the fact, i know them not to be correct. seraph's sneering tone is remarkably like that of my ex husband (aries). he talked a whole load of bollocks too...still does. never admits he's wrong and never climbs down. this is exactly what's happened here.

obviously, the leo board is not the place to talk about relationships...unless you don't mind being labelled ridiculous for daring to show vulnerability.

and for goodness sake....maybe seraph should explain what the leo would've done had he ever been into me—?? why's that exactly? maybe he should describe the man's personality to me while he's at it as seraph clearly knows him better than i do!!! i'm talking about a REAL LIFE situation here and not some internet thing...i'm dealing with real facts and he's making assumptions based on what i write but still expresses himself as though he knows the status quo better than i do. i didn't mind that at all until last night when for some reason, opinions became scornful.

Lmao.

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Lmao.

DXP put all us lions on time out so we could regroup and stop attacking each other.


So lets begin where the first post began....Helllllooooo Ive missed you all!!!